Personally, I feel that after the decoupling of fertility and marriage, it does have certain benefits for unmarried mothers, but we can't completely ignore her disadvantages, so we should consider it more comprehensively.

Analyze the positive side first.

1. For women, if economic conditions and various conditions permit, they can really gain greater autonomy from the only child and better grasp the right to reproductive freedom. I will not worry about the value of fertility because of my age, and I will not just become a fertility tool for male-dominated families.

2. For the society, people who only want to have children but don't want to get married are also released. If the only child is allowed, the fertility rate will also increase.

3. More women don't have to worry about the problems brought by marriage, such as husband's infidelity, the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, housework distribution and child care.

Disadvantages:

1, there is no doubt that single mothers need to bear greater pressure, including economic and childcare burdens, so single mothers should do a good job in material security.

2. If the "sperm" goes wrong, it will cause incest between close relatives and the spread of genetic diseases.

3, it will also be influenced by traditional marriage and patriarchy, and will also be criticized in society, so the children born may also be laughed at.

4. The lack of father's role, the different roles that mother and father assume and the different guidance they can provide will lead to the lack of father's love.