We seem to need such a platform to express ourselves, and we have seen the lives of many friends who have not been in touch for a long time through such a platform.
Nowadays, the tool that people use most to express their mood or life state is WeChat circle of friends. So, when you brush into someone else's circle of friends, will you like it?
Some people say that whether you like it or not depends mainly on your mood. In fact, it may not only be your mood, but also whether you like other people's circle of friends, which also reveals a living mentality.
When I was in college, one of my classmates always praised me for everything.
I remember when I was a freshman, everyone was weird. I couldn't even name it, but more than 0/00 students in my class remembered a name-LD. The reason is that he added all his classmates as friends when he started school. Who made the circle of friends? He must be praising it.
So although we are not familiar with each other, we have a natural affection in our hearts.
Later, LD ran for the class committee and organized class affairs. The students seemed to support him because of that good feeling.
Of course, many advantages of LD also add a lot to yourself.
In this way, in the four years of college, every student's name appeared in every "like" in every state.
Until now, two or three years after graduation, when the name LD is mentioned again, everyone still has a mentality of "this person is not bad".
The reason for saying the above example is not to show that if we praise others, it will be good for ourselves or leave a good impression on others.
Our effortless praise can make others happy.
Looking back at our circle of friends in WeChat, the content can be roughly divided into the following categories:
First, narcissism
Beauty selfie, retouching talent, slim and long legs ...
The significance of this circle of friends is to show their appearance, to collect the praise of others, or to be happy, or to enhance self-confidence.
Of course, people have good faces and long legs. Don't you need to dry them? Do you want to leave them at home?
At this time, point a compliment, why not?
Second, vanity+showing off wealth type
Do me a favor, but the logo must be left out of the background.
Valuables, luxury hotels, luxury cars, yachts, photos, backs and things.
I've saved money for a long time and eaten dirt for several months, just to show off, to praise and to reflect the value of "expensive", I can really order it.
Three or two kinds of goods
Make fun of life.
After watching a piece of music, the positive attitude towards life is commendable.
Fourth, the soul chicken soup type
Dessert after dinner, soft words before going to bed, praise chicken soup for the soul, see you in my dream.
Five, take a meal.
Friends circle eats radio+cooking programs.
Perhaps it is polite to praise others for their hard work.
Sixth, emotional type
"Don't leave me, okay?"
"If God gives me another chance, I will cherish it."
I don't know what happened, but it was deep. The living can die and the dead can live because of love.
Is there a relationship in the world that shouldn't exist? There is no one who should not meet.
If you are moved, praise seems to be a great support.
Seven, graphic control type
These people are all photographers. They don't need to go to art galleries or photo exhibitions, so friends can enjoy photos. Remember to like it after reading it.
Eight, show love+sunbathing baby type
The demand of "show" is "praise" and the psychology of "sun" is "I am very happy".
Happiness itself is valuable, isn't it?
Whenever we are depressed, we send a lonely circle of friends and get a lot of praise. Suddenly, it is not so sad, because at that time, the circle of friends replaced gentle care, and it told you like a gentle supporter: everyone in life is carrying a heavy load, and it is not just you who is difficult.
After venting, I fell asleep the next day and deleted the haze. I am another hero!
Although life is a chicken feather, we still have to sing forward!