? 1. What is effective communication and expression?
That is, the promotion function of the language segment. What is the ascending and descending function of language? My understanding is that what you say can cause other people's emotional changes. What to say on what occasions, who should use that tone and so on. Effective communication means that you can bring energy to others and make them willing to communicate for your topic. In the past two days, I have been linking different people. I tried to contact people in different circles with this effective expression, and found that people who can relate to your topic are effective expressions. The deeper your cultural background, the more humorous your words will be, which will be recognized and accepted by the listeners and presented flexibly. The following is my opinion and appreciation when I talked to a senior about the topic of attracting each other with the same frequency.
Just like today's 2-hour and 30-minute live broadcast of Sister Yue and Teacher Peidan, we used my ATM story. ATM is time, goal and management. Now I am arranged by Mr. Pei Dan to make an impromptu speech. Listening to their stories for two hours and 30 minutes, the biggest gain is to connect my own stories. You don't have to write this story about yourself, you can write what you see, hear, feel and think and so on. Through Sister Moon's feelings, entrepreneurship and children's stories, I understand that life needs to be managed, and every road you take is a harvest and growth. Just like I am slowly connecting my own stories now. Stories? The wisdom and energy of language can be used as the material of your own story. No one doesn't like happiness. The charm of language is that what you say brings happiness to others.
Just like I am slowly exercising and running now, in fact, I haven't run for a long time, but after a few days, I told myself that you can run, you can do it, and you can return to the original state, that is, when you run for several kilometers unconsciously, you still don't feel tired, and you are more excited. This is that you have found your state, which means that you like and enjoy it very much, if you can do something easily.
? 2. Reading thousands of books is better than taking Wan Li Road, and taking Wan Li Road is better than giving directions by famous teachers. Yes, the more books you read, the more advanced your knowledge and thinking will be. On a higher level, it is equivalent to taking Wan Li Road and finishing Wan Li Road step by step. However, with the guidance of a famous teacher, you don't have to take one step at a time, you can take ten steps, because you are stepping on the shoulders of successful people, so you will make rapid progress. This also comes from the wisdom and energy of language. How to meet a good teacher is of course attracted by your characteristics. The first step comes from self-introduction and manners, and the first impression is very important. Now I have met many teachers who have led me on the road to real growth, such as Sister Peidan and Teacher Zhide. I really appreciate opening my heart to meet you.
Just like my chat record with this partner, in fact, we just added friends last night. Is it true that we have never met before, but we know each other? Just like Sister Yue adopted her own reading plan at the beginning of her business, one of the most important points is: "It doesn't matter if there is no financial support. I'll help you." This sentence is really warm, just like meeting your own famous teacher and illuminating yourself. So why does the soul know the soul? Because in our language conversation, you gave me a feeling of sincerity and longing. I want to believe that you are willing to pay for your own growth.
? Then I am the same now. Through your own study and precipitation, you will be attracted at the moment of output. This is my growth. The best way to know yourself is to be found, commented and appreciated. Because all this comes from your persistence in values and your desire for the same frequency.
? Because the expression of my language attracts you to come to me, encouragement is from the heart, and sincerity is revealed between the lines. We are all living individuals, and the awakening of individual consciousness is indeed the rhythm of this era. Because I found a good circle, I was attracted by many people, which led to the improvement of my perception and thinking ability. Therefore, each of us is an awakening of the consciousness of the times. I hope you can also find a state of reconciliation with yourself to precipitate and learn.
? ? 3. Open your heart and establish a dime relationship with others. Because only by turning on the cognitive switch in your mind can you get in touch with others. Even if you don't break a dime, it's none of your business. Just like yesterday, when someone added me, I introduced myself first, and the relationship of ten cents began here. He asked me how my college life was. He said that he only played games and didn't think in college life. After listening to my college life, he gave me praise and suggestions. The suggestion is to spend two years in-depth interviews with 100 people from all walks of life. I think this view is very novel. Why the interview? Because your cognitive thinking opens up your room for growth.
? Etiquette is also the perception behind our language. When you are grateful to others, you will gain more, share more, be more excited, be more grateful and be happier. I always say thank you to others now, no matter how big or small things are. Because the love we convey is hidden in the details, we will feel happy only if we practice it in your life. Why is Teacher Peidan moved by Yue Jie's happiness? Because this is the life state of Yue Jie, and in the live broadcast, Yue Jie said to the child, "Baby, close the door, thank you, baby". Such thoughts and values are practiced on children since childhood, and such a life is bound to be unhappy and difficult. Therefore, we feel that everything external and internal, even a word, a smile and an action, are internal and worth learning. Internalized in the heart, externalized in the line.
This is the wisdom and energy behind language. Advance can attack and retreat can defend. The expression of wisdom can only be appreciated by people if they are smart. Improve emotional intelligence, realm and pattern, so that you will emit more light? . The most important thing for a person's mood and thinking is extensive study, meditation, review, listening, capturing, humor and humor. These expressions are just right. Although I can't appreciate them and give them full play, I think you will gain a lot by practicing.
Therefore, the wisdom and energy of language is really "poetry sings to people". Behind the language is thinking, and the silent elephant is invisible. I don't quite understand these two sentences now. I think it's a process in which you really discover the wisdom and energy depth of language, understand, learn and use it constantly. You will understand invisibly. In fact, I think many things are an understanding. The key is who will help you open that "understanding". These are all learned from practice.