A few days before my wedding, I was forbidden to go to the hospital.
When getting married, especially when picking up relatives in the morning, the customs in many places will keep the pick-up team away from some unlucky places, such as hospitals, courts, prisons and so on. So how many days can I go to the hospital after I get married? The pressure varies from place to place, some say three days, some say a week, and some even say a month. Of course, this is unfounded. If you feel unwell, it is recommended to go to the hospital as soon as possible to avoid aggravating your illness, which is not good.
Other marriage taboos
1. You can't take off the happy word too early after marriage, but it's better to wait for it to fall off naturally.
2. Within one month of marriage, it is best not to take part in white affairs, because it is unlucky to take part in white affairs just after marriage.
It is best not to attend other people's weddings within one month of marriage, which is very taboo in our traditional customs. So it's best not to attend other people's weddings for a month.
If you return to China after marriage, you need to get back to your husband's house before sunset. If you really can't go back, you should sleep in separate rooms to prevent conflicts between the bride and her family.
5. When the bride meets, the bride avoids seeing. There is a custom of "brides avoid meeting each other" in northern Henan. Two brides who have been married for less than a month are forbidden to meet each other. If you have to meet, you should worship every once in a while, otherwise it will be unlucky. ?
6. It is forbidden to clean the wedding room prematurely, especially the general cleaning. Getting married is a happy event. Cleaning the room too early will sweep away the joy in the room, which is very unlucky, so you new people must not clean it too early!
The taboo that brides don't need to visit relatives and friends during their honeymoon has been handed down from ancient times. Because most people have a taboo psychology towards the bride during their honeymoon, and think it is unlucky for others, and this ominous feeling will not be eliminated until after January, so the bride can't stop by during the honeymoon. In particular, some relatives and friends with elderly people should pay special attention not to visit during the honeymoon period. ?