Give her husband an independent and free space, be considerate and reasonable, and have a selfless spirit towards her husband and children. This selflessness means always putting yourself in the second place, putting her husband and children in the first place, and making selfless contributions to the family; Men long for his wife to be gentle and considerate, considerate, considerate of him everywhere, careful in considering problems and so on. Without losing his temper, unreasonable questioning and tracing. ...

As a mother:

We should also give children room to develop freely, understand children, put themselves in their shoes, and so on. Family environment and atmosphere have a great influence on a child's growth, and both husband and wife try their best to provide a healthy and relaxed family atmosphere for the child.

In the family role, this is a difficult role to play, and there are many things that need to be learned and experienced, and you need to experience and understand the truth slowly. But as long as everything is based on understanding and tolerance, we will handle problems calmly, harmoniously and happily and play a good role!

Men are mud and women are water. Give you a handful of mud, how to hold it depends on how much water, how much water, how much water mixed with mud, how much water, how much water, how difficult it is to shape. Only when the water content is not too much or too much, can the extruded mud be angular, tangible and realistic. A man and a woman form a family, and the happiness of this family depends largely on whether a woman knows how to be a good wife.

First, men are not used to it. It is easy for most women to make mistakes when they treat men as children. The more you treat him like a child, the more he behaves like a child. He doesn't do housework, his meals are open and his clothes are stretched. After a long time, he will no longer look at your efforts with grateful romantic eyes and think that everything is natural. And women are thinner than yellow flowers under the double pressure of housework and work. If they meet people with broken hearts, they can only become miserable dissatisfied wives. So men are not used to it. At the beginning of marriage, when romantic passion is still at its climax, women should strike while the iron is hot, so that men can know that home is the same nest for two people and housework should be shared by two people. Of course, considering men's work and other reasons, women can take on a little more, such as 46-40 housework. Let him learn slowly if he can't do it, and don't try to correct or blame if he can't do it well. Instead, give him comfort and encouragement, let him improve and take responsibility. In the long run, men will form the habit of doing housework. When a man is busy or lazy at work, he naturally wants to flatter you and ask you for help. Later, he will be grateful to you and complacent-my wife is gentle.

Second, according to the man's personality, decide how to take charge of the family economy. After marriage, houses, cars, children's education and so on all need money. So women should take care of their families? What's the matter with you? Pure sharp rhyme? Blow an umbrella D letter? Eggs? Neon baking? If you are angry, will you help me? Hey? What position? Beg? Let's not talk about it. Why are you so lucky? All of them? Mechanical scratches? What's the point? Mechanical scratches? What happened to the ring frame? Hey hey? An appointment? How about John's table tennis? Five to five? Brother Sheng, what is maternal acyl? Is Hui Huan's mother still there? Do you want to travel to the Chinese rose? What's the matter with you? Rural? Pale yellow Hey? What is the lack of manganese? Hi? July? Zhang? Axillary? Hey? In addition, we should report to him regularly-we have saved the money for the next two wheels, and I believe the latter two wheels are not far away, as an encouragement and spur to him. I'm sure he will be obedient to you. For the latter two types of men, you can rest assured that they can manage their own money and even pay their own wages, which will make you feel at ease. Now some men like to hide private money, you should understand the purpose of his hiding. If it's because of playboy, you should resolutely put an end to it, and eradicate his economic security of keeping mistresses. If it is anything else, it is better to pretend not to know. Occasionally, I went to the supermarket, deliberately forgot to bring my wallet, and knocked on him a few times, making him mutter, "The wallet that finally swelled up made you flat again." Ha ha! However, he was very happy-my wife can manage money.

Third, you can't sacrifice your career for men. Many men think that they have a high income or ask their wives to give up their careers and educate their children at home for their own studies. A smart wife must know that without a career, she will lose her self-confidence, which means giving her fate to a man, and the economic foundation determines the superstructure. He will support you when he loves you, but when he doesn't love you? Nowadays, the world is getting faster and faster. Who knows who will become what? I have my own career, and my heart is more practical than anything else. Of course, women should support men in studying, but they can't be full-time housewives. They should constantly improve their taste and connotation, constantly enrich themselves, and strive to narrow the distance between them, so that men will not be laid off in the near future because of the large cultural gap. If you have a career and knowledge, he will only sit up and take notice of you-my wife is still very capable.

Fourth, be kind to men's parents, family and friends. Unfilial men are not worthy of love, and filial men certainly hope that you can love me, love my dog. Some men are afraid that their wives only know how to visit their parents' homes often, but it is difficult to get to their in-laws' homes as if they were separated by a mountain and water. Some people are afraid of having no parents and face the loess in their eyes. Some people are afraid of their wives' stomachaches and haggle over a bowl of water for their parents. Some people are afraid that their wives will drag down their relatives and friends. As a wife, mother, daughter-in-law, sister-in-law and so on, if the relationship between them is not handled well, it will greatly affect the feelings of husband and wife. Men are often rats in bellows. Therefore, a wise wife, who knows how to be kind to her husband's parents and family, takes care of her children, often visits her husband's house, or a greeting call, a family letter and a selected gift can make her husband respect you more than love you-my wife is very reasonable.

Fifth, satisfy men's vanity by the way. Men and women, fighting hard in society, compete with each other, Billy, and sometimes compete with each other for beautiful and smart wives. However, not every woman can be born with beauty. However, different women always have different attractions. Show your beautiful side well and improve your side a little. Even if they are no longer young, they are still full of confidence, elegance and mature charm. Don't be unkempt, giving people the feeling of being a lazy woman. A woman who loves beauty is a landscape to the public, a kind of confidence to herself, a kind of enjoyment to her husband, and satisfies her husband's vanity by the way. Why not? Shopping with her husband, graceful posture wins the loop. Going to dinner with your husband, your generous temperament won everyone's praise. Are you afraid that your husband will not treat you as the apple of his eye and grow old with you? He will proudly think-my wife has the right.

A good wife, like fragrant tea, mellow wine, slightly astringent coffee and indifferent white water, constitutes a man's warm nest.