1. Provide a complete and detailed wedding itinerary for my brother. If you spend a lot on wedding planning, you will know that there will be many details and trips involved. It will help to spend a little time sorting out a brother-only trip. Once the two brothers know their timetable, you can assign them to take charge of the work. Don't forget to make sure they can work independently, after all, you have enough to deal with. 2. Assign the right job to the right brother. When it comes to assigning work, this is basic common sense. If your best man is forgetful, give your wedding ring to someone you trust. If you have a sociable brother, ask him to entertain guests at the wedding scene and give full play to his social charm. But don't forget, don't give a brother too much work just because he is reliable. It's better to distribute it evenly. Be careful not to drink too much. It's harmless to have a few drinks before the wedding, but don't let your brother drink out of control. Please try to reduce alcohol intake before, during, after and even at the wedding reception. Getting drunk is always a bad idea for a person. Besides, you don't want to get drunk. After all, you want to enjoy your wedding night, right? And if you hire a cameraman, the embarrassment of getting drunk will be recorded for life. 4. Make sure your best man doesn't make an amazing speech. We have all heard terrible stories. Because the best man drank too much and told secrets or stories that he shouldn't have told, so that your future family members could hear the details that they shouldn't have heard. Of course, you don't need to ask the best man to write a speech, but please make sure you agree with what to say and what not to say. There is nothing worse than the embarrassing scene between brothers and sisters on the wedding day. If the matchmaking between brothers and sisters is wrong, it will often lead to an embarrassing situation in the wedding. Let your brothers know what you think of the relationship between them and their sisters. If one of your brothers wants to play, tell him never to find a sister group. 6. Avoid flirting with sisters. We will continue to discuss the relationship between brothers and sisters. We are serious! If you are worried about your playboy best man, pair him with a married sister or an elderly guest. Don't forget to take this into account when you plan your wedding with the bride. You know your brother. If it's important to you, make sure your playboy brothers don't do anything to single sisters. 7. Make rules for bachelor parties. Traditionally, you can go crazy at a bachelor party. But in fact, as the groom, you can decide how you want to celebrate your bachelor party. If you feel uncomfortable going to strip clubs or other activities, tell your brothers. Even if you just want a simple bachelor party and enjoy the company of brothers and whiskey, it's no problem. It's up to you. 8. Confirm your brother's dress. Usually, it is not easy to decide your sister's dress. Where's your brother's skirt? Have you decided whether to rent a tuxedo? Still wearing a suit? If your wedding is casual, a suit is enough. You may think that letting your brother buy a suit is a lot of money, but it is also a good investment for your brother. After all, this suit can be worn on other occasions. 9. Make sure they all know where their team is. The responsibility of the best man is simple and clear. Even if your brother is smart, please make sure that they all attended the wedding rehearsal and that they know where they are and who they are going with. There is nothing wrong with asking questions. 10. Find someone to manage the brother team. This is what sisters can do. If you are worried that your brother drank too much at the wedding, forget his duty and find a trusted relative to remind him. If you hire a wedding planner, it will be the responsibility of the wedding planner. 1 1. Don't let your brother lose control of the layout. Traditionally, your brother is responsible for the layout of the car. If you don't want condoms or there is something indecent in the car, just say so. Don't embarrass your bride or family. Let your brothers know that they will not cross the line.