At this time, the children are all adults or married, so there is no concern. If an aunt in her fifties is in good health, it is not difficult to find a partner to live with, but it may be difficult to say whether she needs a certificate or not.
I have a classmate. Four years ago, my mother died of liver cancer at the age of 56. They only have three sisters, two of whom work in other places. Only the younger sister is close to home, and occasionally she can go home to help her father clean the house.
A year later, her father was introduced to a young aunt, a retired teacher and a daughter who was in college.
It stands to reason that all children should support their fathers. After all, the children are not around, and there is a companion to take care of each other. Plus their aunt has a pension, and the children can feel at ease.
This sister is very unhappy with her father because of this. They are worried that the aunt is coming to ask for her house, and insist that the father change the real estate license to the sister's name, and let the father write an agreement stating that if both parties are sick, the children will take care of the elderly. A hundred years later, my father will be buried with my mother, but my aunt can't be buried with my father.
Father called them unfilial, regardless of their own lives, they didn't die, thinking about their own house. I earned the house through hard work for half my life, and I have the right to dispose of it.
Aunt is in a dilemma, sandwiched between her family, and she doesn't know where to go. Finally, I couldn't walk with my father.
Of course, this is an individual phenomenon, and there are not a few children who are reasonable.
Correct attitude, try to make clear what may happen later, such as how to manage when you are sick, how to arrange when you die, and so on. Communicate well with children. Finding a partner shouldn't be a problem.
My 55-year-old aunt must be divorced or widowed. Women of this age have basically reached the late stage of charm, and their personal charm is obviously insufficient, but at the same time, most of their children are married and healthy. There is no burden in life. Personally, I think it's easy to find a wife as long as it's not too harsh criteria for choosing a spouse.
First of all, the 55-year-old aunt's energy may have gradually declined, and she can't accept the stimulation of big waves psychologically, which is more suitable for a quiet life. Therefore, when looking for a partner for the rest of your life, you should still consider your age and actual situation.
I think a 55-year-old aunt is more suitable to find a retired man in his early 60 s. Such a man has a certain economic strength and source of life, and he will feel distressed when he is a few years older. If you find a much younger man, after all, you can't stand it. If you find a much older man, you have to take care of him very hard in life. After all, it is human nature to enjoy life at the age of 50.
I think it is easy for a 55-year-old aunt to find a wife, but she must not be blind. Be sure to find a man of the same age or a few years older who knows how to be hot and cold, so that the happiness index may be better.
It is not particularly difficult for an aunt in her fifties to find a wife alone. Either divorce or widowed, so it should be a happy event to find a wife for life, and you should not put too much pressure on yourself.
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Aunt divorced at the age of 60 this year. When her husband was young, he did nothing. He likes to take risks on the yellow line and earn some money at the expense of many times in prison.
Aunt finally could not help it. She kicked her husband out of the house. She raised her son alone, and his son is almost 30. Because the family conditions are not very good, there is no follow-up after talking about several girlfriends. To put it bluntly, she dislikes her aunt's house and can't afford a house.
Aunt also found two wives before, and they all broke up in discord. It's not that both sides are incompatible. It's just that the aunt always nags his wife and son about buying a house in the mode of repeater, which makes the other party feel strongly disgusted.
Regardless of the aunt's behavior, the original intention is to complain about the status quo or have ulterior motives. The re-established family feelings are very fragile and cannot stand the test of money. If you have such a dangerous idea, no matter how many wives you find, you will end up in discord.
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Auntie is 5 1 year old this year. She was widowed in her early years, because her children had not graduated, and she never seriously considered her own problems. She thinks that being alone for so many years is not bad for a man.
After my daughter graduated, her work was smooth sailing, and she often reported to her aunt for elderly tour groups, hoping to let her go out more. It is said that young people can't enjoy much happiness, hoping to give her a happy old age. Actually, I hope that menstruation can find someone to live with through the elderly group.
My daughter is away all the year round and can't take care of her mother. Seeing that I couldn't find a wife, I simply reported a blind date program to the TV station. Every time I record a program, the objects I meet are not ideal, even rotten peaches, which makes her feel even more distressed.
Whether to live alone or find someone to live with depends on the individual. If you live well alone, you don't need a wife at all, just live alone.
This life is not easy. If you can handle the children's problems and get along well with your wife, then go and find a wife boldly. It is quite easy to find a wife. Why? After all, women chasing men are laminated yarns.
A 55-year-old aunt is easy to find, only to see if you are willing to find it.
One of my relatives is about 55 years old. He looks good and dresses in fashion. It is not a problem to cook a dozen or twenty tables for a rural banquet. All three daughters are married and there is a son. I started looking for a lot, but I had a high opinion and didn't like it. Some people don't pay attention to sloppy clothes, others don't pay attention to hygiene and kowtow short. In short, they don't like it.
I've seen three myself. The first one is from Henan. Two women and a son lost their wives. They work hard and have good bodies. They are well-paid plumbers. They lived in my relative's house for three years, and it was good at first. Later, for the sake of children, the two became estranged. The man left for the last time and did not return to Henan.
Then the second one is a coach, learning to drive. Two people were driving around. Later, the coach's wife found out, and the two of them went away.
Now this is the third cadre. I heard from my relatives that I wouldn't change this. Maybe it's just what I want. The man's grandson is in the third grade, retired with a pension, and his monthly salary is given to my relatives.
55-year-old aunt, at this age, both sides have children, and it is easy to have conflicts and disputes because of children. Of course, she can find the one that suits her best, so don't look for it blindly.
When people reach 50 and have experienced previous marriages, children are often not around. They don't want to go alone, but it is inevitable to find a partner.
Women are not old, but age is not a problem. Maturity itself is a charm. As long as women pay attention to maintenance and adjust their mentality, women in their fifties are still attractive, so don't show off the old lady. An attractive 50-year-old woman can find men younger than herself, let alone attract old men.
A married 50-year-old woman has her own experience. Generally, she does not pursue superficial conditions like a little girl. As long as she is alive and caring enough, there will be no qualification. Auntie is not as delicate as Miss Sister. As long as she can show her capable side and show the gentleness that women should have, Auntie is better at finding a partner than Miss Sister.
As for the child's opinion. When they are mature, they must want their mother to be happy. As long as menstruation are happy, children will only bless them.
Is it easy for a 55-year-old aunt to find a wife? It depends on whether my aunt wants to find it or not. I am 56 years old and my husband passed away more than three years ago. After her husband died, someone asked someone to introduce me to someone. He is from our village, and his wife died four or five years ago. It turns out that he is a village cadre, the richest man in the village, and he is very handsome, but I don't want to find him. He asked three people before and after to tell me, but he still didn't want to find it. Why are you looking for it? I have my own pension, but he doesn't. How comfortable I am alone. Someone else wants to tell me one, but I'm determined not to look for it. If aunt doesn't talk about each other's conditions and is not picky, she will definitely find it.
It doesn't matter whether it's good or not. It depends on your conditions. If you have good conditions and a good attitude, it is easy to find. If you are in poor condition and have an unhealthy mentality, it will be hard to find.
Strictly speaking, it is necessary for a 55-year-old woman to find a wife for the following reasons:
1, the elderly are dependent.
2. It can reduce the burden on children.
3. It won't seem so lonely.
4. Live a real husband and wife life.
But at the age of 55, there is no age advantage, and the price is more realistic. If you have a bad attitude, it is not easy to find a wife. The specific reasons are:
1, no age advantage. All 55-year-olds are retirees. They are too old to find a wife. Mainly at this age, they want to find a man of the same age, but most 55-year-old men want to find a woman ten years younger than themselves, such as a woman in her forties. So 55 years old has no advantage in age. This is the biggest problem.
2. There are many requirements. Most 55-year-old women have high requirements for finding a partner, such as caring for people, good personality and good conditions, but why do people with such conditions come to you? I must have found a younger one.
Also, at the age of 55, I still hope to have a romantic love, and I need love for a second spring. This unrealistic fantasy makes it difficult to find a partner.
3. People are more realistic. Such as cars, houses, income, culture and so on. There are many requirements, and it is realistic to find an object. Even the other family is more important and it is more difficult to find an object.
4. worry a lot. We should consider children's feelings, care about the evaluation of relatives and friends, and hesitate to make decisions and judgments.
5. it seems. 55 years old, in any case, is already a super aunt, no matter how to maintain, it is impossible to be young and beautiful, but it is very important for a man to find a woman with two conditions. Face and age, a 55-year-old woman, has no advantage in this respect, and it is difficult to find a partner.
However, although these are objective and realistic factors, if you look for them seriously, put down your mind and keep a peaceful mind, you will still find a good man as long as you have good character and money, just depending on fate.
It's not up to you to find it in this day and age. Because if you want to find another wife, you must get the consent of two children. If you meet an open-minded and reasonable person, you can. In real life, children have many objections. If you can't get it, it will make your family fidgety and noisy.
There is a grandfather in my hometown. He is a retired worker with a monthly pension of more than 3000 yuan. After his wife died, he arranged for himself to find her. I have been dating a widow in our village for many years. It is said that when they were young, they both had a crush on each other. The woman has been widowed for many years, and now her uncle's wife has passed away. Before long, the two of them came together and went to the Civil Affairs Bureau to get a marriage certificate. The woman has been living in the village with her daughter, who disapproves of their marriage. I heard that she often called her mother shameless and even beat the old man. I don't agree because I am used to my own mother washing and cooking for her and working in the fields. Getting married is different. No one will do these things for her.
Remember 20 14 or what year, I can't remember. When I went to my uncle's house to pay a New Year call, my uncle and that woman were together. Seeing that the old man has a companion, it is also good to find a village. Later, a woman's daughter often refused to let her mother go to her uncle's house, and often beat and scolded herself for being widowed. Not long after, the woman suddenly fell ill and died. According to the villagers' rumors, she was killed by her daughter, because when she was dressing a woman with a shroud, everyone present saw that the woman was scarred and black and blue. If there is no short old-age marriage with my uncle, maybe a woman will still live healthily in the world and work hard for her daughter like cattle and horses. Terrible old-age marriage!
My uncle later found several wives, none of which were suitable. The son and daughter-in-law disagreed and disliked the old man humiliating them. Grandpa also began to fight with his daughter-in-law, and the two men scolded each other. Uncle's son sent him to a nursing home. I didn't go to see my uncle during the Chinese New Year holiday, and the relationship was very stiff.
All this happened after finding a wife, and the previous family was very harmonious. Therefore, marriage in old age must obtain the consent of children, otherwise it will lead to family discord, parents and children turning against each other, and life will be turbulent. Article 18 of the Law on the Protection of the Rights and Interests of the Elderly stipulates: "The freedom of marriage of the elderly is protected by law. Children or other relatives shall not interfere with the divorce, remarriage and married life of the elderly. The maintenance obligation of the supporter is not eliminated by the change of the marital relationship of the elderly. "
Children who violently interfere with the marriage of the elderly and refuse to support the elderly, if the circumstances are serious enough to constitute a crime, can be investigated for criminal responsibility according to law.
China's laws clearly stipulate that violent interference with the freedom of marriage of the elderly can be punished.
According to the situation that children interfere with the elderly's freedom to remarry, the elderly can take the following measures:
(1) Persuade children patiently and carefully to avoid harm and kindness. If necessary, we can talk about the arrangement of family property after remarriage, because children are most sensitive to their parents' remarriage and worry that their parents will remarry and their property will flow into the pockets of outsiders.
(2) Persuade by relatives and friends of both parties, and ask the local neighborhood committee or mediation committee to mediate, so as to avoid hurting harmony.
(3) If the children abuse their parents, destroy furniture or seize property, and the circumstances are serious, they can bring a lawsuit to the people's court where the children are registered according to Article 257 of the Criminal Law and Article 3 of the Marriage Law. If the circumstances are minor and do not constitute a crime, they may also be punished in accordance with the relevant provisions of the Regulations on Administrative Penalties for Public Security.
The above introduces what to do if the old man is prevented from remarriage and what to do if the old man is opposed by his children. I hope it will help the 55-year-old aunt find a wife!
The 55-year-old aunt has everyone, and so does her wife. What kind of aunt are you? What kind of wife are you looking for?
According to the physical condition of modern people, rural aunts are very old at the age of 55, and usually prepare coffins. As the days passed, the idea of finding a wife was basically gone, and it was not easy to find it.
Not only rural people, it is not easy to find people with poor conditions, unless they are retired cadres or rich people who seek "nannies" after their spouses are widowed, but what is the point? Even if he comes on purpose, he can't do it.
Rich "wives" are available and easy to find. Maybe everyone blames me, but there's nothing I can do. Now is the money society.
Nowadays, science and technology are developed, and there are good methods in human body maintenance and facial makeup. There are many women in their fifties and sixties who look ten or twenty years younger than their actual age.
If you look young and have a good mental state, you will have emotional and sexual needs. In addition, you have several family assets. Finding someone to rely on your feelings can not only meet your physiological needs, but also won't waste your life.
However, compared with young people, the remarriage of the elderly involves a wide range of issues, such as economy, real estate, health and children. If you have great financial support, these problems can be ignored, otherwise, you must think twice before you act.
If both parties have a certain retirement fee, they are generally calm after remarriage, and the old couple live alone, and the sunset is red; One side goes first, and the other side also has a source of life, so that they can spend the rest of their lives safely; When you can't take care of yourself, there are many old-age care institutions now, and all the problems can be solved.
If one party is in financial difficulties and the other party is not particularly strong, you should not consider remarriage. Young couples will always be partners. Since we are companions, there are not so many emotional factors in it. If they live together, they will definitely regret it for money in the future.
When you are old, you can only rely on each other. If one party is in poor health, the life after remarriage will be very painful. Because both sides are old and frail, they need to be taken care of by others, and they both have the energy and physical strength to take care of each other after a long illness.
Some children are not enterprising, unwilling and unable to take care of the elderly, but rely on providing for the elderly. If this happens at home, don't drag others down.
Should be easy to find. 55 years old, still in youth.
A cousin of mine divorced when her child was in her twenties.
Because the other party is too scum, I won't say the specific reasons. .
Since then, she has never remarried. For the sake of the child (boy), people around her advised her to find another one.
But she was afraid that it would be bad for her children after looking for it, so she has been alone.
Until a few years ago, after the children went to college, they got married and had their own small family.
May be more and more lonely, cousin this just remember looking for an object.
Although my cousin is in her fifties, she is young and pays great attention to maintenance.
Usually dressed like a little girl.
Children have no burden after marriage, so they go out to travel if they have nothing to do.
So it doesn't look like a 50-year-old at all,
Introduced me to a 45-year-old small fresh meat.
Well, maybe not too young, but it is said that it is the first marriage.
Because the family is poor, running a business to make money has delayed the marriage.
So they're together.
After marriage, the little boyfriend is very kind to his cousin.
I usually run business outside, cook for my cousin when I get home, and do housework very diligently.
There should be red envelopes on Valentine's Day, Chinese New Year and Christmas.
Not much, but it's also a small surprise.
Cousin's children also support mom's decision.
I think as long as my cousin is happy.