In the past, most people gave their babies to their mother-in-law, and the couple fled for their lives. Because there was a lack of clothes and food at that time. I can't take care of my children and go out to work to earn money in order to eat enough and maintain my family's economic expenses.
Modern society has passed the era of insufficient food and clothing. At the same time, the pressure of life and work is also great. Who should take care of the baby? Tell me about myself.
From the moment the child was born, I decided to bring it myself. Whatever I bring, at least I don't regret it.
What's the difference between grandma and mom taking care of the baby?
If the child is full, I won't let him eat. Eating too much can also lead to food accumulation, which is not good for children. If the child is not hungry by dinner time, I won't do it, and I'll give it to him when he is hungry.
Grandma thinks children should eat more, grow up, eat less but be nutritious. Eating more is better than eating less. When it's time to eat, whether the child is hungry or not.
I thought that my second sister called me the other day and said that there was a grandmother near him who was nursing her children. The child is estimated to be over one year old, and his grandmother fed him a big bowl of rice, which is for adults. Give him food when he is full. The child is chubby. Hearing this, I felt very sad and sympathized with the child. I'm thinking about his parents, too. Let such a young child work at home. I really feel sorry for myself.
Just like yesterday, my mother-in-law took her children out to play, and we lived in the village. Most people in the village have a hobby of playing cards and watching cards.
I don't like playing cards and I don't like old brands. My mother-in-law likes both. During lunch break in dog days, my mother-in-law is often called away by a phone. Even when playing cards, hot clothes are wet, which doesn't affect her enthusiasm for playing cards at all.
Before I went out, I knew there were many people playing cards at the back of my house. At that time, I thought my mother-in-law would not take her children there to play. I didn't tell her either.
After they went out, I began to write the second big homework, finished an article from the media and stood for an hour.
When I stood in the yard for 57 minutes, I heard my mother-in-law's voice coming from the backyard. I know my mother-in-law still takes her children to see the cards.
I want to stand for 60 minutes, so I quickly climbed the stairs to see my mother-in-law holding her child at the old brand.
I locked the door and ran only in the direction of the child. When I arrived, I heard my mother-in-law loudly say to her child, "You always press the button, so it must be silent." Children go out to listen to mushroom music.
It is estimated that the child is there. She was not at ease with the old brand, so she yelled at the child. I ran there, said to the child, "Come home with my mother," and brought the child back.
Let him stay in seek fortune for oneself, play the piano, listen to the enlightenment of temperament, or play something else.
I'm not angry. I came back thinking about the difference between a mother-in-law and a baby.
I take care of my baby just to make him happy and learn something, even if it's going out to other people's homes to pick corn and peanuts or to see the natural scenery outside. But I don't like to show my children cards.
Grandma likes playing cards and watching cards, so she likes to take all the places with her. Whether the child is happy or not. Just be happy.
When I got home, I told my mother-in-law that it was ok to watch the mobile phone, but not in front of the children. That's what I did. My child is almost three years old. They didn't even look at the phone I asked for.
Once she took her children out to play, and when she came back, the children asked her grandmother for a mobile phone to watch. I knew it. My mother-in-law must have shown him her mobile phone. I asked my mother-in-law
My mother-in-law said people were playing cards there, and she always let me watch them for a while.
I say you bring him back when he is noisy, and you can't show him his mobile phone.
I think it must be the mother-in-law who wants to look at the cards herself, and the children don't want to stay there honestly before they can send the children away with their mobile phones.
This is the story of my mother-in-law and I taking care of the baby. Of course, it is undeniable that mother-in-law loves children.
This is my opinion. If you have any comments, please comment in the comments section.