Parents should know that this clown around them is the greatest creation in their lives. Ignoring his bad behavior for a long time will cause irreparable losses to their children's future. Therefore, parents should observe children's behavior calmly and carefully, find out the root cause of children's inattention, and patiently help him solve it, so as to improve children's intellectual development.
The factors that affect children's attention mainly include the following aspects:
(1) physiology
Because the child's brain development is not perfect, the nervous system is not balanced in the process of excitation and inhibition, so the self-control ability is poor. This is normal. With proper education, most children can concentrate when they grow up.
(2) Pathology
Mild brain tissue injury and abnormal metabolism of neurotransmitters in the brain can cause ADHD in children, mainly manifested as inattention, hyperactivity, impulsive willfulness, emotional instability, abnormal behavior and learning difficulties; Abnormal nerve root structure and/or function can lead to TIC disorder in children, which is mainly manifested by alternating rigid blinking, frowning, pouting, clearing throat, twisting neck, shrugging, swinging arm and kicking, often accompanied by inattention. In addition, children with hearing or visual impairment will be mistaken for deaf, not paying attention to listening or turning a blind eye, and lacking the will to learn. These conditions need to be treated under the guidance of experts to improve.
(3) Diet and environment
Candy, caffeinated drinks or foods mixed with artificial colors, additives and preservatives can stimulate children's emotions and affect their concentration. In addition, the high blood lead content caused by environmental pollution also has an impact.
(4) family
Parenting attitudes and living habits at home have a great influence on children's behavior, which is often the most important factor affecting children. However, people who are obsessed with the authorities often cannot objectively find out the crux of the problem. From the following aspects, we may find some reasons.
(1) Are parenting attitudes consistent? Parents' different attitudes towards their children's upbringing often leave them at a loss as to what to do.
(2) whether too doting on children, lack of code of conduct? Excessive doting will lead to connivance of children, and often let children do whatever they want. Without the concept of patience, restraint and overcoming difficulties, it is naturally difficult to calm down and carry things through to the end.
Do you buy many toys or books for your children? There are too many external stimuli. Playing with cars and looking for other toys, changed again and again, toys only bring temporary attraction to children, and they can't feel the fun of exerting imagination and creativity during playing.
④ Is the pace of family life too fast? When parents are busy with business and public affairs, they emphasize efficiency in everything. Children with slow pace are forced to spin around in the fast, fast and fast rhythm, and there is no time to finish one thing slowly and intently.
⑤ Are there too many activities at home? Too many children can't provide a quiet environment, and life is always spent in a floating atmosphere. Without a child with strong self-control, it is difficult to establish good concentration.
⑥ Have you accumulated unpleasant experiences during your study? The textbooks provided to children are too deep or too shallow, which is not easy to arouse interest in learning, while poor guiding skills, or situations that often lead to opening on a whim and finally crying, will make children feel excluded from learning and naturally unable to concentrate on learning.
⑦ Does the child have emotional stress? If children feel that they can't meet their parents' expectations, etc. These pressures can easily make children appear emotional.
Is there too much criticism and scolding of children? Too much criticism may give a bad hint to the child, and make him think that he can't do it well anyway, thus refusing to concentrate on his work.
Pet-name ruby children are affected by too much bad information? The indoctrination and pollution of bad film and television works and bad behavior of older children will make children psychologically distorted and behave abnormally.
So how should we cultivate children's attention? To cultivate children's attention, in addition to solving the problems mentioned above, we should also start from the following aspects:
Provide a quiet environment
Although children need opportunities to live in groups in their lives, they also have personal activities. In a quiet environment, let your mind gradually calm down, explore your interest in learning and improve your concentration. In addition, when children concentrate on their studies, adults should not disturb them casually, and wait until the end before asking.
(2) Accompanying children requires skills.
If children can't finish their studies independently, adults can accompany and assist, but don't give too much guidance.
(3) Continue to pay attention by using static games.
Static games, such as playing puzzles and wearing beads, can start from a simple point, enjoy a sense of accomplishment, train attention for a short time, and then gradually deepen the difficulty of the game and prolong the game time, thus prolonging the children's endurance and enhancing their concentration.
(4) Starting from 1 min
As long as the child keeps the concentration of 1 minute, praise it, and then gradually extend it to 5 minutes at a time, 10 minutes. Appreciation and encouragement are important factors in learning.
(5) Start with things that children are interested in.
For example, take an album and tell the story of his birth and growth for the child; Appreciate the child's work and listen to what is going on in his little head; Observe the small fish in the fishing port and the tadpoles in the pond ...
(6) Establish a sense of order
Provide children with a corner of their own, and gradually establish a sense of order in the process of learning things and sorting out personal belongings. In daily life, there should also be rules and regulations to establish living standards. In the process of implementation, parents should be strict but not strict.
(7) Choose small-scale kindergartens.
Children with inattention have low tolerance for noise, and large class system is not suitable. Kindergartens with small class system and systematic teaching methods should be chosen in order to give more attention and guidance to children's individual situation.
(8) Strengthen children's will exercise and cultivate children's good habit of doing everything from beginning to end.
Let children do what they can. Before doing things, parents should let their children know the purpose of doing things and stimulate their interest in doing things. Children encounter difficulties in the process of doing things, parents should educate and improve their children's ability to overcome difficulties, so that children have a certain sense of responsibility, so that they will concentrate when doing things to overcome some minor difficulties. Over time, you can form a good habit of doing everything from beginning to end. When you finish something, you should encourage and evaluate it in time, and your child will feel satisfied and happy.