Seeing through wineries and lakes, you can socialize with your heart.
In China, many things are done on the wine table. There is an old saying about drinking that "the more you play, the closer you get", which means that drinking can bring people closer. However, let's take a look at China's wineries, which are varied and varied, just like "battlefields".
The wine field is subtle everywhere.
Drinking, there is too much knowledge, wine field is subtle, you can write a good textbook, you can't read the face and rules under the etiquette of Chinese wine field, you will be sacrificed on the battlefield of wine table:
-some people hide their faces with wine, speak their minds straight, and don't even avoid their backs;
-some people drown their sorrows in wine, do whatever they want, and even lead to farce. They always feel that "I'm drunk and can't remember clearly" can clear the relationship and advance and retreat freely;
-Some people drown their sorrows in wine, rhetoric and conceit, and there will always be a shield that "what they say after drinking doesn't count" for the future.
-someone put a wine bureau, be overbearing, show strength. ...
The unspoken rule of China Winery is that you can drink a lot of wine on the spot and still be "decent".
-"Drunkenness without virtue" is naturally the most annoying;
-"Talking too much after drinking" also makes leaders or others upset and unstable in their work. Where can I get a promotion?
-the drunken behavior of "no size, no rules" is an immature performance;
-"Telling the truth after drinking" often falls into the trap of others; Many people think they are spontaneous after drinking, but in fact, "spontaneity" is the fruit of comfort given to you by others; In the eyes of others, honesty is "decline".
Being "decent" after drinking is a sign of a person's self-control and maturity. "Can drink, can persuade, listen to persuade" is a good performance of observing the rules behind the wine field, and it is the drinking standard of the wine field in reality.
The rule on the wine table is a face. You can't lose face to others, and you can't lose face to yourself. Pay attention to the sincerity of wine and drink it properly. The most crucial ending is "wine all over your face." Some people don't invite to the scene and don't give face to the main family; Someone invited him but didn't go, which is not worthy of giving face to the host family; If you don't have enough face, you have to invite people with face to join. If you can get someone with a face, it's your face. Being able to respect others' wine is to support the "respected person" and add face to yourself; It is your face that advises others to drink; Being able to accept being persuaded to drink is to give each other face; Find an excuse to persuade wine, indicating that you are smart;
Wine fields are rivers and lakes, and fame and fortune are behind them. Therefore, the wine show, the guest and the host are orderly, and the diners cheer, so please put the guests in place, otherwise they will return in vain; Accompanied by wonderful, otherwise incompetent; If invited, be sincere and hearty, otherwise it will be difficult to continue. Everyone knows his role in wine field. Mutual respect and mutual accommodation, the more you drink, the more you blush, and you will always break up.
Wine field card, show your true colors
I once heard a friend say that "wine tastes good because it really tastes bad". Everyone knows that big wine is harmful, but we must try our best to persuade friends, customers and leaders to accompany us, and we must drink too much and get drunk and vomit. This "wine field paradox" is actually a "wine field strategy" that succumbs to cultural habits. Everyone who drinks is observing others and showing himself while drinking.
The true face of the "faceless" wine field is completely exposed. Generally, there are two situations:
All the secrets: drinking big wine is to get you down, and you will show your true colors and look old! It seems that everyone will feel at ease and friends can do it. This is called no discord, no concord, which makes the relationship drunk.
Exaggerated: "Walking around makes the wine crazy." Who is too arrogant, the child is full of orpiment, but I don't know, I am too young. "You are drunk, rude, observing and denying. ...
In fact, the free and easy "Brewmaster" of "a hundred poems of Li Bai's fighting for wine, sleeping in Chang 'an restaurant" and "the son of heaven called him not to board the boat and called himself Brewmaster" is not suitable for the reality of Chinese wine fields, and is often regarded as a scholar's field with closed doors and narcissism. ...
In ancient times, there were many descriptions about the beauty of drinking, such as "Oh, let a man with spirit take risks where he likes, and never point his golden cup at the moon!" " "We open your window, overlook the garden and fields, and talk about mulberry and hemp with the cups in our hands" and "luminous wine glasses, advise you to drink pipa immediately". The beauty of poetry floats in the sky, and the harm of wine falls to the ground.
The harm of heavy drinking to health, others and society is well known: frequent heavy drinking can cause cardiovascular and cerebrovascular diseases, such as hypertension, hyperlipidemia, fatty liver, hyperglycemia, coronary heart disease, myocardial infarction and cerebral thrombosis. These diseases are the obvious result of drinking too much, and they are bound to happen. Many alcoholics comfort themselves with their youth and health. As everyone knows, the onset of these diseases is only a matter of time, and these diseases are only a matter of time.
When people are addicted to alcohol, they will become more and more negative, their mental outlook will become worse and worse, their moral self-discipline will become more and more lax, and the standards of beauty and ugliness will become more and more blurred. If they drink too much and get drunk, it will inevitably lead to a scandal, and their family and friends will also be implicated.
China's wineries can't change people and the style of wine. How can they be harmonious, and they won't hurt themselves, their stomachs, their leaders and their customers if they drink too much? My suggestion is to change the wine to a decent wine that has a saying and cares about other people's health.
The magazine Caizhi Life published by China Merchants Bank for VIP guests introduced a new product of "Bailisheng Health Wine", which is very memorable. It can be said that the fresh atmosphere of the wine field, the spiritual implication of "a hundred herbs are good for health and great harmony", the drinking style of "the wine field is in the middle" and the "closing the door" of the wine field of "benefiting others and benefiting themselves" are all positive changes in wine culture, and to put it bluntly, it is also a change in lifestyle. When people can't get rid of the wine field war, they struggle painfully and are eager to get out of the quagmire and surpass life, white appears. In the face of many people's troubles in the wine field, Bai Lisheng gave a "big wine solution".
First of all, Bailisheng has the background of western wine culture and a strong sense of cultural ceremony. It is elegant, temperate and full of life atmosphere. When people serve a cup of Bailisheng, which is not inferior to the first-class dry red wine, they will not think of binge drinking, which will have a harmonic and inhibitory effect on the wine field where white wine is indulged.
Secondly, Bailisheng is the first wine with health care function approved by the State Administration of Pharmaceutical Products. Bailisheng's health care function of "nourishing qi and blood, nourishing liver and kidney, and dredging the five meridians" can make the next day more comfortable after drinking a lot, so as not to be listless, dull-headed and unwilling to eat. To put it simply, liquor hurts qi and blood, liver and kidney, and bailisheng supplements qi and blood and liver and kidney; The health care function of Bailisheng can resist the harm of big wine.
Thirdly, Bailisheng was accepted by the wine field because it is a wine itself, not a hangover cure, not a fruit juice drink, not to escape the battle on the wine table, but also a kind of high-grade health dry red wine with good taste, which combines the subtleties of Chinese and Western cultures. The appearance of Bai changed the "thinking mode" of both offensive and defensive in wine field culture, and guided the gentlemen in the bureau to the road of "benefiting others and benefiting themselves". Bai doesn't want to completely change anything, but wants to promote harmony. Bai in the wine field advocates a "peaceful and balanced" wine field philosophy, because the effect of Bai makes Bai a symbol of "caring for yourself and others", and this spirit of benefiting others and others is a harmonious attitude towards life, which makes the subtext of "whether it is successful or not" in the wine field become "caring for life is the most successful attitude". Even if we can't change or advocate anything to say the least, then, "drinking revolutionary wine every day is beneficial."
Have a glass of thyme, let life taste, let inner dignity take root between you and me, let helpless crying stay away from us, and let us all have a healthy attitude towards life!
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