Beauty is the appearance, but loveliness is the bone. An ugly woman can successfully transform into an "artificial beauty" through ever-changing cosmetic surgery, as beautiful as a digital baby; Cute is more of a natural temperament. People are cute not because they are beautiful, but because they are cute. How to be a lovely temperament woman?
1, there are several girlfriends.
In a woman's long life, we must have several close friends who are like sisters to accompany us through the vicissitudes of life. When we are full of white hair and full of children and grandchildren, we can still sit in rocking chairs together and talk about the follies of youth. The "boudoir" of "close friends in boudoir" not only refers to boudoir, daughter and boudoir, but also includes boudoir feelings that only the same sex can understand and experience.
2. Write a love letter carefully
In the era of more and more developed communication, it is easy for us to find a person, but it is difficult to enter a person's heart. Imagine what a pity it will be when the "love letter" becomes an unearthed cultural relic replaced by "love mail" or "love MSN" after many years! So, let's calm down, spread an ordinary piece of paper, pick up the pen that has been put on hold for a long time, and write a love letter seriously, so that the promise will run aground and that moment will last forever.
3. Marry someone who loves you
Not every woman can get a happy ending. If your partner just loves you and is loved by you, that is of course the most ideal state. However, many persistent modern women will say that a man who doesn't love himself can be tolerated as a husband, but it turns out that women are more eager for marriage and care than men, and most of these marriages are not happy. The advice of experienced people is generally: you can choose a man you love to fall in love, but if you want to get married, please hold the arm of a man who really loves you.
Tolerance and understanding are the guarantee of a happy marriage.
Tolerance and understanding are the biggest secrets to keep marriage fresh. There is no need to lament that "marriage is the grave of love". Last year, there was a hit TV series "Chinese Divorce", which sounded the alarm for many women. There is no contradiction between the third party. From the wife's endless doubts about her husband, it is her hysteria and out of thin air that push the originally happy family to the brink of collapse. The expectation before marriage is far from the reality after marriage. No matter how firm the love is, it must pass the test from romance to actual combat.
5. Create romance and explore the interest of life.
Singer Zhao Yonghua sang, "The most romantic thing I can think of is to grow old with you, collect bits and pieces of laughter along the way, and save it for sitting in a rocking chair and chatting slowly." Although the romance that women strive for lacks the mind to create and explore life emotions, it is easy to die. Life is not without beauty, but a lack of eyes to find beauty.
6. I was passionately in love once
One person is afraid of loneliness, two people are afraid of disappointment, and haggle over every ounce of love is around, which often makes women look forward to it. However, when the person of your dream appears and the yearning love comes, love deeply and passionately once! Xi Murong's poem: When you are young, if you love someone, please be gentle with him. No matter how long or short you have been in love, if you can always be gentle with each other, then all the moments will be flawless and beautiful.
7. Keep long hair for yourself at least once.
Women have to dress up at any age, so they must keep their hair long while they are young! This is not to say that older women must not have long hair, but if the white hair is sporadic, it is really difficult to give the viewer a sense of beauty. The chic old woman is like Sanmao, and braided hair's modeling for decades has also been criticized; Tayu Lo can sing My Hands Through Your Black Hair, but if this "black hair" turns white, the weight and feeling will be greatly reduced, right?
8. Visit a celebrity you admire.
Many people have such an example in their minds. He/she is a light in your life. When you encounter setbacks, you will think of him/her in addition to friends and relatives. No, not the "idol" that is widely praised now. He/she is someone you really admire. If you really have someone you admire, you can visit him/her. You can't help but use all your sincerity, wisdom and efforts, and your life will definitely improve at that moment.
9. Learn at least one musical instrument
We all have a lot to say, maybe we can't find someone to talk to, but when we play our beloved musical instrument and send a message to the piano, all the grievances can be dispersed with the wind. For women, both violin and musical instrument can enhance her personal temperament.
10. Write a letter to your mother on your birthday.
As a woman, you should know that birthday is a good day for your mother, so on your birthday, think about your mother's loving eyes, her eternal tolerant arms, her years of no regrets, her looming white hair and disappearing beauty ... On your birthday, please write a letter to your mother, tell her your gratitude and experience for life, and tell her that you always know her love. Maybe, just this once, my mother will feel that all her hard work is worth it.
1 1, read 15 minutes every day.
The mother gave birth to her father, but she was not born a beauty embryo, which can't blame anyone. However, it is not impossible to become a "temperament beauty" through the efforts of the day after tomorrow. You should make a study plan for yourself and enrich your spiritual home.