The material we pursue often exceeds our own needs. For example, if we can actually take a taxi, we must spend a lot of money to buy a private car. Usually, the maintenance cost is expensive enough to cover the construction cost, but those who can run in the park have to participate in this and that weight loss experience to lose weight in the space capsule ... and once we hold "How useless are people who make their own money?" You might as well spend your partner's money. "Mentality is definitely unable to maintain a low level of material love. Even if you are really in love, however, love is not the whole of life, and he (she) may give up true love because life is not extravagant.
In addition: Sex itself is a kind of material enjoyment, and it is better if it is combined with emotional integration, but regardless of emotional factors, everyone wants to sleep with Lin Chi-ling or Tom Cruise.
So there is no absolute opposition between sex and matter, they are interlinked. The material requirements of sex are higher, which may include the physical condition of the object, the interest of the object, the environment at that time and so on. Even if you have money, it may not be realized.
If you have money, it is certainly interesting to spend a romantic night in the white corridor of the Aegean Sea. But if the object is the right person, it is also beautiful to be warm and happy in your own nest. Depends on what you think.
On the other hand, if people are wrong, not to mention the Aegean Sea, even the Dubai Sailing Hotel will stop the scenery.