Will you smile in front of the screen when you see such a description? Today, let's talk about playing the trumpet.
Playing the trumpet, as the name implies, is to register an account other than the main account.
At first, players like to play the trumpet in online games. With the rise of social media, more and more people, especially young people, began to play trumpet on WeChat, Weibo, qq and other platforms.
The size here does not refer to the number of fans on the account, but the acquaintances don't know.
Generally speaking, tuba is based on interpersonal relationships in real life and is used to deal with relationships with family, friends and colleagues. And the trumpet will usually be replaced with a new vest, a nickname and an avatar, and only you know it.
It is undeniable that some people play the trumpet for better "image management".
Sociologist gofman once put forward parody theory to analyze social interaction from the perspective of drama. He compared people's activities to performances in the theater. People in society are actors on the stage, and they use various symbols to express their image. They will distinguish between the foreground and the background.
From this perspective, tuba is more like the front desk of "performance". "I have so many sides, but I just want you to see this side." Through self-screening and careful packaging, I have shaped my ideal person to gain the attention and recognition of others.
Trumpet is more like the backstage of "Flying Self". Especially when people think that the self on social networks is "unreal", they will leave private plots, laugh and curse with the real image of "plain face facing the sky" and express their thoughts directly.
There are also many people who play the trumpet because they don't want to be "onlookers".
Nowadays, social networks are deeply involved in life, the list of friends is getting longer and longer, and the circle of contacts is getting bigger and bigger, but it is increasingly difficult to "enjoy the rivers and lakes". As soon as you brush the screen, everyone's living conditions are close at hand. When watching and being fancy, words and deeds, pictures and videos on social platforms have become the objects of scrutiny by others.
Therefore, I am eager to open my heart, but I am worried that my family will worry about temporary troubles and sadness; I want to share my life, but I feel that the crowd is messy and I don't want to be seen by unfamiliar people. In this case, it is better to give a trumpet, which can not only avoid stress and embarrassment, but also store emotions.
Such a trumpet is more like a tree hole and diary in the internet age, similar to establishing a visible group, "locking" a circle of friends and leaving some private space for those who "streaked" on the internet.
If playing the trumpet is an inner monologue, there are still some trumpets born entirely out of practical considerations.
For example, in pursuit of hobbies, in order to keep learning to clock in, in order to become a young girl in idolize, and even in order to forward the lucky draw, there are many "other sides" of young people hidden in various trumpets, and even some "small ninety-nine" that people don't want to know.
The habit of playing the trumpet also reflects the mentality and confusion of young people in social communication to some extent-how to get along with others and how to get along with themselves; Which life is worth sharing and which fragments can only be treasured.
Some netizens said that the tuba can only prove that they are alive, and the trumpet is the real life. This feeling is biased.
Everyone is a polyhedron and has more than one social role, which is not contradictory. Whether it is a large-scale "Stand for One" or a small-scale "Be Yourself", it is one of the cut surfaces, but the scenes presented are different.
I can be serious and romantic, warm and generous, and think calmly. Behind the "contrast" of large and small numbers, we are striving for a more idealized self, exploring social boundaries and distances, and debugging suitable and comfortable ways to get along.
At the same time, the opening of the trumpet can also find places for emotional expression and hobbies. Things are complicated, and many people need such a private plot to slow down.
Interestingly, young people can always switch freely between sizes with completely different styles. Regardless of the trumpet, many netizens laughed and called it "social etiquette" in the Internet age.
In fact, no matter what the purpose is, no matter whether the trumpet is played or not, you don't have to get caught up in it, over-projecting expectations and meaning, and making the trumpet "consumed". In addition to socializing, there is a wider real world, waiting for you to explore more diverse yourself.