If you want to get rid of the bondage of reality, you must overcome it. First of all, can you solve the problem of food and clothing and housing, and can you provide food and clothing and happy conditions for your family? If you can be self-sufficient and support your family and children, then you are free outside work.
If you can support them without working and have some savings, you will be more free. You can go anywhere you want, and you can do anything you want. Because it can support the family.
28 years old, it's time to get married. You should have a stable girlfriend or a happy family. I have a stable job and some savings. It is not easy to get rid of the shackles of reality, because you have your responsibilities. You may be a father, you may take care of your children, and you may be a husband. You should be considerate of your wife's feelings, work for her and help her earn money to support her family. You are still a son and have to support your parents.
But if you have money, you can earn money easily, or you have enough savings to experience life, you can enjoy life after taking responsibility. Otherwise, you are an irresponsible person who only cares about your own enjoyment.
Therefore, if you want to live a free life, you must first assume your own responsibilities. If you want to get rid of the material burden, you must first solve the material problem. If you want to get rid of the mental burden, then you don't owe anyone. Pay back what you owe others, and you will be free.