A, Guo Jingjing integrity, Huo Qishan "eldest sister-in-law, such as mother". First of all, we should explain the fear here, not the literal fear, but the respect. As the saying goes, eldest sister-in-law is like a mother, and Guo Jingjing played such a role. In the eyes of many people, the Huo family, as a giant, should have many rules, and the in-laws are also very picky and difficult to get along with.
Many stars in the entertainment circle are married to giants, but there are really few people who have lived well in the real sense. Crystal, for example, chose to marry into a rich family when she became popular. But they divorced because of family attacks, so the giants seem to feel like wolves and butch.
But this is not the case with Guo Jingjing. Not only does she deal well with her in-laws, but she also has a family status in the Huo family. This position was not given by others, but earned by herself.
Why do you say that? First of all, Guo Jingjing is honest and methodical. Huo Zhenting is old, and the family business has been handed over to his two sons. Guo Jingjing also plays an indispensable role.
We know that Huo Qishan had an affair with Zhang Ziyi at that time. At that time, he was only in his early twenties and fell in love with Zhang Ziyi at first sight. Although they finally held hands, this relationship only lasted for two years, which was a great blow to Huo Qishan. He is very loyal to love. Although he is young, he wants to hold hands with her all his life.
Because Zhang Ziyi was keen on performing arts, he couldn't give up his career for Huo Qishan, which eventually led to their parting ways. At that time, it was a low point in Huo Qishan, and I drank all day to drown my sorrows.
Later, Huo Qishan met He Chaolian again. Everyone thought the couple were a good match, but they didn't get together in the end. On the emotional road, Huo Qishan has been full of twists and turns, never getting married and having children, which makes his family very worried.
At the same time, Guo Jingjing did not turn a blind eye to this younger brother. She always enlightens him, hoping that he can find his own happiness. She personally introduced her friend to Huo Qishan, but they didn't call each other and ended up in discord.
Guo Jingjing, on the other hand, has been worried about this younger brother. Since she has no intention of falling in love, she should concentrate on her work. Guo Jingjing is Huo Qishan's eldest sister-in-law, but she is also like a mentor. It was also after listening to Guo Jingjing's persuasion that I tried to make myself better.
Second, Guo Jingjing can take responsibility in the family and be sensible. As a diving queen, Guo Jingjing is a household name, and she has successfully become a judge of the Tokyo Olympic Games. Olympics is a kind of spirit. Guo Jingjing received a good education and strict training since childhood. This makes her have a lot to do with establishing a correct personality. Later, Guo Jingjing married into a rich family, and many people said that Guo Jingjing was already on top. Guo Jingjing replied: There are many giants, but there are not many in the world. This short sentence shows her confidence.
Why is Guo Jingjing a good wife? In the Huo family, Guo Jingjing also respects the two old people. Once, Grandma Huo passed away and was photographed by the media. At that time, Guo Jingjing just gave Huo Qishan a look because of his wrong position. Huo Qishan immediately realized his mistake and changed his position.
Many netizens used this excuse to say that Huo Qishan was afraid of her sister-in-law Guo Jingjing. Actually, it's not. Such a small station may be photographed by a concerned netizen and then enlarged, especially for such a big family, there are still some rules.
However, Guo Jingjing has always kept it in mind, taking care of this family wholeheartedly and worrying about the overall image of this family. Huo Qishan also knows that everything Guo Jingjing has done is for her family. What reason does he have not to respect her?
Big brother is like father, and sister-in-law is like mother. Guo Jingjing also takes care of Huo Qishan. For Huo Qishan, we can learn many excellent qualities from Guo Jingjing.
Guo Jingjing's diving crown was won entirely through her own efforts. There are talents and opportunities in this world, but more is hard work. Guo Jingjing was not very talented when she was young.
On the contrary, she has many shortcomings, such as poor leg shape, which is a great challenge for diving. Her efforts to enter this world are obvious to all. Since leg press, I have reached the peak of my life step by step. Although I encountered many setbacks in the middle, I recovered after crying. Opportunities are always reserved for those who are prepared, and it is precisely because of Guo Jingjing's unremitting efforts that she can win the championship. As a diving queen, she deserves it.
Third, Guo Jingjing is thrifty and never shows off her wealth, which makes Huo Qishan admire her very much. Many people may think that the family life and education of the rich are different from those of ordinary people. They are superior in food, clothing and use.
There are tens of thousands of clothes that netizens casually shoot for stars, either limited or even showing off. However, Guo Jingjing never did. She has lived a life like ordinary people since she was a child. After marrying into a rich family, she has never changed her previous living habits. Her clothes are never the most expensive. Like ordinary people, it ranges from tens to hundreds of dollars.
Many people don't understand, Guo Jingjing is not without money, why is she so frugal? Guo Jingjing answered this question. Isn't that what everyone does? Yes, if you have money, you must be independent. If you have money, you have to be superior Her idea is really close to the people and admirable, and she has never been rich.
Many stars never go in and out of some red carpets. They may feel that they are not in line with their identity, or that they are too cheap and unsanitary. But Guo Jingjing is different from his wife. Everyone can eat, so they can eat. Therefore, they are often photographed by the media for shopping. When they are tired, they will eat something at a small booth. This is also a kind of fun. People don't need too much care and rules. This lifestyle makes people feel relaxed.
Not only that, Guo Jingjing often helps some poor children. Where there is trouble, there is her. She devoted herself to public welfare undertakings and helped many people in times of crisis. How can we not admire so many excellent qualities?
Huo Qishan should be very proud to see such a eldest sister-in-law. From her, Huo Qishan saw courage, equality and hard work. Always teach him how to do things and how to be a man.
Fourth, Guo Jingjing's idea of educating children is admirable. Guo Jingjing is not only strict with herself, but also with her children's education. Although she married a rich family, she should be frugal and strict with herself in educating her children.
Some netizens broke the news. At that time, Huo Zhenting went home to miss Doby's children, but Guo Jingjing refused. Guo Jingjing asked her son to finish his homework, and then played with his grandfather. Although this is a trivial matter, for many people, isn't it just putting Huo Zhenting in the eye?
Actually, it's not. That's what education should be like. Don't break the rules because of adults. Study when you should study, and play when you should play. For this matter, Huo Zhenting thinks that Guo Jingjing did the right thing.
Therefore, in the Huo family, Guo Jingjing educated her children, and no one ever intervened, because her educational philosophy was recognized by the Huo family. On the Internet, many mothers often see the conflict between educating their children and their parents-in-law.
Actually, there's no need to do this. Everyone has different educational ideas. When something happens, everyone can say it. As grandparents, after all, we are separated from our grandchildren by a generation, so we should not interfere too much in education. Young people have young people's ideas. Let parents educate their children. And grandparents are auxiliary roles. Don't get too excited and have an argument with the parents.
Verb (abbreviation of verb) summary. Respect is mutual, whether rich or poor, even when rich and powerful. Since ancient times, giants have given people the impression that there are too many rules, mother-in-law is too tricky, and children are the kind of people who are not sensible.
Actually, these impressions are too rigid. In the Huo family, what we see is mutual respect, mutual care and mutual understanding between people. So should we ordinary people.
Whether it is the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, or the relationship between husband and wife, it is important to understand and understand each other. When one party is busy, the other party can take responsibility and solve problems for the family.
Don't keep one party so busy and the other so idle. This is easy to produce contradictions. Husband and wife should be responsible for each other. No one cares who should do it. If everything is clearly divided, what fun is there in life?
Getting along with mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is also a science. Although Guo Jingjing's in-laws respect her very much. In fact, she is also very kind to them. When we can't avoid living with our in-laws, our living habits will merge. At this time, it is important to be tolerant and generous.
If you haggle over every ounce because of a small matter, then this family will not be happy. As the saying goes, take a step back and broaden the horizon. There is nothing in this world that Chou He hates. We are all family members. When you encounter problems, communicate more and be more tolerant, and nothing will happen. When others do something for you, we should also be grateful in time and know how to thank each other, so that we can feel warm love and there will be no conflict.