Do you think of your remorse for addiction and the internet? Is this their fault or adults' fault? ?
The school called the police in the name of journalists interfering with teaching. If it is as the school says, is it necessary to correct it with a unique educational method?
Why do children indulge in internet addiction and cause trouble? Why do children keep sending distress messages? Study?
Is it heaven or hell for primary school students? Is the child too spoiled to suffer, so that he borrows the name of accident?
Is Bo She particular about it? ?
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Core Tip: 16-year-old Guangxi students were beaten to death by Nanning sailing rescue training camp counselors, which caused widespread concern. Jin Hao Vocational School in Nansha District of Guangzhou has cooperated with Inspirational and Sailing before, and the Education Bureau said that they have investigated the school. The reporter found that the sailing training camp has not been banned, and the inspirational training camp is still recruiting students. The children in the training camp typed the word "SOS" for help.
16-year-old students are addicted to the internet, and their parents send them to "Nanning Sailing Rescue Training Camp". Although the cost is as high as 7000 yuan, for their parents, they hope to see a brand-new son in just two months. However, no one expected that the news of his son's death came the next day! No one can predict that a school whose purpose is to save teenagers' internet addiction is a paradise in parents' hearts, but a hell in children's hearts! After more than ten hours, a living person will be separated from Yin and Yang. At this time, what high hopes can we have for the so-called school that saves the hearts of young people? Just after this incident, the relevant departments responded, and all schools that have cooperative relations with Sailing Inspirations were dealt with and investigated, which means that the qualifications for running schools were banned! However, this situation already exists in Jin Hao Vocational School in Nansha District. What does it mean that children who accept rescue tasks keep sending out distress signals from the window?
Still a plan, here is a question worthy of our deep thinking. In what way does this so-called rescue training camp exist, and the rationality of this existence is questioned! Just like electroshock therapy, which was banned not long ago, using so-called homemade electroshock therapy to save children who are addicted to the internet has caused widespread controversy. The so-called low voltage and the rationality of treatment methods have been severely challenged by the whole social moral level and psychology major! Today, the so-called rescue training camp is still under the banner of rescue, but there has been a terrible situation, a child's life has disappeared, which has aroused doubts and accountability for this school! Why does this school exist, and why does this school still exist after the incident? These are all questions we have to ask! As we all know, the so-called doctors engaged in psychotherapy must go through the professional training and assessment of the relevant national psychological departments and reach the prescribed standards before they can engage in this industry; But I don't know if this rescue school, which is located in the sailing training camp of Jin Hao Middle School in Huangge, Nansha, has the above-mentioned relevant standards when it comes to rescue. If not, why can it exist so boldly! Who connived at the existence of this school and why it still exists in the public eye after the so-called investigation! The plot enriches everyone's imagination!
We have always been unable to deny that many people's unique vision of business today is often aimed at the phenomena existing in a society, for the sake of economic interests and interests. As a result, various counseling stations and Olympic math classes in the streets and alleys came into being, which is the most timely entry point for parents to expect their children to succeed and become talents. Even though local education bureaus prohibit accepting students in the name of various remedial classes on weekends, they always say what they do. It is not necessarily that some place has been investigated and banned! Because the wishes of parents have become the best opportunity for some people to return business opportunities. Today, the existence of the online world has become the most urgent problem for teenagers to indulge, so-called schools to save children's minds have emerged. For parents, they don't want their children to live in a virtual world with only one child, so they hold the idea of seeing the light at first sight in the dark and regard such a school as a savior to save their children from suffering, no matter how reasonable it is, just because they are locked in the school, they have a little more faith. However, no one can imagine how the school treats children! How to get them out of internet addiction! So I signed a contract with the school, paid 1000 yuan, and waited for a brand-new child to come to me hopefully! As for what kind of education the children received in it and what kind of psychological consultation they received, there is no way to ask! This is the crisis under trust!
As parents, it is completely unprepared that the so-called online camp cessation is regarded as the savior of children's future hopes. After signing the money, they left. This is out of trust in the school, but the process has never been taken care of! Perhaps it is precisely because in today's social environment, the family combination mode is mostly in the case of 4: 2: 1, and it is impossible to implement effective educational means for children to indulge in the internet. Due to the pressure of life, both parents have no time to further explore and communicate their children's hearts. Today, when a training school singing redemption appeared, they seemed to have hope for the future! So in that completely closed environment, let the children start another page in their lives! Maybe no one can predict what will happen to the children inside. Just after the death of a student in Nanning, when the news that this school in Guangzhou has been investigated sounded in the voice of the education department, what we saw was still an aggressive existence! At this time, perhaps we have to question the rationality of the existence of this school. A school without any psychological counseling can still live stably in the eyes of society under the so-called seizure! The distress message from the windowsill is full of unimaginable space. Is the SOS distress signal and beating message sent by children to passers-by because they can't stand the hardships of school closure, or because they have been spoiled since childhood, or is it true that the school has adopted violent means in so-called psychological counseling, so that these uncompromising children can't bear the results of this training and correction? What's more, these children who have been addicted to the internet for many years are thoughtful and often have a flash of light in difficulties, explaining their behavior in their minds with questions of right and wrong? So, is being beaten a fact in the distress signal, or is it a means to force them to correct their thoughts? Perhaps this, only those children who are being rescued know best, because they have experienced this possibility first hand! Whether it's bitter or not, even the police don't let go when there are no vicious cases! For this generation of children, when the voice of "wolf coming" makes adults listen more, no one will show special concern for them!
When children often throw out distress signals when passers-by pass by, the name of the school gives people a sense of meddling. Who will believe that there will be so-called violence in schools? Even after the death of students in Nanning's Jiewang camp, but in Guangzhou, Jiewang camp is still overcrowded, and many students are still sent in. We can't help but ask, what happened to these parents? Did the death of Nanning students still not attract their attention? Perhaps for the crowd, there will always be such an idea. As long as this contingency does not happen to them, it proves that the existence of this school is reasonable and scientific! Therefore, even after the death of Nanning students, some parents of students in Guangzhou still regard Internet-quit camp as the beginning of the second spring to save their children, in view of their children's addiction to the Internet. The existence of this concept is actually because of the legitimacy of the school, which gives these parents a little luck! And parents also hope to use other people's means to correct their children's internet addiction, which makes this school still make sense!
What kind of education is best for schools, parents and children? How can we guide children not to indulge in the internet? For this rescue training incident, we can see that parents still believe that there is a filial son under the fist. Even when a student from Nanning died in their training camp, they still did not change their original intention and put their children in school, hoping that the school would correct their bad behavior through strict management measures, and never thought about why their mistakes caused their children to indulge in the internet unilaterally and could not dial by themselves! At present, the diversified structure of society has accelerated the pace of life. Most parents are guided by this concept of educating their children. As long as children can eat well, throw away a few large sums of money when they need to spend money and satisfy them materially, they think they have fulfilled their parents' responsibilities. At this time, it doesn't matter how to guide children to have a correct outlook on life and how to cultivate their interests! If you only feel satisfied with your own characteristics, you must repay us with good grades, or you will be beaten, kicked and beaten. This kind of thinking is actually to isolate yourself from the child's heart and separate your own thoughts from the child's thoughts! If parents can't correctly grasp their children's ideological trends and psychological development tracks, can't patiently listen to their inner voices, and use a busy reason to build a psychological gap, that's a failed parent! Sometimes, children need adults' understanding, parents' recognition and respect for themselves, and parents are also expected to hear their inner voices, not just through beatings and material satisfaction. It is precisely because of the lack of inner communication with children that children are addicted to the internet and regard the lonely world as their partners, and they can't get rid of it themselves. In fact, the biggest sin for children to walk into the center of quitting the network camp lies in their parents rather than children!
Then, when children enter the net-quit camp, do they feel chilly in spring as parents expect? Can schools without any relevant psychological education qualifications have good educational methods? Fully enclosed does not mean strict management and correct counseling. The defect of this strict management is reflected in the frequent distress messages sent by children. If a school gives the right medicine to children's internet addiction and carries out correct psychological counseling, why can there still be incidents of student death? This is the exposed end of existence and this network! Can psychotherapy make people scarred? Psychological killing is between killing and invisibility! Then, when we face the bad news of a student who has just gone in for a day, we have to question the reputation of the school to save people, and at the same time we have to question the distress signals that those children frequently send out! Does the school mainly use corporal punishment to educate and guide children to quit internet addiction, or do psychological counseling to save children? In the face of these children, who can really save their young hearts? I think, not the school, but the parents! Only when parents put down the dignity of the so-called boss and patiently touch their children's hearts and growth trajectory is the way to salvation. Otherwise, those so-called electric shocks, so-called rescue, are just people who hang sheep's heads and sell dog meat to cheat and rob money!