What is the psychology of people who steal underwear? It should be interpreted as a fetish, because? Fetishism? Patients suffer from mental illness in infancy due to unhealthy stimulation, which leads to their irrational control. They steal clothes and accessories worn by the opposite sex, such as women's underwear, underwear, bras, headscarves and stockings, to arouse sexual excitement. Patients regard women's underwear as another sexual object besides female sexual organs. Women's underwear has become a big source of their desire, so they frequently collect a large number of women's underwear.
The patient's demand for wearing women's underwear is also regarded as another form of preference, which does not represent the desire for sex. These patients wear women's underwear for different reasons. Most of them think that women's underwear is more comfortable than men's underwear, and the styles and materials of women's underwear are more diverse than men's underwear, which makes patients deeply fascinated by women's underwear. Another part of patients regard women's underwear as a way to express their gentle or feminine side, but only regard women's underwear and pants as ordinary clothes, not sexual objects.
What are the causes of fetishism? 1. Most patients are related to environmental impact and sexual experience. At first, sexual excitement was accidentally associated with something, but after repeated several times, it formed a conditioned reflex.
2. The influence of social and cultural environment: In the past, men and women had less contact and less words, which made them vent their sexual impulses on some symbols of the opposite sex. At first, they got the opposite sex by accident, and sexual excitement was also caused by accident, but it became a habit after several repetitions.
3. Sexual psychological obstruction or sexual frustration: puberty is blocked by the germination of the opposite sex, so that its sexual desire is suppressed and cannot be released. It is necessary to find another way to point sexual desire to objects related to the opposite sex and form fetishism.
4. Abnormal psychosexual development: Patients generally have the characteristics of abnormal psychosexual development. They often worry about their genitals subconsciously, which leads to Bo's castration. Thus, some people are urged to seek safer and easier-to-obtain sexual partners, or to have a subconscious mind that regards a certain part and accessories of the opposite sex as sexual organs, so as to alleviate their inner anxiety.
5. Others: Lack of sexual knowledge, curiosity and some problems in consciousness can also be the causes of fetishism.
How to prevent fetishism 1 and avoid bad stimulation?
Mother should not sleep in the same bed with the boy after he is 3 years old, don't wear underwear in front of the child, don't play with the boy's sexual organs, and avoid letting the child see the intimate behavior of the husband and wife, especially the sexual life.
2. Timely and correct sex education
According to the psychological characteristics of children at different ages, timely and correct sex education should be carried out to guide children to correctly understand the physiological and psychological differences between the two sexes and eliminate the excessive mystery of the opposite sex.
3. Cultivate children's good character
We should attach great importance to the influence of family environment on children's personality. Encourage children to study hard, actively participate in group activities, and cultivate good personality qualities, such as cheerful, generous, brave and confident.
What are the symptoms of fetishism? There are many kinds of fetishes that can become fetishists, including various parts of the body and various super-living items on the body. Common abnormal fetishes can be divided into two categories: one is utensils, including clothes and things to wear with you, such as underwear, underwear, bras, gloves, shoes and socks, handkerchiefs, skirts, coats, menstrual paper, menstrual belts, hairpins, necklaces and so on. , and statues and portraits; One is all parts of the body and related objects, including normal parts such as hair, feet, hands, breasts, buttocks, secretions and excretions, and abnormal parts such as broken feet, squinting, pockmarked face and six fingers.
Broadly speaking, fetishism also includes some visual and olfactory abnormalities, such as situational love and smelly love. The former produces sexual excitement on specific occasions, while the latter mostly produces sexual excitement for body odor. There are positive fetishism and negative fetishism, both of which are positive fetishism, and there is also an anti-fetishism, which is a strong aversion to something because of the relationship between men and women.
Treatment of fetishism 1. Encourage interest transfer: actively participate in cultural and sports activities and appropriate labor exercise, induce memories of problems or setbacks encountered in the psychological development of childhood, and conduct realistic introspection, thus strengthening self-correction awareness.
2. Behavioral therapy: aversion conditioned reflex therapy is used to make patients have sex fetishism, in terms of etiology; When sexual desire is erect, give disgusting conditional stimulation, such as giving electric shock, hitting the wrist with a rubber band, and injecting emetic to make it vomit.
3. Drug therapy: For those with strong fetishism, appropriate amount of chlorpromazine, perphenazine, diazepam and other drugs can be taken to suppress sexual impulse. When fetishism causes anxiety, fear or depression, some antidepressants such as doxepin and amitriptyline can be used for symptomatic treatment.