If a woman has any problems, a man will help. If anyone dares to bully that woman, the man will definitely stop him. That female colleague is also very kind to men. They have their own families, and they are all happy. Their family members are also very close and will get together at any time.
The other two men and women in the company are the same as above, but they are having an affair. The affair between them was spread by everyone in the dark. There is a simple reason. They are not friends, they are not in the same department, but they are pandering and falling into intimate relationship.
At first it was a cover-up, but now it's openly ambiguous. Both of them have their own families. This man is a leader. Some women say they want to be next to the leader, while others say their marriage is unhappy. To be sure, this is a real thing.
Different people have different views on getting along with colleagues of the opposite sex. But the general colleague relationship is not afraid of anything, just afraid that this is what everyone needs, and they don't want to be alone in the opposite sex colleague relationship!
Still that sentence, the Qing dynasty is self-clearing!
I think so.
Work is work, or it is better to keep a little distance from the opposite sex at work. Even if you ask yourself, gossip will kill you.
Especially married men and women, manage their distance from the opposite sex. What I saw with my own eyes was that there was a married man and a married woman in my unit. No matter whether he goes to work or not, any man will always find various reasons to find this woman and will always be together after work. When I first went, I thought they were husband and wife, but later I realized that they were not. I also know that I am very close to them because of the gossip of the unit and the discord between the two families.
In fact, this problem is not difficult to understand. You certainly don't want your wife hanging out with other people's men all the time. Even if you believe that she will have nothing, there will always be discomfort in her heart.
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Personal experience.
My new colleague, assigned to my department, was brought by me. I think everyone is working, too. I can help. I can say that I taught her all the skills at work and the experience in the workplace.
I'm getting more and more familiar, because this colleague's home is in the same direction as mine, so as long as there are no special circumstances, I'll give you a ride.
Because we often go together, and the new employees I bring are familiar to everyone, sometimes we will have dinner together on the way home late after working overtime. She has a boyfriend and I have a wife, but in fact, everyone has no concept, and slowly there are rumors in the company.
At this time, things began to change. At first, it was just a rumor, then it became a little joke among colleagues, and finally it seemed that something really happened.
In fact, I think the most horrible thing about the whole thing is gossip. People's attitude towards gossip has never been less, and it has become more and more exaggerated. The news even reached the May Day holiday when she and I traveled abroad. This is an insult to a fat house that can lie down without sitting.
People often joke about this at work, and this situation has developed to affect the work.
At first, we thought honest people were honest. If a colleague jokes in person, we should explain. Later, the nature changed completely, and even the manager was alarmed to ask about it. After explaining the situation, the leaders also dealt with it, and there is nothing to pass on in the future.
It's okay. I told my wife about it, and she understood. Fortunately, I report it every time I go out to eat.
After that, my colleague didn't hitchhike, and we kept a certain distance, which was good for everyone.
Therefore, it is best to keep a certain distance from colleagues of the same sex or the opposite sex at work, so that people are good to themselves, but it is not good to be too close.
We can manage ourselves, but we can't manage others.
This kind of thing varies from person to person, but it does not rule out that colleagues of the opposite sex will have sparks when they are together for a long time.
If men and women are not married and have been together for a long time, as long as they don't hate each other, they may gradually have feelings.
I have two colleagues who are like this. At first, they were in the same office as soon as they graduated. They went to work together and finally got married.
If you have a family, that's another matter. If you have a family, you should put the responsibility first, so that even if you have more contact with colleagues of the opposite sex, there will be no problem. But if you are irresponsible to your family, try not to have too much contact with colleagues of the opposite sex.
Married people, it is best not to get too close to colleagues of the opposite sex.
Studies have shown that in extramarital affairs, colleagues are common cheating objects.
This is because the relationship between men and women needs two premises: space and time.
In terms of space, the shorter the distance between two people, the easier it is to be familiar with and rely on.
There's a saying, "It's easy to get the moon by being close to the water", which is used in the relationship between men and women, that is, when two people meet often, it's easy to spark.
For example, two people meet every day and get to know each other. One day, if you are in a bad mood, and the other person sees that you are in a bad mood, you will open your heart and talk, and the seeds of love may sprout together when you appreciate each other.
In terms of time, it is easy for two people to feel familiar and dependent when they are together for a long time. Once this familiarity and dependence are fermented, it is easy for two people to come together.
Colleagues have advantages over ordinary people in both space and time. If two people are close and often together, it is easy to have feelings beyond colleagues.
Tell a real case. Some girl I know is having an affair with a married male boss.
At first, neither girls nor male bosses meant this.
But two people often chat together and often travel together. Ten days and a half on business trip. After being together for a long time, my feelings came out unconsciously.
The extramarital affairs between many colleagues happened unconsciously in this way.
Therefore, married people, it is best not to get too close to colleagues of the opposite sex.
Now that you are married, you should learn to keep a proper distance from other members of the opposite sex. Even colleagues should not get too close.
Of course, if two people are not together, that is another matter.
I'm willow, an interesting and knowledgeable education expert, emotional tutor and psychological counselor.
Never get too close to colleagues of the opposite sex. This sentence makes sense. Here is a key word: too close.
It is normal for colleagues to be close. They get along with each other every day and deal with many things together. It's hard to get close to each other.
However, it is not good if colleagues of the opposite sex get too close and have no sense of boundaries.
How to deal with the relationship with colleagues of the opposite sex is actually a compulsory course for people in the workplace.