This method of treating the symptoms rather than the root cause not only affects the people around you, but also puts you in a vicious circle of life without any change. If you want to get the life you want, you need to make efforts in all aspects to achieve the corresponding matching ability.
Muffin is the envy of many women. She is not only beautiful, but also married a husband with special wealth and status. After the marriage, her first child gave birth to a chubby son, and the second child gave birth to a beautiful little princess, so a son and a woman made up a good word.
So her husband and in-laws are more fond of her. She never has to work hard for a living like other girls, and she doesn't have to worry about who will take the children and their children to school, let alone her own job, because her husband has arranged it for her, and she just needs a little snack and a little effort.
One of them, He Na, was particularly jealous of Mei Fen and always complained that she married the wrong person. Her husband is not only poor, but also lazy and unwilling to make progress. She had to worry about everything and even complain to her mother-in-law.
What everyone wants to say in their hearts is afraid of hurting her self-esteem. Before giving birth to a child before marriage, Henna had an uncontrolled diet, and her weight was always above 130 kg. She doesn't exercise or maintain her skin, and her work is perfunctory. I spent a lot of time complaining to people around me, but I didn't take practical actions to change it.
Since we want to live a good life, we must be able to match. Hannah envied Muffin for marrying a good husband. She didn't see Mei Fen's Excellence and hard work.
Muffin is a famous good man. Her husband has an investment relationship with the shrimp festival. Every time she holds a concert at the Shrimp Festival, she helps all her sisters get tickets for the concert, and they are all VIP seats.
Every time a friend is in trouble, she will lend a helping hand. When friends come to see her, she will certainly cook a table to entertain her friends.
Friends who have been in contact with her say that getting along with her is like spring breeze. She is not only humorous, but also always smiles and clap her hands. Her happiness seems to infect people around her, even if she has unhappy things in her heart, she will disappear when she gets along with her.
She insists on fitness every day, and her figure should be chest to chest, vest line to vest line, and A4 waist is A4 waist.
In order to improve her temperament, she will practice yoga twice a week. On weekends, she will learn one day to arrange flowers and one day to draw pictures.
The mural hanging on her wall is her masterpiece. The dining table in the living room, the desk in the study and the window sill in the bedroom are changed into beautiful bouquets in her hand every week, which are full of fragrance and always keep a good mood.
She is experienced in skin care. Even the mother of two babies, her skin is still delicate and fair.
She also learned baking. When she doesn't study on weekends, she makes some natural biscuits without additives, makes a pot of good tea, and sits on the sofa watching movies with her husband and two children.
At work, she pays special attention to her professionalism. No matter how busy she is every day, she will put on delicate light makeup, a proper professional suit and stiletto heels. She speaks well to customers, behaves gracefully and smiles.
Although her work was arranged by her husband, she has been promoted to customer representative through her own efforts.
You see, Mei Fen's high-quality life is not a pie falling from the sky, but she has achieved it by constantly improving her ability through accumulated efforts.
Li Yu is the front desk of a property company. The company they work for is a large listed company that produces LCD screens. She looks at the well-dressed white-collar workers passing by at work every day, and her heart is full of envy.
Once she heard the manager say that their monthly salary could easily exceed 10 thousand, and she was stimulated. Thinking that her monthly salary is not enough for living expenses, she suddenly wants to change the status quo.
Her English was always good in college and she wanted to pick it up and do foreign trade.
With the goal, she gets up early every day to recite English words, read English textbooks, watch all kinds of original English movies, listen to English tapes, save money for English training schools and teach herself foreign trade courses. After three years of hard work and persistence, she has been able to skillfully understand all English movies, English books and foreign trade knowledge.
She began to look for a job in foreign trade. Although there is no relevant professional certificate, her fluent spoken English and skilled foreign trade expertise have enabled her to find a job smoothly. Her salary has also increased several times than before, and she has truly realized financial freedom and lived an ideal life.
If Li Yu has always envied other people's glamorous white-collar life with high salary and didn't try to improve her ability, maybe she is still at the low-paid front desk of the property management company, living her ideal life by improving her ability.
We don't have to envy the glamorous life of others, it is a life that matches her ability through painstaking management. If we want to live our ideal life, we must strive to make ourselves have that ability.
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