? Xiao Li, who entered the workplace for the first time, still has the simplicity of her student days. He is enthusiastic about his colleagues, serious about his work, and has gradually become familiar with his colleagues for a long time. He thought he would be friends until one day, a colleague Xiao Zhang asked him for money.

? Xiao Zhang said that something had happened at home and he was going back to his hometown. He does not have enough money. I hope to borrow a little, not much, just 2000 yuan. He will pay it back when he comes back. Xiao Li borrowed it happily. Although the money is almost half of his salary, in his heart, he has regarded Xiao Zhang as a friend. Friends in trouble, of course, to help.

? Not long after, Xiao Zhang returned to his hometown, and Xiao Li also specifically told him to pay attention to safety on the road. A week passed quickly, Xiao Zhang didn't come back to work, and Xiao Li didn't take it seriously. Maybe there are many things at home. In a blink of an eye, more than half a month passed, and Xiao Li was a little strange. Generally, when he asks for leave for more than three days, the leader will ask. Even if he has something to do, he can't ask for so long. So he found his colleague's WeChat and asked him what was going on. As a result, his colleagues did not reply and did not answer his voice calls. Xiao Li is still wondering if something will happen to Xiao Zhang. He asked other colleagues and said he didn't know, and Xiao Li didn't delve into it.

? On this day, Xiao Li had lunch with several other familiar colleagues as usual. Suddenly he talked about Xiao Zhang and started chatting. Xiao Li said that Xiao Zhang borrowed money from him. Unexpectedly, several other colleagues said that Xiao Zhang also borrowed money from them. Several people, together, borrowed almost 20 thousand yuan, probably thinking that Xiao Li had just joined the work for a long time, so he borrowed the least money, and other colleagues were all three or four thousand yuan, the most. Everyone thought that Xiao Zhang only borrowed money from himself, so he never told anyone. I didn't expect him to borrow everyone around him. Several people called Xiao Zhang one after another, but they couldn't get through. A few people didn't finish their meal, so they hurried up to find the leader. The leader said that Xiao Zhang only took three days off and could not be contacted. It has been treated as absenteeism. Several people realized that they might have been cheated by Xiao Zhang. What else can they do? They can't find anyone. Since then, no matter how familiar Xiao Li is with his colleagues, he no longer trusts others easily, especially in borrowing money.

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? Xiao Li's immediate leader left, and the company promoted Xiao Li's colleague Xiao Fang as the new leader. Xiao Li knows Xiao Fang very well in private, and Xiao Fang usually takes care of Xiao Li. After becoming a leader, I taught him a lot of experience. Xiao Li is very grateful to Xiao Fang and completely regards Xiao Fang as his good friend.

? It's the annual salary increase day again, but there is a limit to the salary increase. Xiao Fang came to talk to Xiao Li and asked Xiao Li about her plans and thoughts of leaving her job. Xiao Li did have a plan to leave at that time, but he was still in the stage of thinking and didn't put it into action. Naively, he told Xiao Fang all his ideas, and stressed that he only had this idea and would not necessarily leave his job. He thought that this conversation was as usual, and Xiao Fang would understand that their relationship was so good. Xiao Liran said to Xiao Fang. Xiao Fang said that you yourself said that you might leave your job. If I give you this quota, you will leave again. I can't explain it to the above. You have only yourself to blame. Why do you want to leave your job? I can't risk it. Xiao Li smiled and left without saying anything.

? When there is no interest involved, the relationship can be as good as brothers. Once he touches his own interests, no matter how good the relationship is, Xiao Li only hates himself for being too simple, telling his colleagues everything and looking at others. Most of them didn't know that this person was leaving until the final handover. How can there be something as obviously uncertain as yourself? I still tell people everywhere that the key is in the sensitive period of salary increase. Isn't this asking for it? Xiao Li regretted that he missed such a good opportunity for salary increase, as if he had lost tens of millions.

? Another painful lesson.

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? The business of the company is getting worse and worse, and all kinds of gossip are flying all over the sky. One minute they say they want to lay off employees, and the next they say they want to go bankrupt. Everyone is discussing it privately, and Xiao Li is no exception. At this time, Xiao Li is an old employee who has worked for more than three years. He often talks with another colleague, Xiao He, about the company. Xiao He knows many people and has many news channels. Xiao Li asked him if he was all right. Xiao He doesn't hide anything, he knows everything. Xiao Li also told Xiao He what he had learned.

? I don't know when the chairman's shares were passively reduced. Finally one day, the news came out that he was going bankrupt. The chairman was dismissed and the funds were frozen. Xiao Li asked Xiao He if he wanted to go, and Xiao He said no. He will wait until the company goes bankrupt and get compensation. Xiao Li thinks so too. Since it is now, he doesn't mind waiting for a few more months. ?

? Not long after, the company's layoff list came down, and Xiao Li was impressively listed. Xiao Li always thought he was an old employee, but it was not his turn anyway. Unexpectedly, he still couldn't escape. Xiao He stayed in the company. Xiao Li asked Xiao He, and Xiao He couldn't explain the company policy clearly. Xiao Li thought he really didn't know. Later, Xiao Li met another colleague outside. He asked Xiao He, and his colleague said Xiao He had gone to the chairman's company. Don't you know that the chairman has left and started a new company? Xiao Li clearly remembers what Xiao He said at the beginning. Next time you look for a job, you must avoid the directors of this company. If he comes again, he can't stand it. Why did he suddenly grow a face? He never mentioned it to himself. The colleague went on to say, I want to go, even though the company is dying now. When he started his business with the chairman, the reward was almost the down payment of a house in Shenzhen. Xiao Li suddenly realized that it turned out to be like this. No wonder he didn't reveal it. I'm sorry that I told everyone, but I don't know that they didn't reveal a word of good news. If you treat others as friends, others may not treat you as friends, no matter how stupid they are.

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? Colleagues are colleagues and can never be friends. Think of those former colleagues. How many of them still keep in touch after leaving their jobs? Most of them are forgotten in the rivers and lakes. No matter what troubles you encounter, don't talk too much with your colleagues, especially when it comes to job changes and salary. Colleagues don't get along completely. Treating others as friends may be an ordinary colleague in others' eyes. Of course, getting along well is good for your's work, but don't talk to each other. Once you talk to the other person, you will be trapped.