The main reasons are as follows:
First, it will hurt children's self-esteem and lead to personality defects. Before children are underage, their minds are immature and their understanding of people is limited, so parents' words and deeds are the main part of their world outlook. He will always observe and imitate the small details of his parents. If parents always use verbal violence, self-confidence will be hit, because in front of children, parents are strong and children are unable to fight back. Then he'll have to suffer in silence. At this time, his mental state will change greatly. He will be restless, sensitive to the outside world and always likes to please others. Our words and deeds directly attack children's feelings. This kind of soft violence will make a child lose his personality, and self-distrust is concentrated expression.
Second, language style is very important, and communication with high emotional intelligence is the key. Many parents are often impatient in the process of raising their children. It is extremely incorrect to yell at their children, because your patience directly determines their patience with things in the future. They never last, they always get bored. This is why we often ignore the meaning of communication. We should change our mentality so that we can calm down and listen to our children's thoughts and guide them to do things.
Third, give more care to children, and don't add bad words. Every parent wants their children to have a bright tomorrow, so that at all costs, pulling out the seedlings to encourage them, and adding bad words, the children will become dragons and phoenixes. As everyone knows, the verbal violence of chanting every day will only make children more disgusted.
As parents, we should know more about how those excellent parents cultivate their children, not ordering them every day, but communicating more and understanding more, so that children can grow better.