I remember in high school, I was a chubby little girl. Because I am fat and a little inferior, I dare not contact with my male classmates. Even when I talk to a lesbian, I am too cautious to express my disagreement. I don't have the courage to make friends with beautiful girls, because I don't deserve it, and I dare not talk to male students. I think they will laugh at me from the bottom of their hearts. In high school, I liked a boy, just like many girls, who was handsome and dazzling, but because of my inferiority complex, I only dared to pay attention silently.

First, trying to get better is to let him see that I can't go on like this after I go to college, and I can't let my youth spend in a fat body. So, I started a weight loss plan. First of all, I reduced my diet and changed my diet structure. Secondly, I got a fitness card and insisted on punching in every day. Losing weight is really a persistent thing. I often fall asleep hungry at night, want to eat all kinds of high-calorie things, and even don't want to stick to fitness. Fortunately, I persisted. After three months, I lost weight 10 kg.

Second, after getting better, my vision is broader. After losing weight, it's not just the change of my figure, I become more confident. Later, I also succeeded in being with my original male god. After being together, we ate, drank and had fun like ordinary couples. After a few years, I gained weight again. I thought he would dislike me, but he didn't. Later I learned that people who love you don't love you because of your appearance. People who don't love you won't look at you even if you get better. Only by living beautifully and confidently can you attract the people you love.

Third, living beautifully can bring a better life. Most people have made more or less efforts for the other half they like. I recognize your efforts in slimming, making money, upgrading your academic qualifications and even plastic surgery, but you must not be blind in love. People who love you will love you no matter what you do. People who don't love you still don't care about you no matter how hard you try. But if you want to leave a long-term relationship, only external things are unreliable. Only when two people make progress and have a common topic can they live their own wonderful lives.