1, learn to respect people. We should realize that people are the most precious in the world, and everyone's life is equal and priceless, and there is no distinction between high and low. Only based on this understanding can we fundamentally understand the meaning of fairness and respect and understand and help others. You know, a person who can't even understand the meaning of people correctly can't be open-minded with self-righteous classification.
2. Adhere to lofty life goals. Everyone has their own goals in life, but some people just talk about it or even think about it, and they don't really implement it consistently in action, so whatever happens is still obscene and petty. With a big goal in mind, we can strive for heights instead of fighting for trifles. This is why people who do great things don't stick to details. The way to stick to the lofty goal of life is: "I save myself three times a day", which is actually awakening. ?
3. Improve the sense of responsibility. When a person comes into this world, he has certain responsibilities. Only by living with a serious and responsible attitude can we get the reward from life. Doing a good job with a responsible attitude is not only the performance of one's own ability, but also the respect of others, the success of his career and the achievement of higher life goals. If you treat your family with a responsible attitude, do your duty and do your best, it is not difficult to improve the quality of life of your family. The way to improve the sense of responsibility is to do things well and never give up if you don't do them well; Do what you can't do temporarily, but you must never do it.
? 4, don't care about the immediate gains and losses. The ancients said that "a blessing in disguise is a blessing in disguise". You should know that the immediate loss may be the future return. What's more, the situation of any individual is always worse than the last one and more than the next one. It is not enough to make progress, but it is a pleasure to help others. Confucius said that if you want to establish yourself, you will immediately think of letting others establish themselves; If you want to realize your ideal, you will immediately think of helping others realize their ideal. Therefore, when something happens, we should not always proceed from personal interests, but should consider it from the standpoint of others. I figured it out. I relax. Everybody relax. Therefore, there is a sense of gratitude and a sense of helping others.
? 5. Improve your ability to understand things. Only by truly understanding the grandeur of the universe, the importance of others, the smallness of individuals and the meager face can we truly have the magnanimity of allowing people.
? 6. Improve your ability of induction, analysis and reasoning. People will inevitably encounter many trivial things in their lives, which is unavoidable for anyone. But the key is whether we can distinguish right from wrong, prioritize, grasp the main points and not get entangled in trivial matters.