How does it feel to be a novice mother? Children are mothers' hearts, and mothers need to take good care of them. As a novice mother, it is inevitable that there will be some feelings. Next, I'll show you what it's like to be a novice mother.
As a novice mother, I feel that the child born in August last year has stumbled all the way to the present, and the child has been 8 months old. From initial nervousness to more and more relaxation, I may get used to it.
When I first became a mother, I didn't know anything. I always worry that I can't take care of my baby. I have been worried that my little negligence will cause him irreparable defects. I was nervous all day, bought all kinds of books, and got a bunch of official parenting WeChat accounts on my mobile phone, and kept reading them every day. In retrospect, I was particularly nervous three times.
When I was discharged from the hospital for the first time, I felt most secure in the hospital. Although I didn't know anything at the time, I was not afraid at all. Anyway, if there is any problem, the nurse will ring the bell. On the first day of discharge, the baby may not adapt and keep crying. I'm so nervous. I can't even hug him when I look at him. I feel that the touch of the small arms and calves will be bad. I immediately decided that the contact person was looking for a new moon urgently. On the third day after returning home, the new moon came, and I was relieved. I hardly cared about him except feeding him. I don't even change diapers once a month. During the period, I also encountered many problems, such as red buttocks, eczema, jaundice, diarrhea and so on. However, because of the new moon, I am not very nervous and always feel that I have something to rely on.
The second time was the day after the baby's full moon, and the new moon left. I didn't sleep well all night. I was worried and didn't know how to live. I'm in a hurry to change the baby's diaper, get dressed and take a shower. I dare not sleep at night, always afraid that the baby will not hear when he wakes up. But fortunately, my mother is still here. She took care of my niece a few years ago and has some experience. She can give me some help. It takes about half a month to get used to it, and the older the child is, the less nervous it is to hold it.
The third time was when the baby was almost 2 months old. My mother went back because of something at home. I remember the night she left, and I cried in bed for a long time. I can't imagine how I will live and take care of a baby alone in the future. A person is particularly paranoid. At that time, I often put something on my child when I saw it casually on the Internet, and I was always worried that there was something wrong with him. In fact, as a father and son, it doesn't matter whether they are bitter or tired. I'm afraid you didn't take good care of your children. He is so young that he knows nothing and can't say anything. Many times I read articles on the official account of parenting WeChat at night, and I can't sleep all night.
"If parents need an exam" is actually quite good. Exams require study, courses and teachers. I wouldn't have to run around like a fly. I even think that if there is a training class for novice parents, there should be many people attending it. There are so many things I don't understand. For a college graduate, I have studied so many courses and taken so many exams in my life, but I still think that being a mother is the most difficult course, and there are many and miscellaneous things to learn, which are endless and constantly updated. From the initial learning to change diapers and burp, to the present learning to make complementary food, I have just begun the Long March.
Come on!
As a novice mother, I feel that crying is his first language. The process of novice mother becoming superman mother must be full of challenges and surprises! Taking care of babies is a difficult road. He is so young that he can't express himself in words. The novice mother is under great pressure. The feeling experience of novice mother, the feeling of novice mother, talk about the picture of circle of friends.
Perception and experience of novice mothers
I have been in a good mood since I had a baby, but as an old novice mother, all kinds of details make me collapse. I don't know what kind of mother others are, but I am in pain and happy.
Educate yourself, keep an open and peaceful heart, and novice mothers come on.
Dear baby, after being separated from your mother for 30 days, your mother saw you clearly for the first time. I was too nervous and excited to hug you the day I took you home. On the 43rd day, I was glad to hear your clear cry. My baby is growing every day. I am a novice mother, and I may not be able to take care of you, but I will try my best to wish you health and safety.
As a novice mother, I have tried many educational methods, gentle, leading by example, encouraging and telling picture books. But I found that many times a thousand words are not as effective as a meal, so don't tell me about childhood shadow and mental health. I just need to fight.
Novice mother, all kinds of worries, fear of the baby, this is not good, blx.
The baby caught a cold and cried all night. The sudden situation caught the novice mother off guard, and she couldn't sleep at all. She just hopes that the baby will get better and be happy.
As a novice mother, from the initial confusion to the current ease, all sigh the miracle of life. You have experienced his growth, bit by bit, laughing and laughing, you are willing to contribute everything to him, you are willing to give him the best love, and you hope to accompany him every day forever.
Does every novice mother have to go through this period, pay attention to the baby's main actions, and sometimes it is inevitable to be overly nervous! As long as Xiaozongzi grows up healthily!
The novice mother has explored a lot of experience and the baby is obviously easy to take care of. She didn't cry for two or three days. Play when you wake up, sleep when you are tired, and you don't need a hug except for breastfeeding. Adjust yourself if you don't hold the milk tight. A hundred kisses is not enough.
The feelings of novice mothers talk about the circle of friends.
1, the little guy's state is getting more and more stable, and the novice mother is also handy. She has the energy and time to adjust herself slowly. Mom will help me take my baby out at home tomorrow and make an appointment with my partner. Fitness and rehabilitation will also be ready to start.
2, bringing a baby is a very hard thing, which is really a test for novice mothers. Although there is a new moon, the instability of the baby's daily life will still make the mother who has always been used to playing feel unprepared. Fortunately, maternal love will overcome everything.
Your arrival has completely disrupted my world. I'm a novice mom. I hope that Shuo Bao will be better to your loving mother!
Every day and night in the past, although I didn't have a good sleep and lost my freedom, the novice mother kept playing tricks and upgrading on the way to raising the baby. Watching her grow up and learn to learn a language, she is a toddler. Nothing can replace her happiness and concern. Take your time and let me grow up quietly with her.
5. You like annoying people, obedient people, cling to me, and are most worried about getting sick. I want you to get better soon and continue to be a grinding little girl. As a novice mother, I want to work hard with you. Come on, my baby, you are the best. Get well soon.
6, perhaps a novice mother, is really too nervous and distressed about any discomfort symptoms of the baby. . . Seeing the baby's uncomfortable appearance, there is really no way not to feel bad.
7. 13, which has become a habit at present. Lying on your side is the most effective way to put you to sleep. Basically, you can sleep soundly after lying down for a while after eating. Even if this habit is not very good, it at least gives her the greatest sense of security. Novice mothers are constantly groping on the road with their babies.
8. Break all the time into two or three hours, so that novice mothers can adapt to the process they really need. Even in my dreams, I can hear every moan. No wonder there are so many postpartum depression. There is no better way to connect mother and child than when my old mother wakes up and wants to drink water while nursing, and every time she rescues me from hot water. ........................................................................................................................................'s body has recovered her old feeling, and she is not so empty and weak. Hu Hansan will come back.
The feeling of being a novice mother 3. How a novice mother feels for a month.
Throughout the ages, there are too many articles, poems and songs praising mother. Mom, this word may give you such an explanation in the dictionary: the title of a child to a woman who gives birth to herself. I don't think such a simple explanation can summarize the word "mother" at all. It was not until I became a mother recently that I realized the profound meaning of the word "mother", which can't be found in dictionaries or textbooks. Only life practice can tell you.
It is often said that "the baby is heavy in October, and the reward for three births is light." Indeed, not to mention the hardships of pregnancy and childbirth in October, just the hardships of breastfeeding, let me realize the greatness of my mother. Coupled with decades of support, I think this kind of support is something that every child can't repay in his life. Here I think of "filial piety". Perhaps only "filial piety" can make us children feel better. There are many ways of "filial piety". Personally, I think the best "filial piety" lies in "obedience" The word "filial piety", I understand the focus is "shun", "shun" is certainly not blind shun. For our parents, as they get older, we sometimes have to treat them like children, and sometimes even like babies, so we must take care of them.
Now I am a woman, a mother, a wife, a daughter-in-law and a teacher. I appreciate these multiple identities.
First of all, I thank my mother who gave birth to me. You never told me about your hard work yourself. I didn't realize your hardship until today. They said I was very noisy when I was a child. I really don't look like a woman. I must have caused you a lot of trouble! Mom, thank you for your tolerance and love. At the same time, I also want to thank my father. Thanks to my father's education, my father's hope for us since childhood is "sound personality and healthy growth." In my impression, my father is the image of strict father, but we want to thank my father for his necessary severity, so that we can avoid detours and have a sound personality.
I also want to thank another mother, who is not related by blood, but still a relative. Thank you for your efforts over the past month. You are in charge of home hygiene, Bao Xiao's diapers and my six or seven meals a day. Thank you for your heart, buy a good monthly book to learn how to cook, and ask your friends to guide you on how to take care of the baby. Every moon meal, soup, vegetables and porridge are well matched, which makes me happy physically and mentally in the moon. Some people say that it is better to find a good husband than to meet a good mother-in-law. This sentence is true, but I am really lucky, and both of them are very good. Before marriage, I was most afraid of meeting a difficult mother-in-law. After all, I am clumsy and careless. Fortunately, God is very kind to me, so I met a Buddhist mother-in-law. It is said that people who convert to Buddhism must be kind-hearted. My mother-in-law is really like this. Even a worm can't bear to kill you. You have a bodhisattva heart. Giving and releasing are what you often do. Grateful fate makes our mother-in-law, grateful for your silent contribution to the family!
Finally, I want to thank Mr. Li, who has a delicate heart. I am the careless and mindless teacher Zhong in your mouth. We have known each other for less than two years, but during this period, we have many stories. You said it felt like we spent half our lives. There were tears and laughter during this period, but more laughter. You said I was too emotional and rude; I said you were too rational and delicate. Perhaps this is the case, complementary personalities can be more conducive to our getting along and life. In fact, there is no fear of noise in marriage. I think a marriage without noise is really terrible. As you said, you never allow us to have an overnight relationship. I think you are wise. If there is a gap between husband and wife, they will definitely drift away. Grateful for fate to make us husband and wife, grateful for your efforts during pregnancy and childbirth. Home cleaning and clothes cleaning are almost all your jobs. In the third trimester, you have to pick up and drop off four times a day, from Dongcheng to Xicheng. It is difficult for you to drive for half an hour and sometimes walk for more than an hour at the peak of commuting to school every day. Grateful for the story of pregnancy, grateful for walking with me almost every night, so that I feel happy throughout pregnancy. In fact, what moved me most was your performance this month. Just after I gave birth to Bao Xiao, I went back to the ward to rest. Everyone is busy taking care of the children. You helped me to the toilet, kissed me on the cheek and said, "Bitch, it's hard." This simple action, in a word, makes me feel that you are still a man. During the detention, you changed Bao Xiao's diaper almost all night. When Bao Xiao cried, the way you gently put yourself in your arms to sleep not only made me feel your concern and patience, but also made me see the shadow of a good father. Our story, there are many, to be continued. Life is long and short. There are too many unknowns waiting for us. I just hope that we can go and never forget your initial heart and kindness!
No one's contribution is taken for granted, and we should be grateful. The more grateful you are, the more satisfied you will be.