1. Self-encouragement: Tell yourself that you can do this role and believe that you can do it. Treat challenges positively and keep a positive attitude.
2. Seek support: Talk to your trusted friends or family and tell them your worries and goals. They may give you encouragement and advice to help you prepare yourself better.
3. Cultivate self-confidence: Take some training courses related to social skills or independent development activities, such as speaking, performing or public speaking. These activities can help you improve your self-confidence and expressive ability.
4. Prepare in advance: Before becoming a bridesmaid, learn as much as possible about the wedding process and your responsibilities. Make full preparations, including wedding arrangements, dress, etiquette and other aspects of knowledge, will make you more confident that day.
5. Find a job in your comfort zone: If you don't like speaking in public or hosting activities, you can discuss with the bride to see if you can undertake some tasks that you feel comfortable in the wedding, such as assisting in receiving guests, taking care of arrangements or assisting in organizing wedding activities.