Leah Dou didn't respond to this, so he didn't have time to respond to rumors, just because it held a song club, recorded new songs and attended Zhou Xun's birthday party.
It is estimated that this "who loves who" attitude, like her mother Faye Wong, will make a lot of people angry.
In fact, both stars and ordinary people will inevitably be discussed by the world: how to deal with these discussions is really a technical job.
My friend Reiko Kobayakawa is a very enterprising person. She joined a building materials sales company last year. In order to spell out excellent performance, Reiko Kobayakawa did not spend less time, running the market, running a decoration company, and contacting dealers everywhere ...
In just over a year, I lost 20 kilograms and finally sat firmly on the throne of the sales champion.
It is said that trees attract the wind, which is true. As a newcomer with no background, he made such dazzling achievements in a short time, crushing many old sales of the company, and there was a lot of discussion at one time.
Some words were intentionally or unintentionally spread to Reiko Kobayakawa's ears: some said that her performance was fraudulent, some said that she was too eager to grab the business list, and some said that she was shameless to hook up with the upper level of the company. It's hard to say anyway.
When Reiko Kobayakawa and I were sitting in the cafe talking about these things, the tone was quite light, but it made me very anxious: "This is just a rumor!" Why don't you go back and let them talk? "
Reiko Kobayakawa smiled indifferently, took a sip of his coffee cup gracefully and said, "The bottom of the company said that it was incompetent, the middle said that it was mediocre, and the good performance said that it was a trick."
You see, people make irresponsible remarks about everything. We can't control other people's mouths, we can control our own hearts!
Say whatever they say. I just need to do my job. As the sales champion for five months in a row, I only speak by performance. It's not terrible to fall into someone else's mouth, but it's scary to fall into your own heart. "Reiko Kobayakawa wittily gave me a wink, but began to encourage me.
Reiko Kobayakawa's words made me suddenly enlightened, and I couldn't help but think of the dialogue between Han Shan, a famous poet in the history of Buddhism, and Shi De.
Hanshan asked Pickup, "What should I do if the world slanders me, deceives me, humiliates me, laughs at me, belittles me, despises me and deceives me?"
Jiyun: "I have to put up with him, let him, let him, avoid him, put up with him, respect him, ignore him, stay a few more years, and you will see him."
The ultimate goal of gossip makers is to watch you struggle or sink in saliva, so they can stand by and snicker. Only when your own heart is strong and brave can they succeed.
The most sensational use of the word "awesome" appeared in the suicide note published by the famous movie star Ruan.
As a representative of China's early films, Ruan was caught in emotional entanglements at the peak of his career and was besieged by unscrupulous tabloids at that time.
Unable to get rid of criticism, the "China film queen" finally committed suicide. In this way, the word "awesome" is closely related to Ruan's "fragrant and dead".
Ruan was lost in her 25-year-old youth. In the struggle with "people talk", she failed to escape flying sand and stones and was knocked to the ground. Gossip is like a pair of hands around her neck, and she has no choice to break them.
Unlike Ruan's helpless suicide, ZhangZetian, a public figure, responded to the "people's words" with his own strength.
ZhangZetian, the "sister of milk tea", became popular without knowing it when she was 16 years old. Since then, "People Talk" has been chasing her. From her sophomore year to her graduation from Tsinghua, all kinds of false and negative news have been exposed constantly.
When she fell in love with the boss Liu, who was 19 years older than her, she was completely involved in the whirlpool of "human talk". Many people said that she was greedy for Liu's wealth and laughed at her as a "black-bellied woman" who was trapped by Liu. Since then, their marriage has been described as a "youth instead of money" transaction.
In the face of all kinds of criticisms, ZhangZetian quietly learned financial knowledge during her pregnancy and obtained the online certificate of the course "Private Equity and Venture Capital" in Bocconi University.
After giving birth to her daughter, ZhangZetian also beautifully took over more than a dozen companies, including Uber, tea brands and Internet tourism projects. At present, at the age of 24, she is worth over 10 billion yuan, making her the youngest richest person on the 20 17 Hurun Report.
When Liu mentions his wife, she always looks proud. In public, she looked into ZhangZetian's eyes, full of love.
However, "human words" still didn't let her go. Before marriage, her clothes were always criticized and laughed at for being old-fashioned and dressed. After marriage, her clothes improved rapidly and she successfully entered the international fashion circle. When she was framed with international supermodels such as Liu Wen and Ming Xi, her aura was not inferior at all.
The "human talk" of chasing ZhangZetian all the way failed to push her to the corner, but it seemed to be a "booster" in her life, making her pace more steady and light.
Perhaps we will inevitably be wronged, sad or even depressed when facing "human words", but the mouth belongs to others and life is our own. In the face of those spittle and saliva, hostility and malice, only by casting that solid armor with strength and courage can we ensure that we are invulnerable, unscathed and smiling.
May we all laugh and talk to others, go our own way and let others talk!