Everyone loves beauty, especially girls. Whether in rural or urban areas, whether the family is rich or poor. Girls' clothes, shoes and socks, appearance and dressing will not be too shabby. If a girl's house is dressed in rags, it will not only hinder the weathering, but also attract the attention of the bad guys. In addition, girls have money since childhood, and their concept of money is relatively weak. They won't sell their hearts or bodies for money. It should be noted that while enriching, it is necessary to prevent the breeding of the mentality of comparison. Once the heart of comparison is strong, material desire will become a bottomless pit, and it will develop in the wrong direction of vanity, which will lead to great disaster over time!
The first is to enrich material living habits. First of all, we should try our best to prepare a superior living condition for our children and help them develop a good outlook on money. The key is to have a good living habit. Parents are role models for their children. Parents should also have family life planning and good habits. Examples speak louder than words. Parents should accompany their children to adhere to these habits, implement these plans, and not compare with others but not be melodramatic. They should sow a habit and reap a life.
The second is the richness of the spiritual world. Parents are the best teachers. If parents read widely, children can cultivate good reading habits, gain more knowledge, let their hearts roam in books and enrich their spiritual world. In addition, let the body travel, parents should take their children closer to nature, go to the wild, travel, broaden their horizons and increase their experience, which can not only increase extracurricular knowledge, but also exercise their will. In addition, girls should also cultivate certain talents, such as art, calligraphy, music or dance, which can not only cultivate good interests and talents, but also cultivate sentiment, improve self-restraint and cultivate temperament.
The third is the richness of literacy. Without virtue, people will not stand, and without virtue, the country will not prosper. Morality is the background color of people, and world outlook, outlook on life and values are the main switches of people. People's moral quality is cultivated from an early age. Therefore, we should pay attention to cultivating children's good moral quality, brave attitude and resolute character. With good moral character, they will have good interpersonal communication and good emotional intelligence in the future.
Fourth, the rich ability to withstand pressure. This is to cultivate children's ability to bear hardships, overcome setbacks and challenges, and dare to solve problems. This requires more active guidance. If there is a problem, tell your child not to be afraid, deal with it calmly, think more and think more ways to temper his strong heart and courage. At the same time, they should also enhance their self-confidence. They are confident that a life span of 200 years is a water hammer.
In fact, not only girls but also boys should be raised well. We just need to grasp the true nature and degree of adequate food and clothing. Every child is a fortune. If he wants to shine in the future, he needs to eat well. Poor and well-fed, don't spoil. We must adhere to the principle of combining leniency with severity, Zhang Chi's golden mean, and scientific methods, and the child's future will be great.