Our life is actually such a few decades, and it can be said that our life is made up of time. It is not time that passes every minute, but our lives.
The so-called fate is how we use life, and what we get in life is how we use life, in other words, how we use time.
In Zhou Zuoluo's time management class, I also put forward the same view as Uncle Cat. The porridge teacher used a particularly accurate and vivid word, called "time bet", which means where we bet time, and time determines where our life goes.
Just as Uncle Cat said, we should gamble our time on high-value people and things, just as we gamble our money where there is a high probability that it will bring us benefits. Different time bets will lead to different long-term "returns".
One is space. Because space can affect our attitude towards things, and attitude can shape our behavior, and behavior can change our lives.
We all know the story of "Three Major Movements in Meng Mu". In modern times, why should everyone prepare school districts for their children, why are everyone willing to run to big cities, and why should we pay special attention to the surrounding environment when buying a house?
All the above are macro-environments. In addition, we should pay more attention to "small environment" and "small space".
For example, if you want to learn and improve, don't choose a particularly comfortable place. You'd better go to the library or a quiet place where you can concentrate.
For example, if you want to be positive and optimistic, don't get close to people who are prone to emitting "negative energy".
For example, if you want to lose weight, don't put a lot of snacks in your space. You can put some fitness equipment in the space, put up some posters about loving beans, and write some inspiring words.
In a word, "space" is our choice, and our time is spent in these spaces, so we must be careful. Choose those spaces that can make your body, mind and spirit more positive, instead of making yourself mediocre or degenerate.
The second is people. We can't live independently, we must have contact with others. The quality of our life depends to a great extent on who we want to be and who we are influenced by.
All the people around us: lovers, relatives, colleagues, leaders, friends, teachers, customers, suppliers, etc. , is imperceptibly affecting us, even changing us, shaping us.
Therefore, we should bet our time on those who can make us better, especially when choosing the other half, we should think more and decide carefully. So are friends.
If we want to be what we want to be, we should approach our example, "study him", imitate him and learn from him. Instead of being with people who complain or emit negative energy all day.
Then a higher level of thinking is to become a valuable person and let others bet on us!
The third is things. A series of events and experiences in the past have shaped us today. So what will happen to us in the future depends on what we bet our time on at this time.
The focus of our life is different at different times, and we will bet our time on different things. We study at school most of the time; Most of the time after work is spent on improving yourself; After becoming parents, we devote part of our time to raising children and establishing a harmonious parent-child relationship.
After a period of time, we will find that everything we have gambled on, big or small, has a result.
So where do we gamble our time at the moment and what we will gain in the future. For example, now that we gamble on writing articles and operating from the media, after one year, two years, three years and five years, we will inevitably be different from those who have no goals every day.
So if we find that we don't seem to get anything when we do the monthly summary and the annual summary, we must be betting on unimportant things.
June is coming to an end and will start in the second half of 202 1. Where do you want to gamble your time?
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