1) The time when you were born does not necessarily determine your fate. The date of the lunar calendar is just a symbol, which may not really affect your life.
2) Just because the clock has stopped doesn't mean luck. Generally speaking, it is inaccurate to judge fate by these external symbols.
3) Some people say that it is unreasonable for the land to have a bad birthday. Every birthday is actually not bad, it depends on how you grasp the opportunity of life.
4) Whether you live a long life depends mainly on your living habits and genes, not your birthday or birth time. Proper diet and exercise can prolong life.
5) You feel that you have neither happiness nor luck, which is not conducive to life. People's mentality will affect luck.
6) The most important thing is how to control your own destiny. Your destiny is mainly in your own hands: correct thinking attitude, active choice and positive change, always in your own hands.
7) Don't define it by birthday or birth time. The meaning of your life is not when you were born, but how you choose your own life direction.
So my suggestion is: don't care too much about these external symbols, focus on what kind of person you want to be, establish a positive attitude, face your own destiny actively, and believe that you can change your destiny.
I hope the above analysis can provide you with reference. Your destiny is in your own hands. Fight for the life you want.