Start with a simple meal and actively express what you want and your opinions. There was once a girl who fell in love with her boyfriend at first. Every time a boy asks her out for dinner and asks her to choose a restaurant, she will say something, and finally let the boy decide. Over time, in the end, the boy won't even ask her what she wants to eat, but directly help her decide. Later, boys became more and more controlling over her, and she had no say in almost many things, so she had to let boys arrange them.