First, plant the seeds of love on the train.
Eight years ago, after the winter vacation, my sister went back to school to go to that northern town. Our home is also in a small town. There are not many trains stopping, and there are no departure trains. My sister, who returned to Spring Festival travel rush at the peak of her return trip, was destined to stand for a long time.
I struggled to get on the train, and there was no place to stay. My sister stood in the air for nearly two hours. Time is ticking by, and it's nearly midnight. At a big station, more people got off the bus, and my sister's feet finally landed. After sizing up the situation, my sister quickly put her backpack by the door and sat up. When she sat down, she saw a man standing by the car door. He can sit in the fence before his sister runs over. My sister smiled gratefully at him and said, "Let's take turns sitting. I'll sit down first and change to you in half an hour. " The man just smiled.
Maybe I was too sleepy. My sister fell asleep while sitting, and it has been more than two hours since my sister woke up. My sister said slightly unnaturally, "Sorry, I fell asleep. Please sit down." He was about to stand up, but his legs were numb. I only heard the man sincerely say, "No, no, just sit down. You are a girl, I will stand. " . Now that you're awake, please look after my things and I'll go to the bathroom. You just fell asleep. I have been afraid to leave for fear that the car is unsafe. "My sister looked at his back and thought silently, this person is quite good. Only when the man came back refused to sit down, insisting that his sister sit down, and so on until it turned white, and finally the man had a little place to sit down.
After taking a shower, they made their own noodles and started chatting. During the chat, my sister knew that he was a soldier. On the border of the motherland, this time he returned to the team after visiting relatives. My sister believes everything he says for no reason. Because of the long driving time, they talked all over the world, ancient and modern, Chinese and foreign. My sister found that he knew a lot, and many of their hobbies coincided, which made them a little excited. Later, they sat next to their grandparents. The little girl is lively and lovely, but she always eats snacks. She wants to eat pecans, but her grandmother can't get rid of them. Then the man volunteered, "Aunt, I'll try." I saw his hands clutching walnuts, secretly hard, and the veins stood out on his head exploded. Finally, he heard a crunchy sound, and the walnut was actually opened. Sister was taken aback. She thinks this man is very different from those boys in school. There is nothing to say except Wu Ying. My sister feels willing to think of others at any time, and few people are willing to help others. After breakfast, he slept for a while. My sister plays with the little girl, talking and laughing. Time flies, unlike the dull and long journey in the past.
2. Smile and listen to Bloom's voice.
Happy times always pass quickly, and my sister has arrived. The man helped his sister take the things to the door, and the two said goodbye, probably because they were shy and didn't ask for each other's contact information at that time. When they met again, it was almost a year since they first met. My brother-in-law once said that he was grateful for this year, because in such a year, he deeply loved someone. He said to himself, if we meet again and she has such feelings for him, then he won't marry her. In this year, my sister has never regretted countless times, regretting why she didn't ask for the contact information of the other party. She clearly heard her heartbeat.
Fortunately, they met again on the train home during the winter vacation.
When their eyes met, there were tears in their eyes. Up to now, my sister has always thought that this is destiny takes a hand's fate, but my brother-in-law said that he had a great effort to find out the approximate time of the winter vacation in the northern province, and then chose the same train as last year. Although there was a seat this time, after getting on the bus, he didn't stop for a moment, looking for it one by one. When he found the fifth time, he really found his sister. Perhaps all accidents really have an inevitable component. From the moment of reunion, their hands have never been separated. My brother-in-law gave her the letter he wrote to his sister in the past year. Looking at a thick stack of letters, my sister thought of forever. May life always be like the first time.
During the rest of the journey, they depended on each other. Sister looked at the letter quietly, and brother-in-law looked at her quietly. It seems that I can grow old forever, so I am quiet for a long time.
3. Long distance love is because angels have wings.
Very conventional, my sister and brother-in-law started a long-distance relationship. Because the army was not allowed to use mobile phones and other equipment at that time, their love mainly depended on letters. This way was ridiculed by my sister's roommates as "love in the last century", but my sister willingly enjoyed this love and waiting.
Brother-in-law only goes home once a year. My sister really misses him, so she went to see him in the army during the holiday. My brother-in-law has always appreciated her understanding and treated her well. They were inseparable for more than a year, and then their sister graduated. After graduation, my sister went to a big city. There are many opportunities in big cities, but competition is fierce. In the first days, my sister started as a rookie in the workplace. Brother-in-law knows that my sister will definitely encounter many difficulties just after graduation. He may not be able to help. As long as I know the address, my sister will receive my brother-in-law's salary card in a few days. The password is her birthday.
Unfortunately, my sister suffered a lot at work that day and had nowhere to vent. In the evening, she returned to her residence and sent a message to her brother-in-law. There are only two sentences: I don't want you to give me money. Why aren't you with me? Brother-in-law quickly replied: XX, I know that long-distance love is very hard, and it is even harder to fall in love with me. I always think that the person who falls in love in a long distance is because he has a pair of angel wings, which can fly over Qian Shan and protect each other. I am willing to spread my wings and fly for you. I'm still on my way. Will you wait for me? Seeing the information of my brother-in-law, my sister's grievances suddenly vanished.
4. Daily necessities in life
What is unconventional is that after another three years, my sister's work tends to be stable, and my brother-in-law also applied to transfer to a city closer to my sister. They have achieved positive results. At the wedding, my brother-in-law confessed to his sister in front of relatives and friends: "XX, my love began when I met you. I believe that our love will not end, but will only get better and better. Although we gather less and leave more, no matter whether I walk in the desolate Gobi desert or the more desolate desert, you shine on me like a star in the night sky, letting me know the direction of my lover. I have set up a chastity memorial archway for you in my heart. You are the only one in my life. Even if there are difficulties and hardships, I believe that it is happiness to witness our hardships together. " Then they hugged each other tightly, and my sister cried happily. After marriage, their days are still gathering less and leaving more, but they have been living a stable and peaceful life.
There's only one problem I haven't figured out yet. My brother-in-law seldom calls his sister "dear", "baby" or other sweet names. Obviously, my sister was his first love. I asked my brother-in-law privately if it was because I had been in the army for a long time and I was embarrassed to call him that. My brother-in-law said to me seriously, "I always thought' baby' and' dear' were the general names. I can call you today, I can call her tomorrow, and now even strangers can call her that. I think your sister is very important to me. She is my wife, who I can give my life to protect my life. I don't want to use such a general name. I prefer to call her name. Every time I call her name, my heart is full of warmth and happiness. " Similarly, brother-in-law seldom says "I love you" to his sister. He often says, "Don't be afraid, I'm here". Suddenly I feel that my honest and kind brother-in-law is so cute, and there are really men who keep their promises. I finally understand why my sister is willing to travel thousands of miles for her brother-in-law. How much love and equality does it take to think more about each other than about yourself?
Some people say that once love falls on rice, oil and salt, it is a chicken feather, but my sister and brother-in-law make their marriage life shine. They follow the habit of writing letters before marriage, or communicate by writing letters; They don't cling to the diamond ring of houses, cars and cars, but work hard to build their own homes bit by bit like swallows holding mud; They treat themselves well, treat life well and spend every day sincerely. I watched my sister smile like a flower in my life and pampered her like a brother-in-law to help me find a boyfriend. My sister sometimes smiles and agrees, and sometimes she preaches seriously. I remember my sister said that according to her experience, no matter how times change, there should still be love in marriage. Only with love can problems be solved, and love will gradually become better for each other. Sometimes the spiritual match is even more important than the material one. It is also very important that once you have determined that this person is the one you want to spend your life with, you should try your best to run it. God is fair, it is impossible to give you flowers and a candy. Then my sister sighed lightly and said, "It's a pity that too many people are upside down now."
But what I learned from my sister's words is that when you see others living happily, he/she has the ability to live like this, because they must have given up something to get it.
Two months ago, the crystallization of love between my sister and brother-in-law was born. A little pink princess was born. Her nickname is wheel wheel.