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Yesterday, my friend visited my house and talked about Ma Baonan. She told me that she would rather be single all her life than find Ma Baonan all her life.
She said that she met her blind date last Sunday. At first glance, I felt that this boy was really gentle, male and female, clean and exquisite. Anyway, the first impression is good.
They came out of the coffee shop, and the boy suggested taking a walk in the park, saying that the air in the park was fresh and relaxed at this time.
When friends heard him say this, their affection for him rose one step further.
Because friends always think that there are really not many boys who like to visit the park now. Everyone likes to go to bars, disco and play games, and seldom talks about going to parks where uncles and aunts gather. She suddenly felt that this boy was very cute and knew how to keep in good health.
Because my friend is a health expert among our young sisters, who knows a little about Chinese medicine and has a special liking for foot bathing. Like a star, she studies various health preserving methods at home.
My friend said that when he suggested visiting the park, they really visited the whole park. She is still wearing high heels, and her feet are blistered.
Halfway through, she suggested, "Why don't we sit down?"
And that boy said very seriously: "My mother said, take a walk after dinner and live to be ninety-nine."
My friend looked dumbfounded and said, "Look, I'm really tired of walking in high heels, and there are few people and the scenery is good." Let's have a rest. "
After that, the blind date looked at her again and again with a strange look and said, "You shouldn't wear high heels. If I go out to play with my mother, my mother won't wear these shoes. You'd better stop wearing it. "
When we first met, she could do nothing. She can't quarrel with people because of a trivial matter. Reluctantly, she accompanied him around the whole park.
On the way, the boy called his mother more than five times, saw beautiful flowers and green trees, and even took pictures of two children bickering and sent them to his mother.
She was speechless during the whole process, just rolling her eyes. She tried to escape several times. The thought that after all, it was introduced by her family, she looked at the Buddha instead of the monk, and she had to put up with this mother-in-law man.
When my friend talked to me about it, he said angrily, "This blind date man is a wonderful and proper baby boy, which is terrible. You must stay away from that baby boy in the future, which is very scary. "
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Coincidentally, after listening to a friend telling me about her blind date with a baby girl, I couldn't help telling her about another baby girl.
I also heard it from my cousin.
Last week, my cousin was hospitalized. In the middle of the night, I chatted with WeChat about a mother and son in the next bed.
Said that the patient had just finished surgery that night, and his mother insisted on turning on all the ward lights and stayed with her son all night. The people in the ward advised her and even complained, but it was useless.
In this way, in the next few days, the mother was afraid that her baby son would be uncomfortable. When her son moved a little, she made a fuss, called all the nurses and doctors and said what happened to her son. Look. As a result, everything was normal as soon as the doctor checked.
Her son frowned. She probably thought his life was in danger.
Cousin said it was a pair of clown mother and son, which was wonderful.
My son looks very old. He is at least 25 years old. He still calls his mother all day. "Mom, I want to eat oranges" for a while, and "Mom, your little baby has to pee." I heard her goose bumps flying all day.
Most importantly, they don't know how to avoid suspicion.
No matter how much his mother dotes on his children, his son is a mature adult man. He doesn't know how embarrassed it is to go to the toilet to scrub his body. It is convenient for her mother to do these things, and her son is very happy to enjoy his mother's service.
It is said that in the eyes of China people, even if you are 80 years old, your parents think you are a child. But we must have a scale.
One afternoon, his mother waited on her precious son and chatted with my cousin. At first, she said that my cousin looked knowledgeable. After these days of observation, she should have a good job and family, and her friends should be similar.
After almost laying the foundation, he said: "My son is 27 years old and has no object until now. We also have a house and a car at home. He has a steady job, but his personality is slow, so he hasn't had a girlfriend so far. You should be surrounded by girls with similar conditions to you. See if you can introduce a better girl to my son. "
My cousin smiled and said nothing, thinking, "Whoever marries your son will be in trouble for eight generations."
A normal adult man, like an unweaned baby, hides in his mother's arms all day. Who can stand such a man and a girl from a normal family?
For everyone, family is the most important person in life, but everyone is an independent individual in the world, so we should treat our family correctly.
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Speaking of mambo, I searched some topics about mambo on the Internet, and saw a girl in Weibo contribute that after getting married, she found out that her husband was an out-and-out mambo.
Before she got pregnant, they lived apart from their parents, and her husband went back to his parents' house almost every day.
I often go back to his parents' home for dinner after work. I won't be back until after ten o'clock. She is the only one who goes home every day. She was abandoned and didn't feel at home.
They quarreled many times about it, but nothing came of it.
After pregnancy, the husband let his mother live here, ostensibly to take care of her, but actually to facilitate him.
Like an outsider, she watched mother and son go out to buy food together, cook and chat at home together, just like lovers in love, and she was bored to death.
Even my husband's underwear was washed by his mother.
What shocked her most was that her husband said that something seemed to grow on her ass and it hurt a little. His mother said she wanted to see it. If she hadn't stopped him, his mother would have stripped his underwear.
To this end, she had a quarrel with her husband. Her husband felt nothing and said confidently, "That's not another woman, that's my mother. When I was a child, he (she) didn't see and touch which part of my body. Now let's see what happened. " And accused her of making a mountain out of a molehill.
The expectant mother said that her three views were shattered, and she really didn't know what to do, asking for advice from netizens.
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Mother plays a very important role in everyone's life. She was pregnant in October and risked her life to bring you into this world. She loves you the most in the world.
From starvation to babbling, to every stage of growth, the role of mother is indispensable. It seems that we have developed the habit of relying on her since childhood, and the first thing that comes to mind when we are happy and sad is always our mother.
You can be born as a man, you always have to grow up, and you have to hold up a sky by yourself.
"The thread in the hands of a loving mother makes clothes for the wayward boy's body." Motherly love is great. We are like the stars in the sky, all of which are independent. Motherly love will not make us all parasites, nor will it raise parasites.
When we were young, we depended on our mother. When we grow up, we will become our mother's support.
Many people say Ma Baonan, but there are indeed many Ma Baonan, so everyone must keep their eyes open and stay away from Ma Baonan.
It's not terrible to meet Ma Baonan. The terrible thing is to marry Ma Baonan. That was the beginning of a nightmare.
Ma Baonan is mother-centered. In their minds, a daughter-in-law can remarry, but there is only one mother.
If you accidentally marry your mother, if your mother can handle it, what you are most afraid of is that the man is a mother and the mother treats her son as a baby. It's terrible.
There is a more terrible phenomenon, that is, in Ma Baonan's eyes, he should be the most important person for his son, and his wife and children should be sidelined. If the son is partial to his wife, then the mother will cry and hang herself.
I have to say that if a woman doesn't have a strong heart, it's better not to provoke Ma Baonan. You know, men can be juxtaposed with domestic violence men and derailed men, and the seriousness can be imagined.
This article originated from The Story of a Flower Shadow. Huaying story, the story in your heart, wakes you up at dawn and sleeps with you at night.