We should have a correct understanding of ourselves, whether in study or work, we should have a clear understanding of ourselves, define our own abilities and development direction, and know ourselves in many ways. The following is a correct understanding of yourself.
Know yourself correctly 1 1. How to know yourself correctly
In real life, people are playing different roles in order to keep consistent and harmonious with the real world. For example, we play children in front of parents, parents in front of children, subordinates in front of leaders, leaders in front of subordinates, confidants in front of good friends, and we are just passers-by in front of strangers.
The role itself determines the * * * outline of the actor, but due to the difference of "self", the same role may also show completely different performances. Obviously, role-playing is very important to know yourself, which is also the method that people usually use.
If a person believes that he is a capable and talented person, then he will exert all the talents that meet his recognition; If a person thinks he is a fool and a loser, then he can't play his true potential. As long as a person has determined what kind of person he is, he must go on unswervingly, no matter what others think or comment.
The key to the problem is whether your own identity with yourself is accurate. If a person's self-identity is wrong, that kind of wrong identity will seriously affect and trouble his life. People's self-identity can be changed, and life will change with the change of self-identity When a person is dissatisfied with his present situation, he needs to reshape himself according to the following steps.
Second, change yourself and reshape yourself.
The first step is to find your own life role model and set your own life goals.
Write down the conditions you want for self-identity, and then seriously think about who has these conditions? Can I imitate them? Imagine that you have integrated into this new self-identity. How should you breathe in this identity? How to get there? How to speak? What do you think? How do you feel? If you really want to expand your self-identity and life, then you must make up your mind about what kind of person you want to be from now on. You should go back to your childhood mentality, be enthusiastic about the future, and list all the qualities that a successful life must have.
The second part, list your action plan.
In order to keep in line with this new role in life. At this time, you should think about how to achieve your goal. You need to establish a brand-new image in the crowd. You should pay special attention to what kind of friends you make. Your success has a lot to do with the friends you make. Let your new friends strengthen your self-identity rather than weaken it.
The third step is to remind yourself every day.
Don't let your goals fade or disappear. This last step is to let everyone around you know about your new self-identity, and more importantly, let yourself know that you should use this new self-identity to remind, warn and grasp yourself every day. After establishing a new self-identity, no matter how bad the surrounding environment is, no matter how jealous some people around you are, you should unite, eliminate all kinds of interference, overcome all difficulties, and strive to realize your values and your beautiful dreams.
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Only by knowing yourself, knowing your own advantages and disadvantages, and fostering strengths and avoiding weaknesses, can we go down to earth in life. If you just muddle along with the mentality of "being a monk can't hit the bell", then your road to success is slim. Only by knowing yourself can you control your own destiny. A person can know himself, reflect on himself, abandon some outdated concepts, transform himself and broaden his horizons, and his future will be worth looking forward to.
Know yourself correctly. How to know yourself
Self-knowledge refers to the insight and understanding of oneself, including self-observation and personal evaluation. Self-observation refers to the awareness of his own cognition, logical thinking and will; Personal evaluation refers to the identification and evaluation of one's own thoughts, expectations, personal behavior and personality characteristics, and is the key standard of self-adjustment.
1. Know yourself and who you are.
People who can treat themselves correctly hope to describe major events in their lives from different angles, mainly including different and diverse expressions of malignant events. When they tell each classic story, it is usually not easy to get only 1 aspect of "what happened". They will deepen and describe what happened in a deeper state of mind, or describe what happened from different angles.
2. Know yourself through others.
If you want to get a more comprehensive and accurate brand image of 1 in the eyes of others, you must master people's views on people in many aspects of people's daily life: lovers, basin friends, family members, friends ... So, you can do an anonymous questionnaire survey of this qq group online. Design some practical questions to grasp how others think of themselves.
Second, know yourself and accept yourself.
Know yourself and accept yourself is a book published by Wanjuan Publishing Company on September 1 day, 2065438. The creator is seligman and the interpreter is Ren Jun..
Know yourself and accept yourself. This book will subvert what you once thought was right. Can dieting and slimming exceed the actual effect of slimming? Can smoking and drinking be successful? From this book, you can clearly understand what you can change and what you can't change, which you must accept. From the perspective of the probability of change and the limitation of microorganisms, Dr. seligman helps you focus your insufficient time and energy on these changeable characteristics, and on this basis, find the most important way to improve yourself.
Everyone has shortcomings, but this does not endanger food, clothing, housing and transportation and communication with relatives and friends. People are very strong and can play different roles, happy, sad, angry, greedy and selfish, all for the sake of giving up comfort and consideration. If many people are extreme, it means they are happy. However, most people don't know themselves, because people's manners are not their own. Seligman used his happiness concept to let us know ourselves more truly and accept ourselves more honestly.
Third, how to know yourself and know yourself.
1. Ask friends around you what they think of you.
Pot friends who tell people everything are very clear about our daily life, growing habits and personality characteristics. A friend's true comments can be said to be his own personal experience. Maybe I can analyze what is true and what is false without clearing up some outdated knowledge and having the necessary insight. Learn to see yourself from friends' comments, understand yourself and correct yourself.
2. What I really think in my heart
No matter what you say, only you can understand your inner voice. People will be happy and think only if they keep their true thoughts in their hearts. Just like you are greedy today, you love to eat this and that. If you refuse this idea in your heart, I will be slow. Follow your heart and you are yourself. To know yourself correctly and properly, first learn to listen to your inner demands. All tenderness and sweetness are internal relations with each other, and all self-discovery is an unforgettable analysis result.
Fourth, how to know yourself correctly.
1, know yourself according to your own observation.
Understanding of one's various physical and mental states and interpersonal communication, namely, physiology itself, mental state itself and social self. For example, your figure, appearance, body shape, temperament, and relationship with others. In the whole process of self-cognition, there are emotional feelings, such as pride, confidence or lack of confidence brought by the appearance of a child.
Moreover, in the whole process of self-cognition and feeling, do people purposefully and actively adjust and manipulate people's personal behaviors and thoughts? People should be good at analyzing themselves, know themselves deeply, and know the external brand image and the essential self as soon as possible.
2. Know yourself according to others' evaluation.
As we all know, "the authorities are fascinated" and "taking people as a mirror can distinguish gains and losses". In the whole process of knowing yourself, people should take the initiative to know themselves from others. People should accept others' evaluation with an open mind, analyze others' evaluation objectively and rationally, and let people know themselves from many aspects.
3. Know yourself better according to social development.
Self-observation and others' evaluation inevitably have different subjective projections, so people can know themselves as soon as possible according to effective social development. Compare one's present self with one's past and future vertically, horizontally with people of the same age, or horizontally with similar standards, and treat oneself correctly according to a more all-round horizontal and vertical social development.
4. Know yourself according to community practice.
People can get to know themselves according to the process and results of various theme activities by signing up for various theme activities. According to the cooperation with others, analyze your interpersonal skills, analyze your organizational management level according to the organization's participation in activities, grasp the level according to reading activities and perceived professional knowledge, and immediately check for leaks and fill gaps. According to the reality of theme activities, analyze its main performance and effect, and know yourself more objectively.
5. Know yourself according to the summary of thinking.
People find that in the left and right four processes, we are all discovering and knowing ourselves. Many people are like this, but they still don't know who they are. Therefore, people should always think and sum up themselves. Write more weekly diaries and record yourself, immediately sort out and be good at summing up personal advantages and disadvantages, and master the physiology itself, mental state itself and social development self as soon as possible.
Know yourself correctly. Know yourself clearly.
Welcome to life. Life is really different. For thousands of years, eastern and western cultures have never stopped exploring themselves. In the west, we know that there is a Delphi temple in Athens to pay homage to Apollo, the sun god. For 2000 years, it stood quietly on the outskirts of Athens. On his broken and mottled stone pillars, the words "Know yourself, a world-famous person" are engraved, which ignited the brilliant philosophical course of ancient Greece.
In the East, the spirit of Confucianism, Buddhism and Taoism cannot be separated from an important ideological core. We call it "seeing the mind clearly". That is to see your heart clearly and understand your nature. However, whether we know ourselves or have a clear head, human beings are always full of curiosity about this mysterious self and this mysterious world. In today's class, let me tell you how eastern and western philosophy says to know yourself and the world. And how to find yourself in this vast world.
It seems that the phrase "know yourself" was completely put forward by the western culture of ancient Greek philosophy, but in fact, the traditional culture of China in practice should be said to be the traditional culture of the East, including Confucianism and Taoism. In fact, if you say what he said in one sentence, his thinking will be very clear. To see your heart clearly, you must see your heart sinking. Only by seeing your heart clearly can you see your heart clearly and understand yourself. Cultivate one's mind and nature.
Then when you cultivate your mind, you can give yourself a way to deal with it at the critical time. Then, when others need it, they can also treat others. Therefore, in eastern culture and eastern thought, he focused on seeking insight into the mind through various ways, and then cultivating the mind on the basis of this insight. Then ferry people by yourself.
Help yourself and try your best to help others. Of course, I know my temperament. I am an anxious person. I am anxious when I meet something. I am a slow-witted person. Why am I five minutes late for class? Because I'm late, I'll be late even longer. I seem to know my mind very well. . Not necessarily, not necessarily,
What determines your eyes? It's up to you. So be clear-headed and see nature clearly. Buddha is in your heart. Looking at the world from the perspective of Buddha, there are Buddhas everywhere you see. What about you? What is the world you see? The world you see is actually a mirror, which reflects what your heart is like. So don't think you know yourself well. Therefore, it is particularly important to be clear-headed and self-aware, so Apollo should say on this stone pillar, know yourself.