There is an old couple in the community. Because of illness, grandpa must keep exercising every day. When walking, the legs and feet are not flexible, and someone must help you. Go to work or cook every morning and evening. I also habitually look out through the window every time to see if they are exercising downstairs.
Over time, I will pay more attention to them. Every time there is only a white-haired grandmother around, holding a shivering grandfather to exercise back and forth downstairs in the community every day. Grandpa took small steps gently, like a child who just learned to walk. Take a few steps, have a rest, and then summon up courage to continue their long years together. Grandma has been with her. When she is tired, let's have a rest together. Moreover, the old people will occasionally take a rest in a wheelchair, while the old women will sit on the chairs in the community, talking to each other while resting, and occasionally watching them lose their temper. Maybe the old man has been exercising for a long time and doesn't want to exercise any more, but the old woman will patiently say that if she really doesn't listen, the old woman will scold her and watch the old man talking and laughing with each other.
In any case, the white-haired grandmother accompanies her day after day, and the grandparents around her, regardless of spring, summer, autumn and winter, will meet the old couple downstairs in the community unless it rains heavily and snows. Grandma's silent company is grandpa's spiritual pillar. Let's spend the rest of our lives together and hope grandpa will get better soon.
From the beginning to the present. I want to know what they went through. Years are impermanent, along the way. Maybe they both know the essence of life, and they can still be together for life. On the road of life, it is easy to accompany a person for a while, but difficult to accompany a person for a lifetime. Many times, for various reasons, they are not only the only dependence on each other, but also the last dependence.
There is an old photo of my grandparents when they were young in my mobile phone photo album. I missed my grandfather, so I opened it and felt warm. Tears filled my eyes, because I haven't seen my grandfather for the last time, and I haven't fulfilled my promise to him. At work, I will go out with my grandfather and see where he used to work, because grandpa has been chanting. And all I can do is go home and spend time with my grandparents and buy all kinds of food for my grandpa. Every time I go home, grandpa eats the delicious food I bought him, and tears are rolling in his eyes. Yes, my grandfather has been away from me for almost 20 years. ...
Grandma said that when she married her grandfather, he was eight years older than him. Grandpa was still in the army at that time. From the moment he realized that he was engaged to get married, he has been running back and forth between home and the army. After they got married, grandpa has been in the army, while grandma has been doing housework and sewing. Grandma, who can make clothes, is busy with her dexterous hands for the people in the village. No matter spring, summer, autumn and winter, people from the village always come to grandma to mend clothes and sew new clothes. I remember growing up with my grandparents when I was a child. The family was lively, warm and sweet.
Until grandpa came home from the army, all the photos I kept were taken by grandpa and grandma at the photo studio in the city when they got married. Grandpa's popularity is very good. When he returned to his hometown, he was always very busy, and began to plant land, apples and grapes. Slowly, there are endless vegetables and fruits in my apple orchard all year round, and grandpa gives them to the people in the village. Grandpa, who is enthusiastic and talkative, talks all the way to the fields every time, and gets along well with the people in the village, because I have been grandpa's favorite since I was a child.
Grandpa has a bad temper, but he is good to me and grandma. Occasionally, grandparents will quarrel. They have been together for more than 70 years, and they always go to the market and visit relatives in the town. Even later, because of cerebral hemorrhage, grandpa's legs and feet could not work and needed grandma's help. Wherever they go, they always accompany me, followed by a small follower.
It was not until my grandfather died that I realized that he was a veteran who participated in the War to Resist US Aggression and Aid Korea and defend the country. At that moment, I could not help crying. I was in Mu Na, quietly looking at grandpa's photos and watching grandma dig out a pile of medals wrapped in brown paper from the old box. I slowly opened it, touched it one by one, watched it carefully, and my mood could not be calm for a long time.
I can't finish talking about my grandparents, who have been so indifferent all their lives. There is not much commitment between them, and there is no so-called romantic love. Just simple companionship between you and me. Grandma has lived in her hometown since grandpa died. Every time I go home, grandma always talks about grandpa and the story between her and grandpa. I listened quietly and stood by, listening to my grandmother telling her own years.
What's it like to be with each other in real life? I think love is probably what it looks like between the old people and grandparents who help each other in the community. There is nothing vigorous, only a little company. From the beginning of feeling, to feeling, and then to love, this may be the simplest and simplest way to love.
Depend on each other in life and talk to each other. When there are contradictions, it is at this time that the true feelings are revealed to each other. The best feelings are only reflected in the triviality of daily necessities.
May all the love stories that touch each other's hearts be accompanied for a long time in the baptism and test of time.
202165438+1the evening of October 25th.