1. It is easy to have big differences in thought.
It is said that there is a generation gap at the age of three, even among peers, it is not always possible to figure out what the other person is thinking. The bigger the age gap, the bigger the difference between the two people's outlook on life, values and world outlook will be. Besides, women's psychological age is always more mature than men's. If women are older, their ideas will be more stable and mature than men.
Young men are more active and bold, while older women pay attention to stability and security. A dispute between a radical, a conservative and two factions will certainly have the same result as fire and water.
The contradiction is in this irreconcilable different idea, getting bigger and bigger, and will eventually move towards separation! In this case, the love between brother and sister is hard to bear good results!
2. Men are not in a hurry to get married, but women are more anxious.
For a woman who is in love with her brother and sister, time is the most precious. A woman may be almost thirty, so she always wants to marry a man and start her own family. However, men are in their early twenties and have just entered the society. They are not deeply rooted, inexperienced and have a shallow economic foundation. For men, marriage always feels like a distant thing. When women are anxious to get married, men are still indifferent to marriage.
For men, marriage means greater responsibility and heavier pressure. Men don't want to get involved in the field of marriage at a young age and linger under the weight of marriage.
Women's time is precious, but the love between brothers and sisters is the most time-consuming, and there is a risk of drawing water with a sieve. How many women can take such a big risk?
3. The resistance will be greater.
In love, if a man is older than a woman, people are basically fine with it. But if women are older than men, and two or three years older than men, then this kind of sibling love will face more severe challenges and stronger resistance!
First of all, parents, who generally cannot accept women much older than their sons, must resolutely oppose the continued development of this relationship. Secondly, relatives and friends will also point and advise men!