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Member of the Special Expert Group of China International Family Education Forum.
Distinguished Lecturer, Beijing Liujunqiao Research Institute
Chief tutor of Shanghai Zelan Education Consulting Co., Ltd.
Gestalt education is a unique and complete family education and training system with practical application value, which is formed by teacher Dayang combining eastern and western psychology with experiential education and training.
Drawing a lot of nourishment from China's classical philosophy, the author sums up three concepts of gestalt education: respecting without indulgence, caring without interference, sharing without preaching, and forms seven methods of gestalt education, which really benefit families in practice. Over the years, Gestalt education has spread all over the country, and hundreds of large-scale roving reports have been successfully held in Beijing, Shanghai, Sichuan, Liaoning, Henan, Anhui, Shandong, Jiangsu, Guangdong and other places, with hundreds of thousands of listeners. Tens of thousands of parents, children and college students across the country have received direct training, including Gestalt Education Parent-child Training Workshop, Couple and Love Relationship Workshop, Gestalt Angel EQ Training Camp and Gestalt Angel EQ Training Camp.
Teacher Yang of Jiezhongjie Education heard that he speaks very well and his grades are fast. Is it true?/You don't say. Have any parents studied Mr. Yang's class?
My friend's children make up lessons here, and now there are online teaching courses, which is much more convenient. Parents can stay at home, and teachers can solve problems quickly. Children who can't ask questions can also explain directly. The teacher's level is quite high, so you can listen.
Teacher Yang, train school teachers how to better communicate with parents and children.
Training schools serve students and parents. In order to serve parents and students well, we need to know their needs first, so that we can prescribe the right medicine and achieve satisfactory results. So how to understand the needs of parents and students? Communication is the most effective way. Close and effective communication is like building a bridge between teachers, parents and children, making the relationship between the three parties more stable!
1. Build a bridge between teachers and students.
First of all, we should understand the following three questions:
What should teachers cultivate?
First, teach students to be human. Being a man is the first meaning of education. Be a man before learning.
During the break, you can show students an inspirational video of gratitude and teach children to be grateful, respect others and persevere.
Secondly, cultivate students' innovative ability, practical ability, ability to find and solve problems.
Finally, preach and teach to solve doubts and guide students to learn knowledge independently.
As the saying goes, it is better to teach people to fish than to teach them to fish. We should teach children more methods. Ability is more valuable than knowledge!
2. What do students need?
We should fully understand our students.
First, understand the progress of students' schools.
The students who come to the training school for tuition are all from different schools. Only by knowing the progress of each school can we judge which knowledge is new and which is old to them, so as to accurately locate the focus and difficulty of teaching.
Secondly, understand students' study habits.
Including: how to do homework every day? (Some children have to write their homework to 1 1, so the teacher should ask other students in the same school if the homework is too heavy. If other children finish their homework ahead of time, it means that this child is procrastinating in doing his homework. In this case, he can communicate with his parents.
Do you read English every day? How do you read it? Some children read at the request of their parents and teachers, but they read with their eyes when there is no sound. The survey shows that the higher the grade, the less I like reading English aloud. The habit of previewing in advance; The habit of taking notes; The habit of sorting out wrong questions, etc.
Third, understand the living environment of students.
Know who the child lives with, whether it is a single-parent family, who will take care of his studies, what kind of children he makes friends with, whether he likes school teachers and so on.
Then, understand the personality characteristics of each child.
Some children are cheerful, lively and active, some children are withdrawn and taciturn, and some children are eccentric and glib, which requires us to take care of all children when designing teaching games.
3. How to teach children to like it?
All the children like to play. How to let children learn while playing? Then it is necessary to enrich the classroom, arouse children's interest through classroom games, and mobilize children's enthusiasm to participate in the classroom through competition mechanism.
What I want to emphasize here is:
1. The same game is not easy to play for a long time, and children will lose interest.
2. Understand the games or TV programs that children are most interested in at present and integrate them into our games.
3. A little surprise. Usually use pictures to make courseware. Teachers can collect children's favorite cartoon images online, or they can choose to take pictures of children playing in a circle of friends. Children will be very surprised and happy when they see their photos in class.
2. Build a bridge between teachers and parents.
Parents' behavior will affect children's study habits, and children's study habits will affect their grades. Therefore, it is necessary to influence parents as much as possible and gradually instill the correct concept of family education with parents. Parents are divided into four categories:
Parents unable to do so:
I understand the principle of educating children, that is, I don't have time to accompany them, so I leave it to the teacher. For such parents, if their children have problems in their studies, they should communicate with their parents in time. I hope he can cooperate with our work and help them solve their problems. In this case, parents have already known in advance, and they will not feel that the teacher is not doing well if there is a problem.
Powerful parents:
Care about children's learning and have their own opinions on children's education. As long as you communicate with her more and reach a unified concept with parents according to the actual situation of children, it is easy to become a die-hard fan.
Unintentional and powerful parents:
These parents are called companion parents, mostly stay-at-home mothers, who have enough time to accompany their children to school and various training institutions.
Careless and powerless parents:
I don't know how to educate my children, and I don't have time to take care of their studies. For such parents, what we have to do is to help children make study plans, ask parents to cooperate with supervision, and tell parents what to do in detail.
3. How to communicate with parents if there is a problem?
1. Children's grades decline (* * * emotional principle)
Parents must be very anxious at this time, and we must understand their mood at the moment. First of all, make sure of his mood (yes, XXX's parents, I know you must be in a hurry now, but I didn't expect the child to do so badly in this exam), and then slowly get to know the situation (did the child pass the exam this time? What are the points deducted? ) The parents' meeting will tell you exactly where you lost your points. Ask the child to bring the test paper when she comes to class this week. I'll help her analyze it and see what knowledge she hasn't mastered. After seeing the children's test papers, sum up the problems and future solutions, and then call the parents and tell them the solutions.
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If there are children fighting in class, we should first understand the causes of the fighting and mediate, and then pay a return visit to parents after class to tell them the cause and effect of the incident.
3. Don't hand in your homework
If the child occasionally fails to hand in his homework, he should know the reason, give him a warning, and then let him make up his homework after class. If you don't hand in your homework twice in a row, you should communicate with your parents. Ask them to help remind your children to finish their homework on time, and remember to bring it.
Every child is a seed, but the flowering period is different. Trust the children and wait for bloom. Paying attention to children and communicating closely with parents can better serve parents and students and improve their trust and dependence on training institutions.
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Teacher Yang of Tongliang Yuquan Primary School charged for the last class, and also asked parents to keep it secret and never communicate with their parents about their grades.
It is normal. How many teachers have ethics now? In fact, other industries are the same, mainly because everyone has no faith. After the long-standing moral concept was destroyed by manpower, people have paid the price for it and can't believe anything else.
2) Is Mr. Yang, the political teacher of Harbin Institute of Technology's elite postgraduate entrance examination, so good? My classmates recommended me to sign up. I heard it was very good and the lectures were very good.
I am a classmate of medical university. Anyway, our school is very recognized. Basically, everyone recognizes Mr. Yang. The biggest advantage is that after listening to his class, I don't need much time to review, because he talked in detail. We all admire his professionalism in class. This is my personal suggestion. For reference only. Hmm. How interesting
Not bad. In fact, most remedial classes are similar, but this teacher is more * * *. Moreover, the tuition we spent was absolute, because the teacher talked for more than ten days.
Is Teacher Yang in this WeChat a liar?
You still have to investigate some people. You can't tell by the head portrait, but in my experience, people involved in cash are generally liars. I suggest that if you want to do something, face to face.
Is Teacher Yang, the political teacher of Harbin Institute of Technology's elite postgraduate entrance examination, that good? My classmate recommended me to sign up. I heard it's very good. Give a lecture carefully.
I am a classmate of medical university. Anyway, our school is very recognized. Basically, I agree with Mr. Yang. The biggest advantage is that I don't have to spend too much time reviewing after listening to his class, because he is very detailed. We all admire his professionalism in class. This is my personal suggestion. For reference only. Hmm. How interesting
Not bad. In fact, most remedial classes are similar, but this teacher is more * * *. Moreover, the tuition we spent was absolute, because the teacher talked for more than ten days.
What class is Teacher Yang Jinghai in now? What class is the head teacher in?
Hello, teacher, I am a student facing the senior high school entrance examination in grade three. This happened in our class. It is because our class is special. It is a class where students can't learn, exercise, be healthy and have poor comprehensive quality. All kinds of problems that students shouldn't have can basically be seen. Moreover, my head teacher is really the first time to take the post of head teacher and has little experience. As for my teacher, since the first grade, she has chosen a relaxed management system, which is one of the reasons why we have become a class with poor age. Therefore, as a student who has experienced this kind of system management, I suggest that a set of selection system for class representatives and class cadres should be deliberately established from the second half of the first semester of junior high school. Well, that's beside the point. ) There are also many people around me who engage in sex, all of whom are in the class. They are unscrupulous every day and think that this is youth, which should be experienced at this age (but I am full of disdain for it). My teacher has ignored this situation for some reason, and occasionally makes subtle criticisms in class meetings, morning reading and other occasions (but it is useless, they just continue to be very much in love). Teachers, class teachers and parents of each couple are also invited to carry out ideological education together (one-on-one phone call to the office, the longest time from afternoon to self-study). But in my extracurricular Chinese class, my teacher is a high school teacher with rich teaching experience and thinking outside the box, or more like a friend. Her ideas are not conservative. She told us many times: Li Sao's college entrance examination sentence, but a lot. She never revealed which school she was in. These words are sincere, not fictitious. Once, she told us a story about her at school: she found a pair of men and women in the class together in public, inseparable like gumdrops, so she made such a move and then prevailed in the office (mourning for it). One day, she called the couple to the office and took out a blank sheet of paper, saying that they should either sign or leave (Teacher 5). The content on the paper is roughly: the man must marry the woman after the college entrance examination, and there are some conditions and consequences. Later, the boy didn't sign it, and then the teacher asked him to go back first, leaving the crying girl behind. The teacher began to comfort the girls and said, "Look at him, he doesn't even dare to sign the guarantee. After the college entrance examination, you will go your separate ways.". How can you ensure that he really loves you instead of just playing around (I remember that)? In short, the couple broke up and lived their own lives. I used to hate how the teacher was so strict with me, why the teacher kept staring at me and why the teacher always called me. However, I now thank the primary school teachers for their strict requirements on me. Because of this, I have a good study habit.
Teacher Yang Huibin of China Thanksgiving Inspirational Education Lecturer Group
Flowers thank the rain and dew, because the rain and dew moistened its growth; The eagle is grateful for the blue sky, because it makes it soar; The mountain is grateful to the earth, because the earth makes it lofty; ..... I am grateful to many people, and I want to thank my primary school teacher.
I used to be introverted and a little reticent. When it comes to job competition, it is rarely challenging, and it is always considered futile and even unwilling to try. Be content with the ordinary and be happy. The biggest breakthrough is to become a standard bearer.
Since the appearance of your teacher, you have given me great courage and opportunity to know myself and surpass myself.
You put me in charge of morning reading, which not only promoted everyone, but also exercised myself; You gave me the opportunity to be a duty student at school and gave me confidence so that I could do better. You encouraged me to take part in the composition contest, which made me realize that I didn't lose to others. ...
Encouraged by your, I "rose" from the representative of Chinese class to the study committee member, and I found that I could do it again and again. So, later, I got up my courage and decided to compete for the monitor. Unexpectedly, I defeated the "strong enemy" and became the monitor. This is really unexpected, but it further affirms my ability.
Teacher, you made me understand that opportunities are always around, and the key is to strive for them by yourself, by strength and without regret. Teacher, you gave me confidence, gave me the strength to move forward actively, and let me overcome my own shortcomings and strive to become an excellent student. I will certainly continue to work hard and strive for all aspects of by going up one flight of stairs!
On the occasion of Teacher's Day, I wish you a happy Teacher's Day! I also want to say to you sincerely: thank you, teacher!