Mr. and Mrs. Huang Lei have always emphasized respect for Huang Duoduo's education. Huang Lei once said in an interview that he would not read many diaries and mobile phones. Children should have their own secrets, which are the most precious wealth in her heart and should be respected. Besides, children have their own lives. Parents should guide correctly, not criticize. The most important thing is to respect them.
Family is the most basic unit of human life, and it undertakes the basic social function of raising and educating children. Family is very important to the development of children and adolescents, the acquisition of knowledge, the cultivation of ability, the cultivation of moral character and the formation of personality, and the way of family education determines the effect of family education and has a subtle influence on children's learning and growth.
Today, we will talk about one thing that Sun Li and Huang Lei have surpassed many parents in their daughter education: encouraging and accepting children from the heart.
On July 20 18, Dodo and his sister participated in a fashion show in Paris. Sun Lifa Weibo said: I got a call before entering the program, and my sister said she didn't want to go to the runway. I comforted her a lot and said that she was accompanied by her sister, but she still hesitated and expressed some fear. Then Dodo hung up the phone in a hurry, and we don't know if her sister can finish the first catwalk before the opening. When I saw my sister holding out her little hand, my eyes were red, for my sister's little courage and great commitment. "
"Give my sister a little courage and give her a big promise."
Sun Li and his wife in Huang Lei must often praise their children in private, which makes them such confident and generous sisters on the stage.
How many children want to have a mother who is good at discovering her own advantages and can praise her generously. This not only refers to the study of book knowledge, but many parents judge whether their children are excellent by their grades. Children with poor grades are not good at everything. I remember the first time I learned to skip rope when I was a child, and I ran happily to tell my mother that I had nothing to do.
Toto has no trouble at all in this respect. Sun Li especially likes to bask in the progress of her children on the Weibo. Of course, she is not only studying, but also learning to make small crafts, which makes her happy for a long time. Toto learned to knit for the first time, and Sun Li was happy to send Weibo that he was much better than himself. However, this little video was scolded by many bar people who lacked love since childhood. Many people didn't see the kindness and light of the girl, but they caught the ring on the child's hand. Because Duoduo wears a small ring on her ring finger, some people directly scold Duoduo for being precocious, and some even directly say that she is married, right?
Of course, some people talk about things with Duoduo's ear holes, thinking that Duoduo's behavior is not like a good girl.
This world, given the definition of life for growth, can only be good? The road to education is always an unknown journey of exploration. Many people exaggerate a small event. In fact, the girl's world is full of longing and exploration, and she explores the beauty of the world in search.
It also disappointed many bar masters, and soon Sun Li willfully spread out the beautiful photos of Niang Sa 'er. Not only a lot, but Mei Duo Jr. also brought sapphire star earrings. Even if there is more gossip in this world, it is still fearless and unaffected. This painting style is really cute. It is really a kind of happiness for children to have such a mother.
When it comes to respect for a lot, Huang Lei said:
"I never treated her like a child. She is a considerate person. She has her secrets, her thoughts and her life. She does not belong to me. We are independent individuals. I won't impose my will on her. We get along like friends. I want to teach her that this is right and that is wrong. I don't like to pretend to be my father. In my opinion, it is better for her to experience it herself. If she doesn't do something, she will bear the consequences of not doing it and be responsible for herself. "