This is a set daily goal, which is a good goal for your own growth, but it never lasts for a long time, only three or four days at most. Think about it or you will continue to stick to it.
Just like I paint now, I have no motivation and don't even know how to paint better.
Speaking of persistence, in fact, this is a way without motivation, a way to force myself to take action, not to say that it is useless, but that it is difficult for me to continue.
We always see the long-term things, but forget what is happening now. If you want to do something, imagine it first, or even fantasize about it. Is it useful to you? Is it really important? Can I do that? It will make it difficult for you to start action, set yourself too many difficulties and goals, and delay starting, so this matter will be put on hold.
Since you can't do it yourself, why set so many goals for yourself?
The following is the content of Chen's "Big Me".
The dichotomy of control requires us to control what we can control, that is, to feel what is happening in front of us more closely. He asked us to look at things and think with strong will.
Unfinished thinking focuses on what is real, happening and recent. These things are fluid and will change constantly under certain circumstances.
Close thinking will lead us to what is happening here and now, but when we think about something forever, we are not in it.
Look at a thing and describe its process, not the decisive evaluation language.
Seeing him walking around on the side of the road and not saying a word after getting on the bus, he should be angry. The last sentence "He should be angry" is an evaluative language.
I'm always emotional and thinking.
Who did you meet or what were you thinking? Who are you dating recently? How do you feel?
Use these questions to describe life in tired language and describe the relationship in life, with the aim of pulling yourself back to reality.
When using a distant language, we always judge the result of a thing first, evaluate whether a thing is useful or not, and then decide whether to do it or not. It seems that we need some kind of commitment to act. But many times, whether a thing is useful or not is not known until it is finished. If we can't put ourselves into doing things, we usually can't do them. Most people believe it because they want to see it with their own eyes. And sometimes, we need to believe and invest to see what we want to see. If we have to predict the result of action in our minds, we will lose the ability to act.
Now that painting has changed its form, I challenge myself to paint in some way. I'm not as happy as I thought, but I'm in a state of focusing on painting.
I asked the teacher, I want to draw long scrolls in the future, what will improve my painting?
The teacher said: "A solid basic skill and the cultivation of imagination and creativity can lay a good foundation for future painting. But it takes a long time to practice. "
It took the teacher 10 years, plus a lifetime of painting skills, to achieve this kind of kung fu that can create long scrolls by himself.
It's hard to know the result of future efforts.
Fortunately, I didn't think so much and couldn't reach the level of a teacher. I just want to do one thing, draw a work that I can stay.
Is my painting useful now?
Near thinking is to develop a language that can accommodate changes. Learning to speak in a closed language means that we are open to "endless processes, changes, differences, levels, functions, relationships, problems and complexities". We will lose some certainty and gain many possibilities.