In the photo, he was wearing a simple white T-shirt and plain slacks, but the sunshine and vitality overflowed the screen. However, a year ago, he was still a code farmer who insisted on "007". His hair is falling off one by one, his stomach is full bit by bit, and the acne on his face is accumulating bit by bit.
A year ago, I saw through my circle of friends that he decided to resign and adjust himself; A year later, I was happy for him, and I was really curious about how he came over this year. I invited him to dinner at the weekend. After some chatting, I realized that he was not satisfied with the status quo and wanted to change careers. He simply resigned and went home. He teaches himself to design for three hours every day, starting from scratch, listening to online classes, watching master works, and studying and pondering a little. He is not satisfied with his physical condition. He exercises for an hour every day, goes to the gym every day from Monday to Friday, and runs around the city by bike on Saturday and Sunday. He felt very confused and didn't know what to do, so he read for half an hour every day, from literary works and biographies to personal growth and career planning. ...
He insisted on coming here for a whole year. I asked him if he was bored. He said that his family has a detailed timetable, and when to do something is actually quite substantial. In this way, we met him a year later, lost 20 pounds, read more than 100 books, and received an offer from an animation company.
We should stick to what we have determined, and time will give us the best answer.
Looking at the big boy in front of me, I can't help thinking of a brother in college. In my sophomore year, my senior decided to abandon science and study literature. He originally studied chemical engineering and wanted to transfer to the Chinese Department. Many people don't understand his decision. You know, engineering is better in our school. His original major was the trump card of the school, but liberal arts was not the key subject of the school. Everyone thinks his choice is unwise, and it's really hard to understand why he did it.
Without too much explanation, he firmly applied to the school, successfully passed the examination of Chinese Department and became a liberal arts student. According to the teachers, after he transferred to liberal arts, his study time was almost twice as long as that of other students. Besides attending classes and sleeping, he is still immersed in the library.
Others asked, "isn't it easier to transfer to liberal arts?" Why are you still working so hard? "
He smiled and said, "I just changed careers and my foundation is too poor." I have to make up for it. "
In my junior year, my senior brother fell in love with calligraphy. He either practices calligraphy every day or spends most of his time watching Copybook for calligraphy. Later I heard that my brother got a master's degree in calligraphy after graduation, and then I heard that he got a doctor's degree in calligraphy. Later, I saw that he was selected into the news of China Calligraphy Association, held a personal calligraphy exhibition in Beijing, and became a real calligrapher.
We are always confused on the road of life, obviously dissatisfied with the status quo, but we don't know how to choose. Even if I have an idea in my heart, I am still afraid of my hands and feet, afraid to really try, afraid of failure, afraid of losing, and even more afraid that I can't stand these hardships on the road to change, so I struggle repeatedly on the way forward every time.
But in fact, more often than not, a person becomes more and more excellent because he weighs the pros and cons when choosing, follows his own heart, sets this goal, regardless of gains and losses, and goes all out to persist and work hard. And often at this time, the result will not let you down, it will be returned to you ten times and one hundred times in a casual moment.
So, stick to it when you are sure, because time will give us the answer.