With the growth of life experience, you start to get a little tired of this flirting, and the novelty of playing the flute day after day. In the end, you always feel tired and don't love it. At this time, you can ask yourself, what is the practical significance of life? Do I really need this kind of excitement? After ambiguity, admiration, mutual confirmation and confession, everyone will reach a crossroads: do you want to live together? Or, do you need to get married?

For this matter, many people are worried: if I give you everything for a long time and there is no novelty between us, will you continue to love me? Perhaps, for a woman, the most terrible thing is that one day her husband says to you: I'm sorry, I have no sense of security for you. I don't have feelings for you as I used to.

That moment is the end of a woman. At this time, you also began to become Obasan, using the old sound effect of an old middle-aged woman to say, "Marriage is just a true feeling. After all, are we all relatives?" Or, did you start to lose weight, have plastic surgery, be spoiled and cute, and then pretend to be a beautiful girl, or did you start to keep fresh and play all kinds of hard-hitting female hand games?

The first choice is repression: trying to discredit the necessity of novelty and replacing real needs with fake perfection;

The second choice is denial: try to pretend that you are radiant and deny the reality that you won't last long.

The advantage of depression is that you can mix, but when you mix, you find that you have tried hard to suppress your needs as a woman, but I didn't expect that boy didn't like it very much. He went elsewhere to pursue novelty. This is the same as losing weight. What do you think it is? Just like the rumble in your stomach. The advantage of negation is to blow bubbles for yourself, as if you still have a lot to do, but the problem is that your presbyopia will grow back and do nothing, but what about these young girls who are reborn from the fire?

After all, it is unreliable, and we still have to live in fear. In fact, the logic of the two is the same: freshness is chewing gum, which disappears after chewing. If this is the logic, marriage doesn't need to exist, because after a long time, once the novelty has passed, you have to understand that the mistress who killed your marriage has already started on her way. Your life is like a game of whacking rats. If you think so, your life will come to a dead end.

Some people ask, is psychological counseling a kind of job as a dung digger? I'm telling you, it's not Psychological counseling is a job of constantly tasting climax. There is no such thing as falling in love. If you fall in love, you can find something that really makes you high. What if you have both orgasms? This is the heightening! Sometimes, because of other people's reply, you find yourself like this! Then you feel a great sense of release; Even when you had a dark argument and finally got to know each other, the feeling of releasing pressure and yelling made you proud of that relationship.

With such freshness, you can resist these ordinary freshness. This is also a deeper circle, and most importantly, you don't have to deceive yourself with this superficial trick. This is a bitter with sweet. It's just a pity that too many people regard marriage as chewing gum and short-term relationship as long-term relationship. They either continue to change one chewing gum after another, or live a tasteless daily life. Because people don't know how to really move towards a long-term relationship and the freshness of development.

Give you six words to keep your life fresh forever: heart, brain and devotion. With your heart, you must start with your feelings. You should explore and discover yourself with a fellow initiate lover who knows you, according to psychological counseling, team cultivation or other things. Using your brain is to rebuild your three views on rationality, such as joining an organization like Xinyuehui to upgrade people's thinking on a global scale. Investing means spending time and energy to do it as the most important job in life. So, what are you waiting for? Come on, the world is more interesting than you think.