So how important is career to women? Why do women engage in careers? I think there are several reasons:
1. Career makes you more independent. Women in China have a strong desire for independence. They understand that economic independence is the foundation of all independence. The beginning of marriage is an important turning point in life, and our personal time and energy are limited, so it is difficult to take care of all aspects of life. So we need to weigh and choose between career and family, and choice often determines the direction of our life. Life is like a scientific experiment, and we need to adjust our direction through trial and error.
Second, career makes women more confident and have more status in the family. Having children is a woman's life choice. Everyone has different choices at different ages. Choose what you can bear, and bear what you choose.
If women don't have an independent career, they can't create direct economic value when there is conflict, and naturally they lose their right to speak. Without "status", they are naturally free laborers in the family, their needs will not be seen, and their interests will naturally not be guaranteed. Therefore, career is the guarantee of a woman's life, and it is also to make her life more emboldened.
Third, career makes women stronger and more fearless. For a woman, the best backer is never a good family background. If she is rich and powerful, not to mention finding a good husband, she will be able to have food and clothing for life.
A woman's best backer is herself, and it is eternal and will not collapse from beginning to end. If your family and marriage are unhappy, at least you have a job that will allow you to get in touch with society and free you from daily chores. At the same time, career is not a standard for men, but also a standard for women. In today's environment, career is not only important for women, but also for men.
Fourth, career can make women meet better themselves and get beautiful love. First of all, if a girl sticks to her career, she may get true love to some extent. Many couples are often moved by objects with similar experiences in the process of pursuing their own careers.
Because they can communicate with each other and have deep feelings, it is precisely because they have similar attitudes in their careers that they can help each other in their careers, and their feelings will become deeper and deeper in the process.