You just pretend to work hard. Many people think that learning is a particularly hard thing. Some people will still study hard, while others have nothing to learn. Knowledge is just pretending to work hard, so let's see if you are just pretending to work hard.

You just pretend to be trying.

First, the symptoms of pretending to work hard.

1, the time is particularly long, moving others and moving yourself.

This is a big pit I stepped on: I bought the result with time, but found that the result was particularly poor. I used to stay up until two or three o'clock in the evening, trying to cram more knowledge into my mind, but I found that I couldn't evaluate whether I had studied or not, and my mind was blind. I can say that I have no idea what I have done. Nothing can be changed except the snacks to relieve anxiety.

But I have a lot to say! I can tell you everywhere that I study very hard, studying at two or three in the evening, even staying up all night! I don't care about anything in order to learn! Such efforts are often praised and encouraged by many others, and my vanity has been greatly satisfied. But I know exactly how effective it is.

Maybe I have had this experience, so when Xiao Ni talked about the length of study, I was particularly sensitive to realize that her state should not be very effective!

The "effort" without using tools and methods is a blind effort without enough effect, just to touch yourself and others.

2. There are many tasks, but all of them are mainly passive input.

How many tasks can a person accomplish in a day? I think it depends on the difficulty of the task. Some tasks are particularly difficult, such as reading a book by a certified public accountant. At the end of the day, it is very, very difficult to understand the content of a chapter. How many people can do it?

People who pretend to work hard often list a lot of tasks. There are as many as a dozen or twenty things that must be done on the task list that day, one by one. In the afternoon, they are often exhausted and have to stay up until evening. I feel very hard and tired when I think about it!

People will escape in the face of pressure! Look at their tasks, often mainly passive input. For example, I watched two chapters of course videos. Are you sure you are watching a video and not daydreaming?

3, the results are particularly poor, can only say "hard" word.

Just like YCY in Creation 10 1, "effort" is her label! Obviously, she works hard, but this kind of thing that needs talent is really different from learning other things. Her performance is still so amateur, and her performance on the stage is also awkward. I once thought: in this era when society advocates positive energy, is her efforts almost fruitless, and is it also positive energy? Finally, I understand that the word "effort" is full of positive energy. As long as she keeps holding on to this thing, she can keep standing on that stage.

But our lives are different. The word "effort" is not a social pass, but "achievement" is.

Imagine that a company's job seekers have been emphasizing their efforts, but there is no tangible result. Will he get the position? It must be hard.

It's really great to exchange "hard work" for comfort and encouragement! But please don't forget the destination you want to reach!

Second, the disadvantages of pretending to work hard.

1, the efficiency is not high and the effect is not obvious.

Pretending to work hard to put it bluntly is muddling along, obviously looking at what needs to be done is very hard, and people around you can't find anything wrong. If you really get along for a long time, you may find that his eyes are blurred when watching the video. His hand may not have written much on the paper or just copied it, and the horizontal lines drawn on the book are often not the point.

It would be strange if such a state can still have obvious results!

2. Very strong sense of frustration and low self-evaluation.

When it comes to "pretending to work hard", many parties don't know it themselves. They don't know that this society has developed into many efficiency tools that can help improve efficiency, nor do they know how to monitor their energy and state, let alone how to quantify the results. Therefore, when they are trying to consume their time and physical strength, even when they are in good health, they will feel particularly hard and moved.

But when not so good results are in front of them, they often feel particularly depressed: obviously I have worked so hard, and no matter how hard I try, I can't pay more. Why is the result not good?

Then I may doubt myself: am I not worthy of that good thing? Am I a particularly stupid person?

3. Poor sustainability.

If you devote 12 hours to study one thing every day, how long can you last? Everyone can ask themselves, maybe they are afraid to take a step, so why not take the exam?

Many people will think that learning is a very hard thing, which is largely because of this reason.

Indeed, you must be efficient if you study for such a long time, and you can persist for a month without breaking down. I'll call you "master"!

You just pretend to work hard. I often ask myself this question when I try to accomplish something, but I can't meet my expectations.

I believe that many people, like me, obviously pay so much for themselves, but get nothing and always make mistakes. After being hit hard, confidence was almost exhausted.

Maybe you get up early every day to go to the library, and stay for one day, but the time for actually reading homework may be less than two or three hours, and you spend more time playing mobile phones, staring blankly and sleeping than reading books.

Maybe you spend most of the day reading, but at the same time, there is another thing on your mind. Although you are staring at the book, you can't read a word because your brain is thinking about other more interesting things.

If you are like the above, you have successfully entered the circle of pretending to work hard.

Some time ago, I stayed up until 2: 30 to write an article. After writing, I also sent a circle of friends "Life is too XX".

My friends all think that I work hard and don't rest so late. I am also moved by my seriousness.

However, the next day, I carefully read the article I wrote the day before. Besides many typos, there are many sentences I can't understand. So, I spent a lot of time to correct it. At this time, I thought I was quite serious and responsible.

What my friends don't know, however, is that I didn't start writing until twelve o'clock, and I had been "looking for material" before. However, because I didn't think about what I was going to write, even if I collected a bunch of materials, it was useless for my article. As it turns out, I didn't use them later.

And while looking for material, I will do other things while playing music, but I often concentrate on listening to music and have no intention to solve problems, which is a complete waste of time.

So when I decided to start writing at twelve o'clock, I made up my mind to finish it that evening, so after some efforts, I finally finished it, feeling particularly moved and fulfilled.

What about the facts? My writing is not very good. Like many people, I am caught in this strange circle of pretending to work hard. This kind of effort can not only comfort yourself, but also reduce the guilt of neglecting a day because you want to study, and make you feel psychologically satisfied.

But this kind of effort is only touching and deceiving yourself. The reason why I feel that I am working hard is undoubtedly to satisfy my self-esteem for success. When this illusion is mercilessly exposed by your final grade, you often have to bear a big psychological gap.

This gap will make you feel "why work so hard, but it still won't work." At this time, people who are not so confident will doubt whether they are really bad, and then begin to deny themselves.

Everyone wants to be an excellent person, but the wrong way to try will only make you farther and farther away from the word "excellent". If you work hard for a long time and still don't get any return, it's time to reflect on whether there is something wrong. Do you pretend to work hard like many of us?

Many times, we have worked hard but got nothing because we don't have a clear goal and don't know what we want to do! So I made a random phone call, which seemed like an effort, but it was useless.

When you have a clear goal, you can't help the temptation of the outside world. Little men who like to have fun come out from time to time to disturb your thoughts and make you unable to calm down and do things.

Pretending to work hard without knowing it is terrible, but knowing it and not changing it is even more terrible.

People who pretend to work hard but don't know themselves are also depressed and painful because they don't know what the reason is. But people who know where their problems are but are still unwilling to change, even if their lives are painful, are not worthy of pity.

I always felt that I was working hard, but after a series of blows, I really woke up. I am also a member of the army of "pretending to work hard", but no one can change what has happened.

What we can do now is to seize the time, get rid of "pretending" and really work hard. If you are still wondering, what should you do? Then you can never go to the library without your mobile phone again. Believe me, not so many people will call you when you don't have your cell phone.