2. Accept the gift your partner bought you, and don't refuse his kindness.
If you are worried about money, wait until you show that you like his gift, and then tell him: you don't have to buy it for me.
When he gives you a gift, don't refuse him, it will hurt his self-esteem.
3. Don't be a fat man. No money means no money. Don't get into debt just to be brave.
This will turn your love into pressure and make it easy for you to lose the happiness of love.
4. Don't hurt the object's self-esteem. As the person he trusts most, your words hurt more than others.
Don't speak ill of him in front of others, and don't complain to others about how bad he is. Your words will ruin his personal image. If he hears you, he will almost break up.
6. Praise the object more and praise him more. Praise will warm up the relationship.
7. When he encounters setbacks or difficulties, don't belittle him, don't say that he is a useless person, but encourage and support him.
8. Love yourself more than love the object forever. Only by loving yourself can we love each other, instead of blindly paying, which will make both of us very tired.
9. You can treat the other person as your own little sun, and he can also release sunshine for you for half a day, but don't treat him as oxygen. You can't live without him.
If this goes on, you will become worried and suspicious, and finally push him away.
10. Don't ask the object to make changes. All you can do is guide him to make a change.
If you ask him to change, he will either resent you or make him feel inferior, and guiding him means that he has made changes on his own initiative, not forced to change, so that he will have the motivation to change.
1 1. Don't let the other person do what he doesn't want to do, even if you think it's good for him, let him do it.
12. Give each other enough private space, because loyalty will also be forced to betray. Many betrayals are because they are pushed too hard by the other side and eventually become enemies.
13. It is best not to chat with the opposite sex for more than a week. Keeping in touch for more than a week greatly increases the derailment rate.
If you can stop chatting, it doesn't mean that you can stop by ensuring loyalty, because it may make your subconscious depend on him and like him.
14. Before living together, try to find out what your motivation is, whether you want to get married and live together or just be bored.
It's easy to be disappointed when you start living together in a daze. It's better to think about the motivation of living together.
15. Don't always say "break up". The effect of Tito's breakup is to add the word "breakup" to your subconscious. After the next conflict or quarrel, "break up" is easy to blurt out, and then you can easily fall into a state of separation and integration.
The above is my advice to unmarried couples, and finally I send you a sentence: satisfy each other's self-esteem and you will reap long-term love.
Uncle Mullin: A warm, interesting and upright uncle will accompany you through all the unhappy times.
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