Watching the American TV series Sex and the City many years ago is a story that happened to four golden-aged leftover women in new york. In a bustling city, they have experienced lust, lust, self-search, self-doubt, looking for true love and a sense of belonging on the road of life.
Like friends, they finally found "love". What moved me most in my memory was that they treated their hearts sincerely, and they never gave up the right to be "girls".
Kelly went to Paris to find "true love", but one night she called three girls in Manhattan and cried and said, I don't like it here. this is not the one i want. I don't want to wait, I don't want to stand loneliness, I miss you.
Miranda said, Our girl, if you don't like it, please come back.
She was about 40 years old that year. 40 years old, there is always light in his eyes. The light reflected by that kind of eyes is intriguing and has been in my heart for many years.
Tv drama is to let you know that life is not good-you can go on and make life better.
I think 40-50 years old should be a woman's best day. Economic independence, family harmony, children grow up and have more and more time to spend.
Women with 40+ live a state of natural joy every day. Women in this era are all gorgeous flowers in hard soil. Love yourself, whenever.
I haven't been to the gym for almost 20 days since my last trip. After work, I drove away, parked the car steadily, took out my sportswear from the trunk and rubbed it upstairs. The little beauty at the front desk greeted me from a distance: "Hello, sister, long time no see!" " I gave her a big smile and looked for my fitness card from my bag. Shit! No card! "Elder sister, I can't find my card. I may have put it somewhere else. Please bend the rules! " "Well, elder sister you bet 10 dollars, you take a locker key first. Look for it tomorrow, I can't find it. I'll give you another card! " Oh, yeah.
I took the key and went into the bathroom to change clothes. Sister Li greeted me with a smile. "Long time no see, here we are. Do you still practice yoga today? " "I was just about to ask, is there a yoga class today?" "Starting at 6 o'clock, you go to the activity first, and I'll save a place for you." "Ok, thank you!"
I ran for a while and practiced stretching equipment for a while. When I went to the yoga studio, my sister gave me a middle seat and two layers of cushions. I smiled at my sister, and the teacher came as soon as I sat down. Sit cross-legged, the music starts gently, turn your head to the right, and extend your left arm to the ground on the left side of your body until you feel that the left side of your neck is completely stretched. Take a few deep breaths. Then turn your head to the left and repeat the exercise in the opposite direction. Then the dog style, cat and cow style, cobra pose style, pigeon style, baby style, mountain style, ... are getting better and better. Finally, use yoga to relax music, achieve natural peace of mind, forget unpleasant things, and relax all over. In meditation, body and mind are unified.
After practicing yoga and thanking each other, I found myself with a new person. A girl with big eyes and short hair stands out. Many people ask, "Girl, are you a student?" "Yes, aunt, I am a junior at Pharmaceutical University, and I have no classes at night. Yoga aerobics, you can't waste time! " "Then it's time to find a job next year." "Oh, I want to go to a big hospital. I heard that most of them require a postgraduate degree. It is very important for us to study medicine in a big hospital now. Working with many experts will be more conducive to my career development. Now I am also preparing for the postgraduate entrance examination. If not, I will continue to study. My parents fully support me! " What an independent girl!
Several 60-year-old aunts got together and made an appointment to dig wild vegetables in the suburbs tomorrow. He also said that he didn't know if there were any wild vegetables now, and it would be good to go for an outing. I heard from one of them that my son has just arranged a trip to Europe, where the scenery is beautiful and the environment is good. He said don't rush back, I can't stand living for 20 days. I'm afraid of losing my language in places I don't know. There is no place like home without acquaintances or even speakers. Yes, another old aunt next to me went on to say, "At our age, we should take good care of ourselves and don't give our children any trouble. A while ago, I went to live with my girlfriend for a few months. The girl is in Los Angeles, and my good son-in-law is also very filial to me. They all want me to stay in America. But my wife is not used to it, relatives and friends are here, and it is still lively here. "
Looking at these old aunts, I admire them. They are wearing skirts and dancing a beautiful "belly dance". I like making friends, climbing mountains, traveling, shopping … I am ashamed of many social activities. They can surf the Internet, use Alipay, enjoy chatting on WeChat, and have fun with red envelopes, small videos and friends. I envy these aunts who live such a High life. Their lives are so wonderful.
Whether life is happy or not depends on what attitude you take towards life. There is always light after darkness, and there is always hope after being at a loss. Instead of sighing, it is better to adjust your mentality and smile at life.
The world looks so beautiful and rich, which comes from the elegance of every seed and flower.
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