I hope she is strong, independent and powerful, but I instinctively want to protect her from all harm.
When you leave, a good woman will continue to live, and she will pass on everything you taught her to her descendants.
Now, early in the morning, I am leaning on the bed, feeling a little cold, and I have helped the little people around me to cover the quilt. She pushed hard twice and didn't push away. She was honest and went on sleeping.
327 days from birth to now. Every night, take this little guy to sleep; Every morning, when she wakes up.
Life seems to have changed since that night a year ago. Because I have a daughter. A sense of mission from top to bottom shocked me, caught me off guard and forced me to accept it. What I think most is, my daughter, what will she be like in the future? How will her kindergarten, primary school, junior high school, high school, university, master's degree and doctor's degree be spent? At every stage of her life, what will she experience and what will be the danger? When she meets someone's unkindness, how will she respond?
Every time I think about this, an almost crazy idea always comes to my mind. I'm sure I can't stop her from leaving my footsteps in the future, so I can follow her! You go to college somewhere else, ok, I'll go too! You will be a graduate student. Can I take the exam with you? If you want to get married, I will go to your city to live; When you have children, I will take care of them for you. ...
Only in this way can your mother take care of you when you are sick; Only in this way can your mother protect you when you are in danger; Only in this way, when you miss your mother, your mother is around.
Every time I think about it, I will say in my head, I am really crazy. Calm down, I need to think about how I should raise my daughter!
"Every time I see you, I feel like I want to protect you." This sentence is common in all kinds of film and television dramas and novels. The protected girl must be the weak in Jiao Jiao and have a miserable life or painful experience. I hope the person who said this sentence is my daughter, not the person who heard it. In your childhood, I will give you a sense of security, you will have a happy family and a strong mother. But that doesn't mean I will do everything for you. I hope you can be strong and independent.
A person's education is reflected in all aspects, but it is fundamental to be considerate of others. When you are sensible, the first thing I will teach you will be "Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you". This also includes the behavior of all other people you don't like, so don't have it yourself. Including swearing, unpunctuality, dishonesty, impoliteness, untidiness, etc!
To be an educated person, you must like reading, literature, history, politics, philosophy … whatever, you will find what you like.
To be an educated person, you must be caring, you will sympathize with the mentally retarded, you will help those in need, and you will become stronger.
To be an educated person, you must make people feel comfortable. Everyone likes talking to you and getting along with you.
Education does not mean Excellence. You can't be excellent, but you need to be educated!
I always believed in one thing. Every time I experience something, I will leave a vaccine in my body to improve our resistance to it. I never thought that your grades can always be among the best and you can experience any ups and downs; I don't expect you to be naturally likable. No one has this obligation except your parents, but you can make others like your cultivation. You can even be obese for a while and lose weight successfully through your own efforts; You can talk about a failed relationship before going to college and let your mother accompany you through this difficult time; You may not have a strong body, but you must be healthy ...
I hope you can realize all this before you leave me. Let me grow up with you! I can also let you take your own armor after you leave me, so that you won't be overwhelmed by any difficulties!
I will read "Adopted Daughter" carefully, word for word. I dare not be vague about how to make you strong, independent and educated and keep you away from harm. I hope that one day when I leave, you, as an excellent woman, will continue to live a good life.