What I miss is not you, but the fatal experience you gave me-Han Yu.
Don't ask about a person's past. If he is a good man, like you, he really loved each other and paid for his previous feelings. It's not necessary or good for you to know this.
Winners are not those who never fail, but those who never give up.
There are only two choices in life: start over and be the protagonist of your own life; Still stand still and be a supporting role for others.
6, the weather affects the body, the body determines the thought, and the thought affects the mood.
7, hope: I like people don't get involved; More hope: people I don't like fuck off.
8. Dapeng Day flies in Wan Li with the wind. -Li Bai
9. The so-called maturity is from tadpoles to frogs, not from small tadpoles to big tadpoles.
10, I'm actually not withdrawn. I can say that I am cheerful and lively, but I'm lazy to run a relationship most of the time.
1 1, Gaozhi Mountain is short, and the road extends from the foot.
12. Of all the advantages, the advantage of patience is the least relevant to young men and women. -Chapman
13, top people make difficult things simple.
14, strive to create strength, attitude determines height.
You are the mainstream! Your home is not mainstream! Was your mother punished by KINOMOTO SAKURA KINOMOTO SAKURA?
Complete works of thoughts and proverbs
1, short and long.
2. I'm afraid I can't learn well, but I'm afraid I have no sincerity.
3, there are good officials in the DPRK, and the dog at home watches the door.
4. The steamed bread you eat is not fragrant, and the sugarcane you chew is not sweet.
The Yangtze River does not refuse a trickle, and Mount Tai does not choose rocks.
6. Grass does not germinate unintentionally, and people do not develop unintentionally.
7. Whoever dresses humbly is the most beautiful and handsome person. Montgomery
8. Gold is like gold and jade is like jade.
9. If you are not afraid of disrespect, you are afraid that you are wrong.
10, rely on friends when going out and parents at home.
1 1, it's better to do it early than late, and it's better to do it foolishly.
12, eldest brother is like a father, and old sister-in-law is better than mother.
13, I always think about it, so I don't always think about it.
14, no rabbits, no eagles.
15, eat to prevent choking, walk to prevent falling.
16, the steering is calm and the ship is safe.
17, help others forget, others help themselves remember.
18, people who are truly knowledgeable and cultivated will not deliberately show off themselves. David Hansen
19, support bold, hungry and timid ghosts.
20. Illness enters through the mouth and cold enters through the feet.
2 1, not afraid of the hardships of teenagers, but afraid of being old and poor.
22, not afraid of 10 thousand, just in case.
23. Don't be extravagant, don't go against the public with your own opinions, and don't go back on your word with your own functions. -Zhuge Liang
24, drink soup first, don't get hurt when you are old.
25, will not burn incense to offend God, will not speak to offend people.
26. If you are not afraid of the long road, you are afraid of getting old.
27. If you are not afraid of difficulties, you are afraid of laziness.
28. Cars have lanes and horses have roads.
29, go out to see the sky, stir-fry to see the fire.
30. Although the weight is small, it can be as heavy as one thousand catties.
3 1, disease comes from the mouth, and disaster comes from the mouth.
32. People who want to pick roses must pay attention to thorns. -Persian proverb
33. The black sheep spend money like water, and the family cherishes dung like gold.
34. Ask for directions when going out and ask for customs when going to the countryside.
35. Illness comes like a mountain, and illness goes like reeling.
36. The bow of the boat sits steady and is not afraid of the wind.
37. When you are in a hurry, you will burn incense in various temples.
38. A boaster is preaching his ignorance.
39. There are no pigs in the trough, and dogs eat dogs unevenly.
40, full and sunny with an umbrella.
4 1, if you can't see the bottom of the river, don't wade across it. -English proverb
42. People with a little knowledge are not modest; A well-informed and capable person must be modest. -Xie Juezai
43. People who act cautiously are often helped by opportunities. -Reds.
44, not afraid to wear late, afraid to take off early.
45. If you don't listen to the old man, you will suffer.
46. I am afraid that people will not be invited, and I am afraid that the art is not refined.
47. White rice is delicious, but grain fields are not easy to grow.
48. Be modest and ambitious. Wang Shouren
49, don't give the rules, no Fiona Fang.
50, no winter cold, I don't know spring warmth.
5 1, the mouth that eats people is short, and the hands that take people are short.
52, not afraid of not knowing the goods, I am afraid that the goods are better than the goods.
53, don't pick the burden, don't know the weight, don't go far.
54. No pains, no gains.
55, eat wet mouth, wash your face and wet hands.
56. There is no winner in gambling forever.
57. If you are not afraid of getting old, you are afraid of lying down.
58. A truly great man never thinks he is great. -Herzlitt
59. Can't count, can't all.
60. A greedy family has no food, but a lazy family has no firewood.
6 1, nothing ventured, nothing gained.
62. If you are not afraid of chaos, you are afraid of not investigating.
63. Don't take off your shoes until you reach the river, and don't boil until the heat is over.
64. If you eat wine instead of vegetables, you will soon get drunk.
65. If you are humble, you will depend on others; Arrogant and slow, you will get sick. -Ge Hong
66. The ship carries 1,000 kilograms, with one person at the helm.
67. It is difficult to practice courage without taking three risks.
68. Don't laugh, don't laugh, just laugh, life won't pass.
69. Strike while the iron is hot and study hard while you are young.
70. If you are not afraid of high mountains, you are afraid of weak feet.
7 1, May is long, October is short, and February and August are neither long nor short.
72, often not surprised, often not afraid.
73. A steelyard can weigh, and a word can inspire people.
74. I don't know how expensive rice is if I'm not in charge, and I don't know the kindness of my parents if I don't raise children.
75. If you are not afraid of shallow knowledge, you are afraid of short ambition.
76. Once you eat it, you gain wisdom.
77. In the end, things will work out. When you cross the bridge, you will find it.
78. Careful words and deeds are the first step to self-cultivation. -"Qiong Yao Yu Pei Cultivation"
79. It is often said that a smooth mouth is not stupid.
80. The bud and bud of virtue is humility, which is the most precious virtue and the mother of all morals; With this virtue, we will have endless fun. -galdos
8 1, people who can't do small things can't do big things.
82, sores are afraid of being famous, and diseases are afraid of being unknown.
83. If you are not afraid of slowness, you are afraid of standing; One stop, two and a half miles.
84. In cold weather, you are afraid of freezing, and you are afraid that your hands and feet will not move.
85. There are many patients and many busy people.
86. Sincerity can strengthen the will, and sincerity can worship morality. -Hu Hong
87. Keep it stupid; Work is the world, keep it; Face the world bravely and keep it with fear; Rich all over the world, remain modest. Confucius
88. Three days after becoming a monk, the Buddha is in sight; After three years as a monk, the Buddha was in the west.
89. Eat without talking, sleep without talking.
90. Eat like a dragon and work like a bug.
9 1, complacent, people lose; A humble person is beneficial to others. -Wei just like
92. Stupid people get up first, and stupid birds leave the forest early.
93. It takes a hundred years to start a business, but one day to fail.
94. Don't be fooled if you don't want to be cheap.
95, sweating is not windward, walking is not concave.
96. The whipped fast horse is a busy man looking for something.
97. If you are ill, don't thank the doctor. No one will rule you next time.
98. The grandeur of princes is insignificant; Great sages are modest and prudent. -Shelley
99, overeating is easy to get sick, and keep Corning regularly and quantitatively.
100, I didn't discuss it behind my back, but I didn't mind it in person.
10 1, I am afraid that my family is poor, but I am afraid that I am a lazy person.
102, a gentleman does not deceive himself, but is modest. Harry's collection
103, eating and drinking, people go downhill.
104, luck will always be on the cautious side. -euripides was bullied.
105, learn to ask questions, and you will learn.
106, pet dogs are on the stove, and it is unfilial to spoil children.
107, dysentery, typhoid fever.
108, I don't worry about food and clothing, and I won't be poor all my life.
109, eat rice and be reasonable.
1 10, some are big enough to defend the world, middle enough to defend the country, and small enough to defend one's own body: modesty is also called modesty. -Liu Xiang
1 1 1. Although there is a spear, it is better to be diligent. -Xun Kuang
1 12, if you are not afraid of Pepsi's disadvantage, you are afraid to flinch.
1 13, don't pretend to understand, it will never work.
1 14, think twice before you act. -"The Analects of Confucius Magistrate"
1 15, eat rice with some bran, suitable for all ages.
Qq Love Encyclopedia haunts you. Thought is always irrational.
I obey you because I love you, not because I take it for granted.
Second, beauty always exists in mystery and strangeness.
Third, I often cry when I watch TV and listen to music, just because of a scene, a lyric and a sentence.
Fourth, I cannot predict the future. At least now I know that the person I love is you.
5. Hug me. Even if the blood is dripping, Wan Li's dull prosperity will collapse by 300%
You will never find out that I will click your information again and again without disturbing you.
I love you, and I lost myself. I lost myself in love with you.
Eight, you don't understand how much people who have been looking for topics to chat with you like you.
Sometimes, the best comfort is wordless company.
It's not that I don't want to love, but that you care about my feelings.
What kind of season do you like? I put it in my pocket. If you promise me, I will give it to you. I like all seasons. Give you to me, will you?
Twelve, maybe you are really awesome, but you may not be able to hold me; Maybe you are really rich, but I may not be able to have a crush on you.
Thirteen, there is no one in this world who is not seriously injured. Only you can really cure yourself.
I am not perfect, but at least I will be kind to my good people.
15. After years of unrequited love, the dictionary turned to the last page and I couldn't find the words to express my love.
I have a temper, and sometimes I am unreasonable. If you can't stand it, then leaving makes me very tired.
Seventeen, everything has become so hypocritical, everything is at a loss, and everything hurts to death.
Eighteen-year-old, who even has to bring her mobile phone to the toilet, how afraid of loneliness is she?
I said I loved him very much, but I forgot that he still had her.
I want to have someone who cherishes me, but I don't have that life.
Twenty-one, although I have a fever for three minutes, what I believe will not change!
Even your period will leave you when you are old, let alone a man.
23. The value of hurting people lies in what they get.
Twenty-four [. Many children stay up late when there is obviously no one to talk to or chat with.
Twenty-five, [a good friend is probably someone who will hurt you in front of you and defend you desperately behind your back; ]
Twenty-six, your position in my heart is beyond your imagination.
It's not that I don't know that I broke your heart. You see, I'm trying to please you in a clumsy way.
28. I know that his mouth will kiss others' lips and give everything to me to another person.
Twenty-nine, few people can continue to like you even after being rejected.
30. Many things happen for no reason, for example, people's hearts will change for no reason.
Don't make excuses for your meanness, you won't find it, because your meanness is too prominent and those reasons are too common.
People can only live once, so don't live too tired.
I obey you because I love you, not because I take it for granted.
Wandering around you. Thought is always irrational.
35. I like your eyes. You really got in my way.
Thirty-six, you don't know how to borrow it and how to return it. Yes, then you should return my love and love.
Thirty-seven, [... are you moved or can you put it aside]
You still have feelings for her, but I still want to spend the rest of my life with you! .
You are calm because you are not afraid of death, and I am calmer than you because I am not afraid of your death.
[Don't expect someone to accompany you all your life, not even a shadow. ]
Forty-one, don't eat cakes you don't like, and don't be nice to girls you don't like.
42. Is there really such a miracle in the world? You like him and he likes you, two people, for life.
I used to be thin, and I will be thin in the future, so my life is still incomplete after being fat for a while.
The relationship with your body determines your life state.
A friend asked me, "I found my life a mess." I don't know why. There are always various discomforts in the body, and it is no problem to go to the hospital for examination; There are many problems in marriage relationship; Children are becoming more and more disobedient and difficult to discipline; The employment prospects are bleak ... "
"Because your' relationship' has always been problematic, and this bad' relationship' determines that your life has become like this. It is very likely that if you don't take measures, your living conditions and all aspects of life, work and family will further deteriorate. " I said.
"Relationship? What does it matter? " He asked with wide eyes.
"Your relationship with yourself."
"My relationship with myself? What happened to my relationship with myself? " He then asked.
"Do you think you are a good man? If you compare your body to one of the most important partners in your life and career, what do you think of this partner? Are you satisfied? Does this partner affect your life and career development? If possible, are you going to change to a better partner? " I asked him, "Tell your innermost feelings, not the answers after thinking and analyzing."
"It's okay! To be honest, sometimes, I really feel that I am not good enough, and I even hate myself for not being good enough. "
He went on to say: "If I compare my body to the other half of my life and career, I am certainly not satisfied with him! Because, always sick, always appear some uncomfortable, delay a lot of things. And many times I want to make efforts to make some achievements, but I always feel that my physical fitness can't keep up. Sometimes I work overtime and stay up late to do projects, and I can't get up the next day. Alas! If my body is better, I will definitely make better achievements, and my life situation will not be like this! If possible, I certainly want to change to a better partner, so that I can not be dragged down by him! "
"This is the problem! You don't realize that it's not your poor health that makes your life worse and worse. It is your behavior that makes your health worse and worse, and makes your life worse and worse!
"You tell me how to eat three meals a day, what to eat? What do you usually do in your spare time? Exercise? What do you often like to eat? What to drink? What is the daily life? " I asked again.
"I usually sleep until nine o'clock in the morning, because I do business, so I don't have to punch in early. Get up at nine o'clock and eat some fried dough sticks, soy milk or steamed bread outside; There is no fixed point at noon, sometimes business is busy, maybe two or three o'clock, sometimes you may not eat, just eat snacks, and eat fast food outside when you are not busy at noon; In the afternoon, when you are busy, you can eat in a restaurant with your customers, or go home at 90 to eat casually. Sometimes, I also eat something in small shops outside. Everything in those shops is delicious. Usually, I often eat fruit, milk and so on. My nutrition should be adequate.
"In my spare time, I play cards with my friends, or get together with my friends, eat a meal and drink a little wine in a restaurant, or sometimes I feel tired and have a good sleep. After a whole day's sleep, I will make an appointment with a friend to go to a bar at night. In a word, it was pleasant.
"Exercise at ordinary times, this is really not much. However, sometimes, I also invite friends to barbecue.
"Favorite food, of course, is seafood! I want to eat this thing for a day, hehe. What to drink? Beer, red wine, white wine, and some drinks and milk, count?
"Work and rest, if you are busy at night, it will start at 0/2 o'clock the next day/kloc, and you will be busy at night. /kloc-go to bed around 0/2. Too busy to sleep at two or three o'clock. There are also some; If you are not busy, get up at eight or nine o'clock, watch movies at night and go to bed 12. Anyway, if you go to bed early and can't sleep, just do something or relax and sleep. "
I listened to his words and asked, "Did you find the problem?"
"This question? Didn't find anything Many friends around me are like this. Is it a big problem? Besides, I work very hard. When you are busy, you often eat more good food and supplement your nutrition. " He said.
What you said above is evidence that you are damaging your health and your relationship! Do you stay up late, work overtime, eat seaweed, be greasy, cold, drink, smoke ... these are all what your body needs? Do you know what your body needs?
If your living habits and eating habits are developing in a direction that is beneficial to your health, then the result of your behavior is naturally that your body is relaxed, unobstructed, full of vitality and comfortable, instead of being more tired, uncomfortable and heavy when you eat more.
All your actions are based on what you like and what you think is right, but you don't really understand your physical needs. This is like, if you drive a car and it needs gasoline, you can add diesel to it according to your own preferences, thinking that adding diesel is more powerful. Can the result be good? The right one is the best.
A healthy body, full of vitality and good feeling need clean water, five kinds of cereal nutrition, five kinds of fruit help, five kinds of store benefits and five kinds of vegetables filling. Instead of big fish and big meat, greasy and indigestible things. Grain can sustain life. Fruits and vegetables are supplements, and meat is helpful. Only in this way can your body get the energy it needs from a normal diet. Otherwise, everything you eat may become a burden on your body, making you weaker and even sick.
Why, have I told you so many things about diet and health? Because our bodies are the most important partners who can help us live a good life in this world. If our actions can't make him better and more conducive to his health, then it will be more and more difficult for us to walk in this world. Without physical support and help, who can survive well in the world?
However, when we learn that our diet, life and work behavior are all beneficial to health, at least not harmful to health, it means that we learn to accept and care for our health. Accepting and caring for your body is the core step to deal with your relationship.
Think about it, when you eat out, drink with friends, work overtime and stay up late, do you only consider your own feelings and needs, but hardly consider your own physical feelings? Does your body need these? Whether these are harmful to health! You only care about what you want, but you never care about and respect the feelings and needs of the most important partner in life and career. -When you don't care about and respect the feelings and needs of your most important partner for a long time, can your cooperative relationship be good?
As a result, your body becomes uncomfortable, your energy can't keep up, your appetite gets worse, your mood gets worse, your body gets fat, your skin gets worse, you can't sleep more and more, you can't feel happiness and beauty more and more, you are more and more anxious and insecure. ...
You must understand that each of us perceives the world through our eyes, ears, mouth, body and body mind. The state of our bodies determines what kind of world we perceive. When you don't accept your body, don't love it, don't respect it, or even hate it, your body will naturally get worse and worse, which will naturally make you feel a world full of pain.
For example, a person often stays up late, and after many years, he may get more and more excited at night and get less and less sleep at night. Therefore, if this goes on, his body will fall into a vicious circle, and there will be yin and blood deficiency, yang deficiency and qi deficiency. In the end, we will find that this person is becoming more and more anxious, impatient, emotional, irritable and bad-tempered ... so his relationship with his lover, children, family and colleagues may be affected. His world is changing bit by bit, becoming more and more restless. Until one day, due to long-term excessive consumption, the body is seriously lacking in energy, so the whole person becomes emaciated, tired, shriveled and emotionally abnormal, and gradually deteriorates. ...
The better your health, the better you feel and the brighter your perception of the world will be. The better your health, the better decisions you can make in your heart, and the faster you can act, instead of dragging your feet; The better you are, the more you can believe in yourself and believe that the life you face will get better and better, instead of hesitation and doubt.
Just like we feel the world through the window of the body and see the world. When this window is clean and bright, we will see a sunny world; And when this window is full of dust and dirt, we will see a dark and dirty world. Because we feel different about the world, we take different actions. Clean and bright windows make us full of hope for the world, so we are full of strength and take more positive actions to make the world better and everything is getting better and better. Instead, it is the beginning of a vicious circle, a dark process leading to hell.
Therefore, when you love your body more, respect your body more and have a harmonious relationship with it, you will be grateful to the whole world, and your strength will continue to grow in your heart; The more harmonious your relationship with yourself, the more harmonious your relationship with the outside world will be. Your love for yourself will make you better and better. As you get better and better, your lover, children and family will love and respect you more and more, and your family relationship will inevitably become more and more harmonious. When you care for yourself and have a more harmonious relationship with yourself, your progress and growth will be greater. Your good state will make your friends and colleagues respect you more and your relationship will be better. Therefore, your career development and progress will be natural.
All this is based on our healthy body, and healthy body comes from our acceptance, love and respect for our own body. Everyone comes to this world, parents give us life, and nature gives us energy through the body, so that we can complete the life journey of this world. This body is unique. There is no better choice but to accept it completely, cherish it and respect it.
In fact, if we look deeper, we will find that on the surface, all our complicated relationships in this world are nothing more than our relationship with ourselves. We accept and love ourselves, and we will also accept and care for others and the outside world. Everything is just a projection relationship between inside and outside. Those who are dissatisfied with the accidents in the world and others are only dissatisfied with themselves and do not accept themselves.
Keep this awareness, let yourself invest in and face every occurrence, join hands with yourself on the basis of accepting and caring for yourself, and you will find that everything is fine, but you are getting better step by step through various problems.