Kiki's parents are people who think they must go to the "top class", so before Kiki's junior high school entrance examination, in order to improve their children's grades and get into a good school, they used various relationships to transfer classes for Kiki. One of them is a relative of Kiki's father, who used to be an excellent teacher in this school. But when Kiki's father told the teacher what he thought, he refused.
It turned out that this relative learned that Kiki's grades were above average in the current class, and there was still a big gap with those of other students in the top class of the current school, so he suggested that Kiki's father stay in the original class, otherwise Kiki might not keep up with the progress of other students, which would not help her academic performance, but would decline. After listening to this relative's advice, Kiki's father decided to let Kiki continue to study in her original class.
The teacher's suggestion is very pertinent. Kiki, who scored high in the ordinary class, may be counting down when she reaches the top class.
1, learning progress can't keep up.
The students in the top class have a good foundation, so the teacher pays more attention to some key and difficult problems when teaching, and may skip some common knowledge points. Teachers in ordinary classes explain each knowledge point in detail when teaching, which is convenient for students to understand. Therefore, students who are accustomed to the teaching methods of ordinary classes may not be able to keep up with their learning progress after entering the top class.
2. The learning environment is not suitable.
No matter which class you were in before, you will build a deep friendship with your classmates. After entering a new class, the living environment has changed because I am unfamiliar with others, and some unpleasant situations may occur with my classmates.
3. The child is psychologically frustrated.
Because the students in the top class have excellent grades, becoming the "phoenix tail" of the top class will make the originally confident children doubt themselves and feel frustrated. In the long run, they may have the psychology of giving up on themselves.
1, a harmonious family
The healthy growth of children is inseparable from the family. If parents give their children enough sense of security during their growth, their ability to resist setbacks will be stronger. Moreover, parents' self-motivation will constantly influence their children and set new goals.
2. Warm campus life
Besides family, children spend more than half their time on campus, so school life has a great influence on their growth. If the school has some bad behaviors, such as cliques and school bullying, it is not conducive to the healthy growth of children.
3. A learning environment that matches their abilities.
Every child's learning ability is different. Some children are slow to respond and need the teacher to explain several times to understand. Some children are quick to respond, and the teacher can give inferences. Therefore, it is necessary to teach students in accordance with their aptitude and find a learning environment suitable for children.
Top class is not a panacea to improve children's grades. Parents must consider whether it is suitable to attend the top class from the perspective of their children, so as to avoid the situation that their children attend the top class, but their grades will drop and their self-esteem will be frustrated.