Most postpartum depression, a lot of stress, comes from the attitude of family members. Especially the attitude of the husband, how to treat the mother, this is the problem.
When a woman comes out of the delivery room after giving birth, everyone will pay attention to the child. Even the husband usually doesn't pay attention to men and women, but asks if it is a boy or a girl. My face darkened when I heard it was a girl. Many mothers who have just given birth feel very chilling. During pregnancy, this was the focus of the family. But after giving birth to a child, the child won all the favor, and the appearance of being left out for a few days made many women feel distressed. Isn't this a series of practices that make women suffer from depression? What's more, on weekdays, her husband accidentally said that you are not as good-looking as before. The subtext of this sentence is that the wife is fatter than before, so that the wife who used to be in good shape becomes like this. Isn't it just to have children for the life she loves? Slowly, the mother will feel that it is a wrong thing to have children. As a result, she began to get tired of the existence of this child. When I went out to play, my husband stared at other thin girls, which made my mother feel very sad. Another thing, many people have faced it. After giving birth to a child, it is difficult for you to enter the previous state of life. I don't want to go to work, and I don't feel well rested. However, at this time, the family urged him to go to work quickly, which urged her to go to work. However, this makes many women feel very dissatisfied. Many women are not urged to go to work, but take care of their children at home. People who have never taken care of their children will never know how tired they are. After a day's work, I'm still nagging about how tired I am with my children. This is probably the time when women want to be depressed most. I really want to say that people who are not tired will know how tired they are if they try to take care of their children themselves. Many people may not know. It's her family's attitude. Whether she has just given birth to a child or has given birth to a child for a while, her mood is in a fragile state, and her family needs to take care of her with a good attitude. At this time, what a mother needs most is the love of her husband and the care of her family. If you don't get the care of your lover and family at this time, it is easy to have symptoms of postpartum depression.