Core Tip-We know each other because of our business relationship. He works well and is deeply loved by his subordinates. After a few weeks of knowing each other, he showed a good impression on me intentionally or unintentionally, and often asked me to have dinner and chat with him. From my contact with him, I know that he is eight years older than me, single at present and has had two failed marriages. The first marriage lasted for three years. Later, his wife had an affair and didn't mean to repent. He couldn't bear to ask for a divorce. The second marriage lasted only one year. But according to him, he didn't know why his second marriage failed, and his ex-wife left him without warning or reason, which made him unable to understand. After two marriages, he said that he almost lost confidence in marriage until he met me ... I couldn't decide whether to go out with Tamia Liu or not, and I didn't know what to do. Although he has been committed to talking about marriage, he is hesitant ... ● Noble Hao once thought of a jingle saying that a man who has been divorced once is a treasure, and a man who has been divorced twice is a grass. After being divorced once, I have more ideas about my future life. Divorced once, I have more regrets about my last family life. Once divorced, the understanding of love will be more profound. Having been divorced once, I have gained another layer of understanding and experience about women. Divorce once is also a baptism of your soul. Therefore, the man at this time is a treasure! Because of too many feelings, men gradually become perfect, mature and vicissitudes. He will face others with a stronger sense of responsibility, he will face the next generation with more efforts, and he will face his future lover with longer love, if any. He will face the next relationship with deeper emotions, and he will face the next life with a better attitude. Zhang Aiying (Deputy Editor-in-Chief of Urban Women's Newspaper of Jinan Newspaper Group)-The complexity of a man's marriage history may lead to two kinds of mentality. One is that divorce is "slippery". If you don't agree with a word, you will leave immediately and don't care. The second is to understand that happiness is hard to come by and cherish the existing life more. For a woman, no matter what kind of situation you encounter, it is basically impossible to expect her to be self-disciplined from now on, or to expect God to give you a perfect prince charming. I quite agree with the writer Zhang Xianliang's sentence "Men are half women". Like a man, like him now, it doesn't matter how many times he has been married and how many roads he has taken. What matters is whether you have the confidence to be his last woman. What I see is that some women now think that older men will be considerate, and divorced men will cherish their newlyweds more. In fact, this is just a common idea and unreliable. Because people spend a hundred, all kinds of colors. Some older men bully young wives, cheat with his rich experience, oppress with his more cultural knowledge, and even force young women to submit with their strength advantage. To put it mildly, some big men find a young wife just to make her younger, more obedient and satisfy their sexual desire. Isn't that what it is for you? Between husband and wife, I don't even tell you his salary; If you are ill, he won't help you and usually won't give you a penny. How is this like a husband? Especially with a beautiful young wife like you, who often hangs around the hotel room in the middle of the night, this is called accompanying the leader. Is it really to accompany the leader? As you said, even a leader can't be a red light and a green light every night. Always so ridiculous! Besides, he won't let you touch his mobile phone. Even if he goes home to take a shower, he is locked in a drawer, for fear that you will find out the secret hidden inside. Don't trust your wife so much: first, there must be something you don't want to know in your mobile phone, and second, this attitude of protecting your wife is the biggest disrespect for you. Of course, husband and wife should have their own space, but they can't prevent their relatives who share the same bed from being like thieves. From here, you have to think about why your husband was divorced once before, and then divorced again, completely taking marriage as a joke: the main reason is that he is not serious and loyal to marriage. Judging from his marriage history, it was not his first two wives who betrayed him, but he betrayed them. Otherwise, his second wife won't break up with him less than a year after marriage, and he said to you, "If you don't get along, leave!" " It proves that it is difficult for a woman to get along with him because of his unfaithfulness. Breaking up in the end is in line with the divorce law. You are now standing at the crossroads of your life. Women always want to get married more than men. Women are weak, and marriage seems to have a dependence. For men, marriage seems to be a loss of freedom. For an old hand in love, getting married is more cruel, which means that you can't have a story with another woman in your life. The one who doesn't want to get married can always list many reasons when facing the one who wants to get married. Some even look grandiose: I want to lay a good economic foundation and let you live a good life; It doesn't feel good to maintain the romance of love; Maybe you can find something better than me … I always feel that there are four words written behind all the reasons: not enough love. If you really like someone, you will want to accompany her to the old age and feel that there is no better person in the world than her. Even if you lose the chance to fall in love with everyone, you should step into the "wall" with her and lose your freedom happily. You already have the best flowers, so what are you looking forward to? One wants to get married, the other wants to fall in love, and there is already a deviation when starting. How can the results match? Zhen Xuan and Qing Xiang get along well, but unfortunately their love motives are different, so they have to go their separate ways. If we had made it clear before everything started, we wouldn't have had such a big misunderstanding and wasted so much time. However, don't be so disappointed. The right to communicate with Qing Xiang should be a beautiful episode.