Good interpersonal communication is like warm sunshine, which can warm people and give them a high degree of comfort. Good interpersonal relationships can be mutually beneficial. Moreover, if the interpersonal relationship is not handled well, it will embarrass the other party and life will not be smooth sailing. Both love and affection are ordinary friends and colleagues, so we must treat them with caution and handle them properly. Everyone has a way to deal with others, and dealing with different people requires different communication methods. Everyone has their own magnetic field. Everyone looks at things from different angles and directions, just like painting carambola. Different angles will make the painting look completely different. Through communication, interpersonal communication can make people have a clearer understanding of things. However, getting along with people is not as close as possible. Schopenhauer said, "People are like hedgehogs in winter. If they get too close, they will be stung; If they are too far away, they will feel cold. " Sometimes, interpersonal relationships are just like spring, which makes people suffocate. If so, the relationship will be more harmonious if you know how to give each other a comfortable space in the process of communication.

Without proper limit and a sense of distance, feelings will be destroyed. People need a sense of space. With the care of her parents, Angie and her sister-in-law Jiang Dehua get along very interestingly. Angie doesn't like that Jiang Dehua is uneducated, ignorant and rude. He always gossips about others and doesn't respect their privacy. None of them gave in. Suddenly, Jiang Defu was in a dilemma between his wife and sister. But he can handle this relationship well, show his respect and support to his wife by "slimming", and let his sister know what to do and how to advance and retreat. There will be great differences between people. Education level and growth environment, as well as living habits and dealing with people, may be very different. Without proper limit and a sense of space, it is difficult to get respect and understanding, and it is easy to destroy feelings. When getting along with others, don't overestimate your relationship in the eyes of others, but respect others. Only by being yourself can you win the respect of others. No matter who gets along with whom, we should give each other a comfortable space and learn from each other's strengths, not the right person.

No matter how good the relationship is, it needs proper limits. The closer the relationship is, the more appropriate restrictions are needed. In Ode to Joy, Qu Xiaoyu and Zhao Qiping are two people together. Qu Xiaoyu's heart is humble. She looks strange, but in fact, she is a sincere lover and she is confused. She just wants to pester Dr. Zhao, hoping that he belongs to her, and in everything, she is catering to each other's preferences. She unconsciously paid more and more money, and even wanted to pretend that she was a gentle lady. However, treating herself like this made her lose her principles and bottom line and her feelings. The more you are afraid of losing, the more modest you will become and the less you feel. She woke up in time, and she was the real herself in front of Zhao Qi's plane. Zhao Qiping also found that Qu Xiaoyu had many shortcomings, but she was his favorite. You don't have to deliberately please, and you don't have to deliberately change your personality for anyone. Don't underestimate yourself, let alone think that as long as you make great sacrifices, you can maintain good interpersonal relationships. Over time, you will feel tired and put a lot of pressure on each other. Moderation can balance this relationship. Excessive exertion and trying to narrow the distance between the two will not achieve good results. No matter what kind of relationship you deal with, you should accept each other's advantages and disadvantages, cherish the sincerity and purity of getting along, and be measured.

Keeping a distance is the best way to communicate, and keeping a distance with others is the performance of a wise man. Sheng Minglan in Do You Know likes Qi Heng very much, but she knows that there is a huge gap between herself and the other person's identity, and Qi Heng keeps a close relationship with her and gives her precious gifts. Sheng Minglan's attitude was rejected. She knows that a woman's reputation is the most precious wealth, even the fate of the whole family. What she wants is a husband who can protect herself. Love alone is not enough. Therefore, she has been keeping a short distance from Qi Heng. Qi Heng can't give her any protection. Without future love, Sheng can't afford it. It is precisely because she understands people's feelings and knows how to protect herself when getting along with others that she has a better home. Keeping your distance is the best way to communicate. No matter whether others are friendly or hostile to you, you should keep a certain distance. Don't

No matter how beautiful the relationship is, there will be changes and a lot of helplessness. The good and evil of human nature are not immutable. Maybe a person is very important in the other person's heart, but there may be more important things and people worth protecting. Keep a proper distance from others, so that when the other person lets go, it will be very painful and unpleasant. If you can think wisely from the other person's point of view, it will be easier to choose forgiveness. No matter who you get along with, the highest level is: keep your distance. "The root of human suffering lies in the lack of a sense of boundary. Don't deliberately approach infinitely for one person. It takes up most of others' time and is easy to get bored. Let each other have their own space, be able to keep their own independent thoughts and give each other freedom.

If you love another person, please don't try to please yourself, but keep yourself, so that it is easier to keep the balance between you and others. In the long run, you can get along without getting tired. Keep a proper distance, so that you can see each other more clearly and measure their real position. It will be more convenient to judge for yourself whether to continue this relationship or stop this fate. No matter what kind of relationship it is, we must first respect and understand each other. Only by knowing what others want can we better contact them. Don't deliberately ask each other's privacy, don't chat, and don't fill the relationship with calculations. Simplify getting along with others, and your life will become simpler and you won't encounter unnecessary troubles. Only by paying, being paid and being polite can we turn sincerity into sincerity.